Month: July 2018

What I Wore: July 2-8, 2018

Punk Butterfly

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There is nothing “punk” about this outfit, per se, but butterflies on a leather jacket are butterflies with an attitude, you know? Anyway, I enjoyed this outfit a lot. I call this my “Adventurer feels sassy today” jacket, which is all you need to know about my general mood when I’m wearing it. The brand is Aqua, which I think sells at Bloomingdale, or Nordstrom, or Saks; it originally retailed for $500, but I got mine for a fraction of the price from Jenn (Life Preloved) who thrifted it brand new. I’m pretty inured to the amazing things that people donate, and coming across pieces like this still boggles my mind. Not that I am anything but grateful for it.

Is long over slim – or whatever fashion peeps call throwing a tunic over pants – still a thing? Because I am pretending it is. In my defence, there is no other way of wearing this Wilfred tunic/vest because of those enormous side slits. I’m not mad about it; I’m feeling sassy, remember? These Madewell jeans are also on point, what with the raw hem that drives my mom batty. (Between these jeans and my distressed ones, she’s convinced that I am not capable of picking out normal pants. Sorry not sorry, Mom!) Say it with me: sssssssassy!

Slouchy Chic

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My friends and I had a debate about what BDE means when it comes to style. To me, this is a BDE outfit – and I say that fully cognizant that I, myself, have no BDE whatsoever. Whatever BDE means in terms of personal energy, when it comes to clothes, it boils down to one thing for me: a “give no f**ks” attitude. A height of sartorial BDE would be wearing a literal potato sack down the red carpet. Or, you know, a swan wrapped around your neck. To digress further, Iris Apfel seems like a good example of someone who has sartorial BDE separate and apart from any other personal qualities; in contrast, I think someone like Tilda Swinton has sartorial and personal BDE.

Back to this outfit. Obviously, it does not belong in the same paragraph as any mention of Iris or Tilda, but I do think it nicely illustrates my current mood. A slouchy blazer paired with a sack-like dress and sensibly heeled shoes (Chie Mihara, thrifted, heck yeah!) is not an outfit designed to attract the validation of external attention. It’s designed for maximum wearability, and also to please my inner love of drapey silhouettes. This may not quite be Man Repeller territory, but it’s not too far off. And speaking of which, Man Repeller has a name for this: menocore.

Boho Chic, Again

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The upside of taking the kids to Galaxyland in West Edmonton Mall is that I can make a side-trip to Anthropologie. (The downside should be apparent to anyone who’s been to Galaxyland on the weekend. It’s a zoo.) I rarely visit the store, which is probably best for my wallet. It’s not even the clothes that get me nowadays, but the housewares and the accessories. Like this chunky stone necklace. It’s a little bit Wilma Flintstone, a little bit “third grader’s art project” (which we all know is right up in my wheelhouse), and I fell in love with it in approximately 1.5 seconds. Lucky for my wallet, it was my husband and my anniversary weekend, and he was in a gift-y mood. Which is a good thing, because how cute does this necklace look with my Floreat muumuu? So cute.

Bonus Outfit

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Throwing this one in because I really liked how it turned out. I call this “soft normcore”, which is to say it’s a basic “mom uniform” (chinos and sweater because July in Edmonton means temps in the mid 50s) in a pretty pastel/neutral colour scheme. I added my new favourite necklace because (a) why not; and (b) seriously, why not get a little fancy on a Sunday morning errand run.

What I Read: Ghosts and Titans Edition

Every time I finish watching a really great series, I get into a Netflix slump. So is the current case after Fargo. I can’t seem to be able to motivate myself into starting anything new, even though I’m spoiled for choice. The good news is that means I have more time for reading.

This week, I read the excellent Spook by Mary Roach. I’ve loved her writing ever since I read Stiff, but at some point I lost track of her books. Spook was a good reintroduction; it’s well-researched and full of her usual witty asides. For some reason, I found myself oddly longing for Roach to actually find some scientific evidence of life after death; it’s something that has been on my mind lately, and I struggle with the unknownable-ness (oof, that’s an unwieldy non-word) of it all. It doesn’t surprise me in the least that many people strongly believe in an afterlife, because I can easily imagine how reassuring that would be. Damn my inner cynic/agnostic! I’ve actually been toying with the idea of writing some kind of ghost-based rom-com as a kind of feel-good substitute. Anyway, Spook is a great read, and you should grab all of Mary Roach’s books if you have the chance.

I also tried to read The Uncrowned King by Kenneth Whyte, a biography of William Randolph Hearst. Emphasis on “tried”. It’s a relatively thick tome that goes into a lot of detail about the newspaper business at the end of the 19th century/beginning of the 20th century. My interests being more in the line with the social aspects of the Gilded Age, I found it a hard slog. It doesn’t happen often, but I just couldn’t make myself read through the whole thing so this was a rare DNF for me. I’m planning to read Hillbilly Elegy by JD Vance next, which promises to be an interesting contrast, both in terms of subject matter and readability. In the meantime, I might be in the mood for some more turn of the century drama, so if you have a favourite TV/movie adaptation of a Gilded Age novel (Henry James, Edith Wharton, etc.), leave me your recc’s in the comments – bonus if it’s available on Netflix.

State of the Closet, Summer 2018

It’s been a while since I formally took stock of my closet, and since it’s the mid-point of the year already (how?), I thought it might be a good time for an update. Keeping up with Stylebook hasn’t been much of a priority lately, so I am going to try reconstruct a picture of the year to date from the Google Docs spreadsheet for recent purchases which I still update regularly.

First, the current content stats:

Tops – 30

Knits – 32

Blazers – 28

Trousers/jeans – 30

Skirts – 10

Work & casual dresses – 13

Special occasion dresses – 8

Outerwear – 17

Shoes – 43

Bags – 30

This illustrates pretty well my current preference for trousers over skirts. I am also in a transitional phase with dresses, where I’ve purged a lot of old favourites whose style/cut was no longer in line with my aesthetic, but I am still working on defining what styles do fit it. As a result, I’ve bought only a few dresses this year, most of them casual. This is the category where I struggle the most to break with my old Anthro-heavy vibe, so I am taking it slow. The Sarah Pacini dress I showed you the other day is a good example of something that works, but it’s the kind of piece that doesn’t turn up in thrift stores all that often.

My outerwear game is going strong, thanks to thrifting success, which has paid off handsomely this spring/summer. I now have coats for every occasion, outfit and weather condition, and I find that helps tremendously in feeling “pulled together” when I’m commuting to work.

Over the last few months, I have been slowly editing my shoe collection. The numbers have remained more or less consistent, but I have been adding new pieces (mostly boots and loafers) while purging my heels. Because one can never have too many reminders of one’s age and mortality (sarcasm font engaged), I have been experiencing a lot more aches and pains in my foot joints than before. Not surprisingly, this has significantly increased the appeal of flats to me; luckily, I feel that my new style lends itself nicely to flats, so not all is lost.

On the bag front, I don’t have anything too exciting to report. I thrifted a bunch of Marc Jacobs purses of various shapes lately, which I adore and use on constant rotation, and have largely ignored the rest of my collection. I’m not planning any major purchases (thrift finds excluded), and I find that I am moving away from using large and/or high-end designer bags. Part of that has to do with my (casual) work environment, and part of it is just practical reality; I am frequently commuting with a backpack now, because I carry my laptop with me, and if I’m going to carry a purse, it has to be something small, relatively casual, and easy to carry. A Louis Vuitton or Chanel bag would just look ridiculous. With that said, I am not in a rush to declutter my collection; who knows how things might change, and what my style/lifestyle needs might look like in the future. I’ve learned my lesson, which is not to part with any bag that would cost most to repurchase than what I originally paid for it. Since most of my designer bags were (not literal) steals, I’m hanging on to them for the time being. If nothing else, my daughter – who is proving to be a budding fashionista – will have something to play with in another 5-10 years.

As far as other numbers go, I’ve spent $1,340 on clothes and accessories so far this year; if it stays on the same track to the end of the year, then my 2018 spending will be lower than last year’s, continuing a 4-year decreasing trend. With the exception of 7 items (all but one of them being accessories), everything I purchased this year came either from thrift or consignment stores. On average, I paid just 5.5% of the retail value of my purchased items. Overall, approximately 85% of my working wardrobe is now thrifted. I’m pretty happy with those numbers.