Month: July 2010

Ice, ice, baby

I was inspired to write this post on my honeymoon, where I found myself surrounded by hundreds of newly married couples (many of them with the same anniversary) — so much for feeling special. Being an inveterate bling-lover, my eyes often wandered to — what else — the women’s ring fingers. And I realized that we were, after all, quite different. I became fascinated with the varieties of engagement and wedding rings out there, and the idea that each person’s set reflected their particular style and individual tastes.

So when I got home I decided to enlist my friends in a little game. Can you guess which rings belong to which gal?

A.                                                                              B.

C.                                                                       D.

E.                                                                              F.

Here are the choices:

1.                                                                                    2. 

3.                                                                                   4.

5.                                                                                    6.

I will post the answers tomorrow. 

Style on a shoe-string

When I decided to start this blog, one of blog titles I briefly considered was “The Budget Fashionista”. Kind of unoriginal, but it does describe my fashion (and shopping) philosophy pretty well. My friends are, by now, familiar with my mantra that everyone can afford quality, if they shop smart. I’ve touched on it here before. But I thought it would be worthwhile to put together a short list of easy shopping strategies that can yield great results.  Here is part one.

1) Get your face- and hair-care products at Winners. It took me a while to start paying attention to the beauty products aisles at Winners because, let’s face it, it’s not what most people visit Winners for. But overlooking it would be a mistake. Winners now routinely carries name brands like RoC, L’Oreal, Olay, Essie, O.P.I., Coppertone, Sebastian, Nioxin, TIGI, Redken, Rusk, Wella, Joico and many others. Prices are often 40-60% less than in drugstores, and you can find everything from face cream, to sunscreen, to shampoo and conditioner, to styling products (and styling tools), to nail polish, and even make-up. Winners also carries perfumes, although I’ve noticed that, lately, the selection has been less extensive than before. The only draw-back is that if you are partial to certain specific products, you may not (always and/or reliably) find them in store. For the most part, I don’t have a set beauty routine (make-up excepted), so this isn’t much of a problem for me. But when I do run into a product I really like, I usually stock up, just in case. Winners offers the additional benefit of occasionally carrying products that are difficult to find elsewhere — like my RoC toner for sensitive skin. 

2) Buy second-hand. I’ve trumpeted the awesomeness of consignment stores before, and I’m going to do it again. There really is no better way to pick up designer clothes at a fraction of the retail prices — at least not locally (I’m not counting eBay because it can sometimes be a bit of a hassle, plus it requires a PayPal account). 
I’ll give you an example, from a recent shopping trip. In total, that day, I spent $115 on a dress and 3 tops. The dress was a Calvin Klein shift made of polyester-rayon blend, which set me back $69.99 at Winners. Not a bad deal for a nice office-appropriate dress. Still, the three tops I bought (at consignment) cost, together, about half that. I got a Jacob Connexion silk camisole, a Club Monaco silk blouse (with original tags still attached), and a Teenflo lace top. The Club Monaco top alone was originally $129, and I got it for $12. 
I will admit that there is a major drawback to consignment stores. You are constrained by the selection, so if you are looking for a specific item or brand, you may or may not have immediate success. Additionally, plus-size selection can also leave something to be desired, although it is possible to find specialized brands (like Torrid) that we don’t otherwise have here in Edmonton. On the other hand, I have never understood people’s reluctance to wear second-hand clothes as a principle. Obviously, there are things (like underwear or swimwear, for example) that I would not buy if they have already been worn. However, these are exceptions. I wonder if people who are against second-hand items imagine that the clothes they buy in stores are made out of ‘virgin’ fabric, untouched by other human hands; they’re not. Chances are, they’ve already been tried on a half a dozen times or more in the store. And laundering all new purchases is easy enough to do.

For designer handbags, the secondary market is particularly useful. Designer handbags are like cars; they lose a lot of their value as soon as they’re taken out of the store. This means that you can pick up great bargains on high-end bags from people looking to sell past years’ models. Kijiji, for example, is a decent place to look. Because most sellers are local, you don’t have to worry about shipping, and you can arrange to view the item before you buy. One thing I would caution, when buying designer bags generally, is to really do your homework. If you’re not familiar with the bag you’re looking to purchase, look online for buying guides — they will tell you what to look for in the real thing, or what to watch out for in fakes (eBay is actually a good source for this). Certain brands, like Coach and LV, have a ton of guides out there that tell you everything you need to know to spot an authentic bag from a knock-off. Generally speaking, any high-end designer bag sold online for under $200 will most likely be a fake, although I have also seen fakes selling for upwards of $400 (often touted as authentic). You’re more likely to find a good (and genuine) bargain on an older model than on this month’s hot new handbag. Try to speak to the seller beforehand, and go with your gut feeling; I hate to sound petty, but poor spelling is often a bit of a warning sign. With all that in mind, over the years, I’ve been able to get some amazing deals on (authentic) bags from brands like Coach, Kate Spade and, yes, Louis Vuitton — I’m talking up to 80% off the original price. 

3) Don’t be a snob. I know — this is kind of an ironic heading, given my love of labels, but it still applies. Don’t be afraid to shop at big-box stores like Superstore or Zellers, especially for basic items like cotton tanks and tee’s, cardigans or flip flops. A lot of these places have jumped on the bandwagon of ‘store brands’ or ‘store collections’ — like Joe Fresh or Alfred Sung (for Zellers) — and their clothes can be quite nice … and extremely well-priced. I’ve talked about Joe Fresh before, but I’ve also come to love the Sung collection (especially for their really cute cashmere-blend cardi’s). Old Navy is also great for basic cotton tops, and the best for flip flops (a wide variety for as low as 2/$6). In the States, Walmart has the Norma Kamali line, pictures of which I’ve seen from time to time in magazines (cute), but, unfortunately, which does not appear to have arrived up north yet. Big box stores often have a bad rep for carrying polyester monstrosities, but they really are trying these days … you should give them a chance.

So … what about you? Share your money-saving fashion tips in the comments — hey, I’m always looking to learn something new!

Wedding style

Wedding guests are generally a kind-hearted lot. Maybe it’s the spirit of the day, maybe it’s the free-flowing alcohol, but they tend to be munificent with their compliments. At least that’s was my experience, having been compared to Grace Kelly more times on my wedding day than in the rest of my entire life (the count previously standing at exactly zero, to be precise). In any event, I won’t quibble over the reasons, since the result was eminently pleasing – better, certainly, than being compared to, say, the bride of Chucky.
Here is a look at my wedding dress:
  Credit: Strictly Photonic                
And here’s a close-up:
                             Credit: Daphne Chen Photography