Month: October 2012

The Remix Challenge: week 5

Sunday, October 14: errands

Coat, Joe Fresh; jeans, American Eagle; top, Winners; boots, Winners; bag, Coach (vintage); nail polish, Zoya Jana

This is about as fashionable as my weekend errand-running outfits can get these days, with the weather being what it is. With that said, I think these rubber boots are pretty darn cute. In case you are wondering, this cape-like jacket does look familiar; it’s an almost exact copy of the black version I wore last week (see Tuesday’s outfit). The only exception: this one’s a Joe Fresh coat, and the other was Club Monaco. Clearly, Joe Mimran was paying tribute to his own designs with this one.

Monday, October 15: work

Skirt, White House Black Market; blouse, Moda International; cardigan, Winners; earrings + bracelet, Swarovski; shoes, Jimmy Choo (thrifted); bag, Chanel; nail polish, Smitten with Mittens

I liked this outfit a lot, and it’s fitting that I wore it on a day when I had lunch at a chic watering spot with one of my favourite ladies. The skirt is part of a suit I almost never wear, because the heavier knit material makes the jacket feel bulky (and overly warm); however, the shape of the skirt works great with the feminine vibe of the blouse, and the patterns are a great match – same colours, but contrasting patterns.

I should also mention that I got a TON of compliments on my nail polish (OPI Smitten with Mittens) – perhaps the most ever! Sadly, it’s a discontinued colour (though not outrageously priced on eBay).

Tuesday, October 16: work

Pants, Theory; blouse, Tommy Hilfiger; jacket, Anthropologie; earrings, Winners; brooch, vintage; shoes, Stuart Weitzman; bag, Marc Jacobs; nail polish, OPI Smitten with Mittens

This Anthropologie jacket was a bit of an impulse buy, which I rarely wear because of its itchiness factor. Note to self: avoid boiled wool as much as possible. However, every time I do wear it, I am reminded about how much I love its silhouette. I also love the colour combo of navy and jade, which is rather underrated.

Wednesday, October 17: work

Pants, The Gap; blouse, Ann Taylor LOFT; jacket, Sisley; shoes, Nine West; bag, Louis Vuitton

What is this, you say? Pants two days in a row? Sacrilege! Just trying to keep things fresh, that’s all. I think the autumnal shades of this outfit work really well with the slight hint of contrasting colour (light blue) in my necklace and nails. Subtle, but perfectly harmonious.

Necklace, Swarovski; nail polish, OPI DS Sapphire

Thursday, October 18: work

Dress, Nine West; necklace, Winners; shoes, Jimmy Choo; bag, Louis Vuitton; nail polish, OPI Suzi Sells Sushi by the Seashore

This dress has been through a lot – in and out of my “purge pile” for over a year now. It looks nice on its own, but it’s not a piece that offers a lot of possibilities for remixing. It just … is. It also happens to be a little on the short side (for work), although that’s balanced by the high neckline and long sleeves. On the plus side, I love the print. Oh, decisions, decisions! What do you think I should do with it: keep it or purge it?

Friday, October 19: work

Dress, Ellen Tracy; blazer, BOSS Hugo Boss; belt, Betsey Johnson; necklace, Tiffany’s; shoes, LAUREN Ralph Lauren; bag, Marc Jacobs

Because I had a client meeting today, my outfit was a notch above my usual “casual Friday” ensemble. I didn’t want to go too far into “conservative suit” territory, though, so I compromised with a blazer and dress.

Saturday, October 20: errands and manicure

Pants, H&M; top, Joe Fresh; scarf, consignment; trench, The Gap; boots, Winners; bag, Longchamps

Can you believe that this was the next day? Yep, snow in October – gotta love Edmonton! On the plus side, Luka turned 15 months today! I think I will stop counting monthly “birthdays” when I start feeling like I have a grip on this whole motherhood thing. So, in about, oh, ten years? Fingers crossed.

In case you are curious, I get my nails “did” every 4 weeks, and it simply entails putting a layer of clear gel over my natural nails. I used to get a French manicure, but nowadays I forgo the white tips altogether. Since I wear nail polish almost every day, it seemed redundant to bother with them.

I must confess that I am having a hard time devising weekend outfits for the Remix Challenge, because most of my activities include either shopping (or the grocery store or mall variety) or the outdoors. In both cases, utility tends to trump fashion; plus, I am always wearing outerwear over every outfit. In other words, I rarely have a reason to dress up on weekends, and doing so simply for the sake of the challenge seems silly. Once the temperatures dive into “deep freeze” territory, I may have to switch to a 5-days-a-week schedule – assuming that the Remix Challenge is still ongoing!

On that note, wish me luck for next week!

Friday Flashback: Truth, Lies, and Super-powers

This week’s Friday Flashback, originally titled “Paging Mr. Orange”, was first published in February 2009.

One of the many random, esoteric things you probably don’t know about me is the fact that I’m a big Tim Roth fan. There are many reasons for someone to love Tim Roth, but for me the cherry on top of the icing on top of the delicious cupcake has always been Rosenkrantz and Guildenstern Are Dead, where for the price of one admission, you get a double-whammy of Tim Roth and Gary Oldman doing one of the best buddies routines ever captured on film. I can’t say that I’ve been keeping up with Mr. Roth’s career lately, but last night I had the chance to redeem myself. These days, I’m not much of a dedicated follower of TV shows anymore; I’ll watch whatever strikes me as the most interesting option at whatever random time I decide to sit down and catch some rays. It doesn’t help that my TV guide channel has been acting up lately, baiting me with the promise of some Law & Order: Criminal Intent(my love for Vincent D’Onofrio I will save for another day) only to serve up the reality of something like the Biggest Loser – the irony of which doesn’t escape me.But it just so happened that, as I was desperately flipping channels last night – surely, but surely, LO:CI is playing somewhere in the universe at any given time! – I was confronted by a familiar visage: to wit, Tim Roth. In case you haven’t heard, Tim Roth is currently starring in a new show called Lie to Me. The premise is entertainingly far-fetched: he is the world’s leading “deception expert” helping various government bodies detect, well, deception. Basically, he can tell when you’re lying. And, it seems, usually why you’re lying, too. I’ve now seen about ¾ of an episode, and I am very intrigued. I was going to say “hooked” but that’s just begging for disappointment; I have a feeling that the show is going to be cancelled in about 2 weeks. And I won’t lie – Lie to Me, much like the Eleventh Hour(starring the excellent and under-appreciated Rufus Sewell) is lucky to have an actor of great caliber at its forefront; the dialogue and plot lines are on par with those of a second-rate episode of CSI (original flavour, of course). What it also benefits from, however, is interesting source material.The show is based in part on the work of Dr. Paul Ekman, renowned for his research on facial recognition and body movement. [In fact, Dr. Ekman is a consultant for the show.] Among other things, he was the first person to demonstrate that certain facial expressions are universal rather than culturally-determined. And he went out of his way, literally, to prove it. When shown pictures of human faces wearing different expressions (anger, sadness, happiness), tribesmen in Papua New Guinea could identify their non-verbal message with the same accuracy as test subjects in North America.

Non-verbal language is a fascinating topic. There are plenty of occasions when, for reasons I can’t really articulate, I’ve gotten ‘hunches’ about certain people. I’m not, as far as I know, a “deception expert”, and it’s not always lying that ‘pings’ my radar, but there have been times when I’ve felt as though I could almost tell what the person in front of me was thinking (and trying not to show). It is a strange feeling; it’s as if, let’s say, all of a sudden, you are able to see a third eye on someone’s forehead – a third eye that’s been there all along but, for some reason, is only apparent now.

I don’t consider myself a particularly observant person. Put kindly, I live too much inside my own head. Put more bluntly, I have a tendency to be a little self-absorbed (and if you want to go blunter still, remove the “little”). I’m sure that many, many “tells” (those micro-expressions that betray the inner emotions or thoughts we might otherwise wish to conceal) escape through the large sieve of my obliviousness. Though I’m loath to make broad generalizations, I think the same is true for a lot of people. Watch two people having a conversation. While one is talking, the other is most likely doing one of the following things: thinking about what they want to say next time they get a chance to speak; wondering what kind of impression they are making; worrying about whether they have something in their teeth; checking out their manicure/reflection in a nearby surface/the cutie who just walked by; making up their weekly grocery list. They are paying selective attention to what is being said, but it’s rarely enough to catch the infinitesimal nuances, especially of the non-verbal kind.

Along with being a selfish jerk who doesn’t listen to everything you say, I’m also frequently self-conscious. In truth, this is actually the main reason why I’m a selfish jerk who doesn’t listen to everything you say. I’m just too darn worried about (a) inadvertently putting my foot in my mouth next time I open it (no, not literally); (b) fidgeting too much; (c) coming across as a total bitch. See, I have a lot on my mind! The times when I’ve been able to get a “read” on someone have most often been times when I felt very relaxed for one reason or another. I wasn’t thinking about (a), (b) and (c) and, consequently, was able to devote my entire attention to the person in front of me. And, like I said, it’s amazing what you can find out that way.

In a 2002 article published in the New Yorker, Malcolm Gladwell wrote about Dr. Ekman and the science of face recognition. Quoting Ekman and Silvan Tomkins, Gladwell summarized some of the other, and more surprising reasons (in my opinion), why people are often not very good at reading faces:

This is surely why the majority of us don’t do well at reading faces: we feel no need to make that extra effort. People fail … Ekman says, because they end up just listening to the words. That’s why, when Tomkins was starting out in his quest to understand the face, he always watched television with the sound turned off. “We are such creatures of language that what we hear takes precedence over what is supposed to be our primary channel of communication, the visual channel,” he once said. “Even though the visual channel provides such enormous information, the fact is that the voice pre-empts the individual’s attention, so that he cannot really see the face while he listens.” We prefer that way of dealing with the world because it does not challenge the ordinary boundaries of human relationships. Ekman, in one of his essays, writes of what he learned from the legendary sociologist Erving Goffman. Goffman said that part of what it means to be civilized is not to “steal” information that is not freely given to us. When someone picks his nose or cleans his ears, out of unthinking habit, we look away. Ekman writes that for Goffman the spoken word is “the acknowledged information, the information for which the person who states it is willing to take responsibility.”

Another thing to consider is that, in order to read faces accurately, it seems that you need to pay very close and uninterrupted attention. And that, for better or worse, can often be perceived as rudeness (or worse). Stare at someone intently for too long, and they will likely start to question your motivations or sanity, or both. I suppose that sort of thing works well enough in the interrogation room, but I don’t think it would really fly at a cocktail party. Unless I were a charmingly sarcastic, world renowned deception expert. With an English accent.

Now, you must excuse me: I’m off to pick up a copy of Gladwell’s Blink, and worry about what my face might betray should I ever run into Mr. Roth at a cocktail party.

Editor’s Comments (October 2012): Oh, the days when I used to watch prime-time TV! I miss those days. To give you an idea of how badly out of hand the situation has gotten, I am now almost two entire seasons behind on Downton Abbey. Not to mention Mad Men, True Blood, and a host of other shows I have already forgotten and which, much like Lie to Me, I am afraid, have been cancelled in the interim. But speaking of the actual topic of this post (which is not Tim Roth, in fact), whenever I think about facial recognition, I think about mind-reading, which then makes me think about which super-power I would like to have. [Look, my mind works in strange and circuitous ways, OK?] As it happens, mind-reading would not be it. If True Blood taught me anything (apart from recognizing the hotness of one Alexander Skarsgard), it’s that the ability to hear the thoughts of others is a pesky proposition. Unless you happen to be in a dire situation involving vampires, were-animals, witches,  faeries, and/or assorted other mythical creatures, in which case, it might come in handy. No, my pick would be a toss-up between the power to time travel and the power to teleport at will. A combination of both would be most kick-ass.

What about you – what would you pick as your super-power of choice?

Chanel Infidele

As in past years, Chanel’s beauty guru, Peter Phillips, debuted three limited edition polishes for Fashion’s Night Out, back in September. This year’s trio, called Les Twinsets de Chanel, featured rich, fall-appropriate shades called Provocation, Infidele, and Delicatesse. I was able to have an in-person look at all three, and picked the first two for my ever-growing collection. Today, I bring you Infidele.

Of the three polishes in Les Twinsets (love that name!), Infidele was the one in which I was least interested, based on the promotional materials. First of all, it was described as a “pink”, and I have a love-hate relationship with pink nail polish; I love it, but it mostly hates my skin tone. In photos, it didn’t look promising. As it happens, the promos did not do it justice. In person, Chanel Infidele is a beautiful, deep rose-mauve – neither pink nor burgundy. It’s Rose Confidentiel’s brighter, rosier cousin, although the two colours are dissimilar enough to justify having both. For anyone who found Rose Confidentiel too “old lady”-like, Infidele is the answer.

Chanel Infidele

Application-wise, Chanel Infidele was a dream! The formula is simply perfection. One coat is all I applied in the photo above, and I like the delicate, blush-like finish. For more colour saturation, two coats would be just the ticket.

For my inspired outfit, I followed Infidele’s romantic, feminine vibe and chose my new Ellen Tracy dress. I’m not generally a fan of 70s fashion, but I like the subtle nod to the era here. It’s a floral print – again! – but in muted colours perfect for fall. In fact, this dress is ready-made for the cooler seasons, and great for layering – I can’t wait to experiment with it in the Remix Challenge! I hated the fabric belt that came with the dress, so I substituted my H&M “knot” belt for a bit of “tough chic” contrast.

Dress, Ellen Tracy; belt, H&M; necklace, H&M; tights, HUE; shoes, LAUREN Ralph Lauren

I found the dress in the clearance section at the Red Deer Winners, priced down to $44. A tad bit more than I would normally pay for a synthetic blend fabric, but the retro feel and mixing possibilities won me over. A word on the store, of which I’d heard many fables of overlooked treasures. I would put the Red Deer Winners on par with the Mayfield Common store in Edmonton – not terrible, but by no means a treasure trove. There is no “runway” section (so no big-name designer labels), and the accessory sections are on the weak side. If you happen to be making a pit stop in Red Deer, definitely check it out – but don’t worry about going out of your way to visit it otherwise.