Month: August 2018

Style Avatars: A Progress Update

It has been more than 3 months since I adopted a new approach to personal style, one premised on the notion of style avatars or personas with well-defined aesthetic profiles. My chosen avatars – the Prince, the Adventurer, the Artist, and the Bohemian — have helped me to curate my existing wardrobe and have guided my shopping decisions in recent months, with the result that I feel much more comfortable with both the contents of my closet and my daily outfits. There are still occasions when I find myself stepping outside the boundaries of my style Venn diagram (there is quite a lot of overlap between my avatars), with predictable results — I end up feeling like I’m wearing another person’s outfit — but I am trying to be patient with myself. I am so used to wearing clothes in certain ways that it’s not always easy to re-imagine them in new ways better suited to my new aesthetic. Some trial and error is to be expected.

As I stopped doing monthly outfit recaps a while ago, I thought it would be interesting to revisit that concept now and see if the progress I feel I’ve made is actually reflected in my outfits. Below, I’ve compiled my work outfits for the month of July (less a couple of Fridays because of they wouldn’t fit in this format):

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What pleases me the most is the cohesiveness of these looks. I used to feel that my outfits in the past were “all over the map”, so to speak; I never truly knew why, but that always bugged me. I think it has to do with what clothes mean to me. Style is an expression of the individual, a reflection of who they are (or want to be). Looking at collages of my old outfits left me feeling like I was someone who didn’t really know who she was. I was wearing things I thought I should – because the clothes were nice, or they looked flattering, etc. But there was no clear intention to it all.

These looks are much less likely to be crowd pleasers, I do know that; but they very much reflect the person I feel I have become. They are quirky and eclectic and a maybe little bit flamboyant, but in an understated kind of way (if “understated flamboyance” is not an oxymoron). They are not trendy, except perhaps by accident. They are pieced together from thrifted finds, because I am a woman who loves finding beautiful things in the rubbish heap. There is some broader life metaphor in there, somewhere.

What surprised me the most is all the brown. I don’t think of myself as someone who loves earthy colours, but there is an undeniable theme happening in these photos. I don’t mind. I have been increasingly drawn to muted colours, from one end of the colour spectrum to the other, because I find them soothing and peaceful. I do still like throwing in a wrench of a bright colour every now and then, though … just to keep things interesting.

What I Wore: August 17-28, 2018

Extra, Extra

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I mean, come on. This AllSaints shirt is as extra as they come … and it’s fabulous. I knew it was a keeper as soon as I picked it up, without even seeing the label. I love the shape & volume of the neckline with the large rosettes creeping up the shoulder. I don’t typically do ruffles, but I was immediately drawn to the drama here. They don’t look particularly “cute” to me, which is key; I further de-twee-defied the look by adding these boyish cut trousers by COS, which just happen to be my current faves. They’re incredibly comfortable and easy to wear, and I am low-key panicking about finding a replacement pair soon, given my current frequency of wear. I also added my birthday earrings, because why not double down on big statements:

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You guys know how much I love this dress, and here it is again. It’s a funky shape, for sure (you can see that better in this photos) but such a breeze to wear. I paired it with a fun, twisty necklace – it bends into any shape and can double as a fidget toy in a pinch.

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Smoky

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Not talking about the air quality around here (but also apt) – I’m talking about this Eileen Fisher top.Technically, it’s a wood grain print, but the colour paired with its filmy texture makes me think of swirls of smoke. Kinda badass, which is not necessarily the adjective I’d normally associate with EF. Paired with my trusty (and old) Madewell jeans, Club Monaco turtleneck, and Joe Fresh leather jacket, it added up to the perfect relaxed outfit for a (chilly) evening hanging out with friends.

A Different Take on Leopard

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This outfit was a bit of a style risk, but I was not displeased with how it turned out. It was a cold morning, so I needed a jacket for practical reasons, but I was initially stumped for options. Black would have been an easy default, but I didn’t think it would add much to the outfit, nor do justice to the lovely dark green of the (faux) leather skirt. I wanted something that would offer a bit of contrast, but not a bright colour. That’s when I remembered this Zara coat; it’s a subtle take on leopard print (if such a thing exists) and it possesses surprising chameleon-like qualities. Here, it’s practically a neutral, letting the green take center stage. I added some cognac accessories to pick up on the brown and, voila: a slightly mod take on the Bohemian.

How I Organize My Archive Closet

A reader recently asked me about how I organize my overflow or “archive” closet, which I thought was a topic that others might enjoy. Before I talk about my methods, let me define what we are talking about. Separate from my closet, I have a secondary clothes storage area – a small rack in the basement – where I keep clothes that are not part of my “current wardrobe”. I do not separate in-season and out-of-season clothing (with the exception of outerwear), as most of my items can be worn year-around. This is why my overflow closet is truly more of an archive than anything else. It’s where I keep things that I don’t wear anymore, but which I am not planning to purge in the short-term.

How do I decide what goes into the archive? And what happens to it? Read on.

What Gets Archived

Broadly speaking, there are 2 categories of clothing in the archive: things that don’t fit anymore, and things that aren’t my style anymore. Needless to say, in both cases, these are things that I still like a lot – otherwise, they’d be gone lickety-split; my general rule is to purge any pieces I don’t wear or foresee wearing in the near future.

A quick aside about out-of-size clothing. In general, I don’t believe it keeping clothing that is too small; at a psychological level, I don’t like to put myself under expectations of losing weight. That approach has bit me in the backside only once (I didn’t end up losing pregnancy weight until 1.5 years after my daughter was born, long after I had purged a bunch of smaller clothing), but I don’t think it will happen again given my current circumstances. My weight has been stable for the last 3 years or so, but if it were to fluctuate in the future, I would expect it to go up (and then hopefully rebound to current level) rather than go down. With that said, my approach following weight loss would be to keep clothing in larger sizes – particularly classic staples like favourite blazers or black trousers – around for a bit longer than the usual 3-6 months, just in case. We are talking 12-18 months, tops. Fashion cycles pretty quickly, so for potential weight fluctuations that are more than 2 years down the line, I will take my chances with whatever is available in stores at that point.

In light of the above, you shouldn’t be surprised to know that most of my archive closet is devoted to “out of style” rather than “out of size” clothing. Out of style clothing is stuff that I used to love but that doesn’t fit my current aesthetic. Of course, to make the cut – because I can’t keep everything – they have to meet the following (loose) criteria:

1.Must have been an old favourite piece AND

2.Must be either (a) a truly classic staple; (b) a unique piece; or (c) a high-end designer.

I will confess that a good chunk of my “out of style” archive is composed of old Anthro pieces, which fits mostly under 2(b) above.

There is actually a third category of stuff in the archive closet, which is comprised of my special occasion (i.e. cocktail) dresses. Technically, these are part of my “regular wardrobe” but they take up a fair bit of room, and I don’t need them to clutter my small (working) closet.

How the Archive is Curated

Because my everyday wardrobe sees a fair amount of turnover, my archive closet receives a regular stream of contenders. To keep it at a manageable size, I edit/purge/curate it 2-3 times per year. This is not an easy process for me. Pieces that end up in the archive in the first place are things to which I have a strong emotional attachment; plus, they are already non-functional, otherwise they’d be in everyday rotation. So the usual rules for editing don’t apply. Over time, I have found that the best way to avoid long-term regret is to ask this two-part question:

How easy and how expensive would it be to replace this particular item?

It’s important to consider both parts, and to understand precisely what you would be looking to replace. Some things are easy and inexpensive to replace, regardless of retail cost, in the sense that there are other, cheaper iterations of the same thing readily available in the market. I try not to get attached to labels; if the only reason why I’m keeping something is because it’s a specific designer … I should not be keeping it. If it’s a specific designer and superior quality (not always a given) – or a specific designer and an unusual pattern or silhouette – that’s another story.

What about things that are easy but expensive to replace?

For example, as I mentioned above, I have a few Anthro pieces in my archive. These tend to be from the 2010-2015 era, and have some details that make them unique in my eyes (typically, the print). They would not be easy to replace with something I could purchase at the mall in 2018 – while I could get another floral print skirt, it wouldn’t be that particular floral print, and it’s that particular print that makes the skirt special to me.

However, it would not be too difficult to find these pieces online – on eBay for example. (Being Canadian, I don’t have access to Poshmark, more’s the pity.) Some “old” Anthro pieces can be found for reasonable prices on eBay; some can be surprisingly expensive. If I paid <$20 for a dress that is currently listed for $80 or more, I will probably hang on to it for a while. Every 6 months or so, I will re-evaluate if I still love that piece enough to justify having it taking up space in the archive. If I’m still undecided about something that’s been sitting in the archive for more than a couple of years, I will also throw another question into the mix: how much money could I reasonably expect to make if I were to sell that item? Sometimes, $50 in hand is worth more than the hypothetical $100 it might cost to replace the thing down the line if I come to regret selling it. The key with all of these questions, is to take the emotional component out of it, and think as pragmatically as possible. As soon as I start thinking about what an item means to me, outside of its (replacement) value, things tend to go south quickly. I’m a sap. There are a few things that I likely will never get rid of. My Louis Vuitton Alma MM bag is a good example. I don’t use it currently, and I don’t foresee using it regularly any time soon. It’s in fantastic shape and I got a great deal on it years ago. If I were to try to re-sell it now, I would probably make my money back even after accounting for consignment fees, but I would never be able to replace it for the same amount. It’s a bag that could become a classic in time, so I prefer keep it around and pass it down to my daughter (or granddaughter) someday. I don’t have a lot of pieces that fall into the category of “fashion heirlooms”, but this is probably as close as it gets. If you have something like my archive closet, I would love to hear about how you use it. And if you’ve got other wardrobe management question for me, hit me up in the comments.