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Ideas on Pattern Mixing

I was asked to write about my approach to pattern mixing, which is not surprising given how much of it I’ve been incorporating into my outfits lately. I’ll caveat this post with my usual disclaimer: I am not a professional, and 99% of my outfit choices are based on gut instinct. I look in the mirror – “does this look good?” If yes, we’re off to the races. If no, then I tweak (or start from scratch again) until it does. So I am perhaps not the best person to talk about this because I am not following any kind of scientific (quasi or otherwise) theory, and the thoughts I’ve assembled here are based on some post-facto analysis of outfits that I would consider successful examples of pattern mixing.

All of which to say … there are probably better guides out there (which is in fact the reason I didn’t call this post a “guide”, hah!) but you’re here reading this so let’s go.

Idea #1: Cheat Your Way to Pattern Mixing

Cheating as the very first suggestion? Wow, that’s ballsy. But, seriously, it’s the best (and perhaps only bona fide) tip I have for you. Pick a pattern. Look at the colours in that pattern. Find another pattern that uses some or all of the same colours. Whatever colour(s) you choose as the “glue” of your outfit, it should feature prominently enough in both prints to be easily visible as such.

Here are some examples using a Dries Van Noten skirt. I chose this because the skirt itself features pattern-mixing.

As you can see, I am partial to using cobalt blue and/or some shade of rusty orange as my unifying colours, because they pick up on the colours of the skirt. Each of the contrasting patterns is very different, but the overall colour palette is consistent, which looks pleasing to the eye (to me). And oops, I only just realized I wore the skirt backwards in that photo on the right, d’oh!

Here are a couple more examples:

Obviously, here, the unifying colour is red. As I will discuss below, stripes are a safe bet for pattern mixes, because they work with floral prints, geometric prints (what I would describe the two skirt examples above), and abstract prints.

Idea #2: Monochromatic Free-For-All

If you stick with monochromatic (black and white, or single-colour) patterns, you have more leeway in terms of what you can add to the mix. Maybe this is just an extension of the first tip? Gah. Let’s pretend is brand new information, okay?

What I try to do with monochromatic prints is make sure they are quite different (e.g. middle outfit – geometric vs abstract) and/or of different scale. You can see the impact of scale with the left and right outfits. On the left, you have 2 different sizes of polka dots, plus a gingham print that’s smaller than both. The outfit is high-contrast. On the right, you have two stripe patterns, but the stripes are of different widths and orientations. The tiger is just an nice bonus.

Idea #3: When in Doubt, Stripe It Up

I know not everyone is a fan of stripes (especially horizontal ones) but I have come to love them. I think the key is finding stripes that suit you. I am personally not a fan of thin stripes, and Breton-style tops. I love chunky stripes (bordering on colourblocking) and colourful ones. These look great with other big/bold prints; I’m not sure I would pair them with a small, ditzy floral, for example.

Again, the key when working with 2 very colourful prints (including stripes) is to find a unifying colour. The example on the left is probably the most subtle; it looks like a very wild combination but there are actually a few unifying colours. Can you spot them all? There is red, of course (red stripe, red cars, red shoes); aqua blue (aqua stripe near bottom of sweater, which is a bonus because it means it’s visually closer to the skirt, and the aqua cars); bright blue (blue stripe around the bust, blue waistband on skirt); and black (black stripe, black in camo print). I’m not counting brown, because the shades in the stripes and the camo print are too different.

Idea #4: Florals and Checks

I bet you were wondering when I would get to florals. Well, here we are. Someone asked me if I had said that “florals are a neutral” and, honestly, I can’t remember but it sounds like something I would say. I love florals! Strangely, though, I haven’t used them a lot in pattern mixing … at least not according to my unscientific search of my photo albums. This is a discovery that I’ll be brooding on for a while, let me tell you. What I did find is that, whenever I do use florals in a pattern mix, I tend to pair them with what I’m going to (incorrectly, I’m sure, don’t @ me) categorize as “check” prints. This includes, per the examples below, plaids, tartans, houndstooth, and checks of all other description.

Idea #5: Compound Patterns

This is probably becoming a bit niche, but what if you’re dealing with what I’m calling a “compound pattern” – i.e. a pattern made up of several prints. Here are two examples: (i) bl^nk top on the left; (ii) Clover Canyon top on the right.

I tend to wear compound patterns with solid colours, but it is possible to pair them with prints as well. Part of it is, again, finding a unifying colour. Part of it is finding a print that’s complementary to whatever’s in the compound pattern. On the right, the top has some bits of plaid sprinkled in; the skirt carries through that theme. On the left, the top has a variety of small-scale prints; the skirt has very thin stripes which look like they would fit right in with the others.

This is by no means an exhaustive compendium of ideas for pattern mixing (I reserve the right to change my mind! at any time! I’m capricious like that, but also style is never written in stone) but I hope it’s provided some fodder for your closet experimentation. Share your ideas in the comments 🙂

What I Wore: October 2021, part 4

Orange Crush

I have stayed away from orange for most of my life. As a ginger, fear of looking “too orange” is ingrained in me. Lately, though, I’ve been exploring my “outside comfort zone” colours, and orange (along with hot pink) is an example. This Zara houndstooth skirt jumped out at me, practically, from the rack — I love how graphic and cool it looks in a black/orange combination. The front slit is sexy too, but still wearable. I decided to pair it with blue accents, as a nice contrast. At the last minute, in addition to the peek of blouse cuffs and collar, I added the scarf — another lucky thrift find. A wool Paul Smith scarf for under $10? Yes please. And the abstract floral pattern is so good, especially next to the houndstooth. Love, love, loved this outfit.

The Outfit That Wasn’t

Sometimes I have a great idea for an outfit, but because it’s a little more “extra”, I chicken out at the last minute from wearing it (unless I’m just wearing it around the house). So it was with this outfit … which I loved, but on a day I didn’t feel like dealing with potential comments or stares from strangers. I substituted pants for the skirt and wore that instead, which was also a nice outfit but not as cool (IMO). The socks were definitely winners, though. Poached them from my husband, keeping.

Hot Pink Groove

As I mentioned, I’m slightly obsessed with hot pink at the moment. Something about that degree of saturation that just fires up my neurons. Or something like that. I thrifted these culottes as an experiment; they’re Inc International, nothing fancy, but the cut is very nice and they drape nicely too. I wanted to see if a pair of hot pink pants (not hot pants, to be clear) would be versatile. This outfit was a good starting point. I have lots of other ideas, so the tentative answer is “yes”.

Bathrobe Wrapped in a Blanket

… is how my husband described this outfit, but he was just jealous. Because it really was *that* comfy and cozy. To be fair, this Zero+Maria Cornejo dress I got on Poshmark last year is made out of (fancy, I’m sure) terrycloth-like fabric that feels like it should be a robe, but is cut like a very nice dress. It does need a belt to give it more shape (it’s slightly large on me) but I’m well covered in that department. This Club Monaco belt was a recent thrift find, and worked like a charm.

What I Read: Early Fall, 2021

Bearskin Diary – Carol Daniels

Summary: Raw and honest, Bearskin Diary gives voice to a generation of First Nations women who have always been silenced, at a time when movements like Idle No More call for a national inquiry into the missing and murdered Aboriginal women. Carol Daniels adds an important perspective to the Canadian literary landscape. Taken from the arms of her mother as soon as she was born, Sandy was only one of over twenty thousand Aboriginal children scooped up by the federal government between the 1960s and 1980s. Sandy was adopted by a Ukrainian family and grew up as the only First Nations child in a town of white people. Ostracized by everyone around her and tired of being different, at the early age of five she tried to scrub the brown off her skin. But she was never sent back into the foster system, and for that she considers herself lucky. From this tragic period in her personal life and in Canadian history, Sandy does not emerge unscathed, but she emerges strong–finding her way by embracing the First Nations culture that the Sixties Scoop had tried to deny.

Review: I enjoyed this story, though the subject matter was at times difficult. The first person narrative was powerful, but I did find the writing to be uneven. I thought it would be more of a love story, but it’s actually a story about self-discovery, acceptance, and perseverance.

The Last Knight – Norman F. Cantor

Summary: There may not be a more fascinating a historical period than the late fourteenth century in Europe. The Hundred Years’ War ravaged the continent, yet gallantry, chivalry, and literary brilliance flourished in the courts of England and elsewhere. It was a world in transition, soon to be replaced by the Renaissance and the Age of Exploration – and John of Gaunt was its central figure. In today’s terms, John of Gaunt was a multibillionaire with a brand name equal to Rockefeller. He fought in the Hundred Years’ War, sponsored Chaucer and proto-Protestant religious thinkers, and survived the dramatic Peasants’ Revolt, during which his sumptuous London residence was burned to the ground. As head of the Lancastrian branch of the Plantagenet family, Gaunt was the unknowing father of the War of the Roses; after his death, his son usurped the crown from his nephew, Richard II. Gaunt’s adventures represent the culture and mores of the Middle Ages as those of few others do, and his death is portrayed in The Last Knight as the end of that enthralling period.

Review: This was an unexpected delight. The parallels drawn between aristocrats like John of Gaunt and modern day billionaires were thought-provoking. Also, the author doesn’t mince words when it comes to some of the less delightful aspects of the Middle Ages. I enjoyed his dry sense of humour, but it may not be everyone’s cup of tea. Also, this isn’t a proper biography of John of Gaunt; it jumps around a lot, and it’s mostly focused on the broader themes represented by his life.

Sex and Vanity – Kevin Kwan

Summary: On her very first morning on the jewel-like island of Capri, Lucie Churchill sets eyes on George Zao and she instantly can’t stand him. She can’t stand it when he gallantly offers to trade hotel rooms with her so that she can have the view of the Tyrrhenian Sea, she can’t stand that he knows more about Curzio Malaparte than she does, and she really can’t stand it when he kisses her in the darkness of the ancient ruins of a Roman villa and they are caught by her snobbish, disapproving cousin, Charlotte. “Your mother is Chinese so it’s no surprise you’d be attracted to someone like him,” Charlotte teases. Daughter of an American-born-Chinese mother and blue-blooded New York father, Lucie has always sublimated the Asian side of herself in favor of the white side, and she adamantly denies having feelings for George. But several years later, when George unexpectedly appears in East Hampton where Lucie is weekending with her new fiancĂ©, Lucie finds herself drawn to George again. Soon, Lucy is spinning a web of deceit that involves her family, her fiancĂ©, the co-op board of her Fifth Avenue apartment, and ultimately herself as she tries mightily to deny George entry into her world–and her heart. Moving between summer playgrounds of privilege, peppered with decadent food and extravagant fashion, Sex and Vanity is a truly modern love story, a daring homage to A Room with a View, and a brilliantly funny comedy of manners set between two cultures.

Comments: I haven’t read A Room With a View, so maybe I am not fully appreciating this book, but I found it a pale imitation of the Crazy Rich Asians series. I always enjoy Kwan’s descriptions of the foibles of rich people, but the central story here was paper thin and ultimately uninteresting to me. The protagonists were even less compelling than Nick and Rachel, and let’s face it – those two were the least interesting part of Crazy Rich Asians. Anyway, this would still be a fun “beach read” if you’re in the market for something of that nature.

Devil’s Cub – Georgette Heyer

Summary: The son of the Duke and Duchess of Avon, the Marquis of Vidal is known as Devil’s Cub not only for the excesses of his father but for his own wild habits. As he is paying court to a girl of the bourgeoisie, Sophia Challoner, he also participates in a rather impromptu duel, the outcome of which forces him to leave the country. He intends to bring Sophia with him as his mistress: but her strait-laced sister Mary has no intention of allowing her sister to be ruined, and takes her place, assuming that the Marquis will let her go once the mistake is discovered, leaving him with no chance to take Sophia afterwards. But she has not yet obtained the measure of the Marquis’s personality, for in the grip of fury he takes Mary off with him instead, and only when they are in France and it is too late for either to turn back does he realise that by abducting a respectable girl he has compromised her and is obliged to offer her marriage.

Comments: I borrowed that summary from Wikipedia, and it should give you a good flavour of the plot. I am not a huge romance novel reader, but I really enjoy Heyer’s Regency romances. This one is actually set in 18th century, but it has all of the Heyer touches: a spunky heroine, an arrogant and louche aristocratic hero (who is ultimately redeemed), lots of misunderstandings, crackling dialogue. Vidal (the hero) is a bit more assholish than most, but Mary makes up for it by being extra practical and commanding.

A Wild Sheep Chase – Haruki Murakami

Summary: A marvelous hybrid of mythology and mystery, A Wild Sheep Chase is the extraordinary literary thriller that launched Haruki Murakami’s international reputation. It begins simply enough: A twenty-something advertising executive receives a postcard from a friend, and casually appropriates the image for an insurance company’s advertisement. What he doesn’t realize is that included in the pastoral scene is a mutant sheep with a star on its back, and in using this photo he has unwittingly captured the attention of a man in black who offers a menacing ultimatum: find the sheep or face dire consequences. Thus begins a surreal and elaborate quest that takes our hero from the urban haunts of Tokyo to the remote and snowy mountains of northern Japan, where he confronts not only the mythological sheep, but the confines of tradition and the demons deep within himself. Quirky and utterly captivating, A Wild Sheep Chase is Murakami at his astounding best.

Comments: Honestly, I’m not sure what this book is about. I have some ideas, but I found the ending pretty confounding. In my defense, I was reading this while in the grip of chronic insomnia, so my wits were not at their sharpest. That being said, I enjoyed the writing and the kooky plot, once I stopped trying to make sense of what was happening. I just let it wash over me, so to speak, and got carried away with the verve of the writing and surreal events in the book.

The Heron’s Cry – Ann Cleeves

Summary: North Devon is enjoying a rare hot summer with tourists flocking to its coastline. Detective Matthew Venn is called out to a rural crime scene at the home of a group of artists. What he finds is an elaborately staged murder – Dr Nigel Yeo has been fatally stabbed with a shard of one of his glassblower daughter’s broken vases. Dr Yeo seems an unlikely murder victim. He’s a good man, a public servant, beloved by his daughter. Matthew is unnerved though to find that she is a close friend of Jonathan, his husband. Then another body is found, killed in a similar way. Matthew finds himself treading carefully through the lies that fester at the heart of his community and a case that is dangerously close to home.

Comments: This is the second book in Cleeves’ new Two Rivers series. I don’t find the main characters (police officers) as compelling in this series as Cleeves’ better known Shetland and Vera series, but her writing and plotting is always top notch. This was a solid whodunnit, though I did find myself guessing at the culprit a little earlier in the story than usual. But a new Ann Cleeves novel is always a treat.

A Game for All the Family – Sophie Hannah

Summary: Pulled into a deadly game of deception, secrets, and lies, a woman must find the truth in order to defeat a mysterious opponent, protect her daughter, and save her own life in this dazzling standalone psychological thriller with an unforgettable ending from the New York Times bestselling author of Woman with a Secret and The Monogram Murders. You thought you knew who you were. A stranger knows better. You’ve left the city—and the career that nearly destroyed you—for a fresh start on the coast. But trouble begins when your daughter withdraws, after her new best friend, George, is unfairly expelled from school. You beg the principal to reconsider, only to be told that George hasn’t been expelled. Because there is, and was, no George. Who is lying? Who is real? Who is in danger? Who is in control? As you search for answers, the anonymous calls begin—a stranger, who insists that you and she share a traumatic past and a guilty secret. And then the caller threatens your life. . . . This is Justine’s story. This is Justine’s family. This is Justine’s game. But it could be yours.

Comments; Sophie Hannah books are ALWAYS bonker balls, but this one takes the cake. It was so preposterous that I was almost angry at the end. I did finish it, mostly because I simply had to see how Hannah would tie up all of the (preposterous, did I mention?) loose ends. The characters were all pretty unlikable and, moreover, acted in the most improbable ways. The protagonist’s 13 year old daughter spoke and acted like a 30 year old. The less said about the George sub-plot, the better. It’s just … a deeply bizarre book all around.

The Mitford Murders – Jessica Fellowes –

Summary: The first in a series of thrilling Golden Age-style mysteries, set among the Mitford sisters, and based on a real unsolved murder, by Jessica Fellowes, author of the New York Times bestselling Downton Abbey books. It’s 1920, and Louisa Cannon dreams of escaping her life of poverty in London. Louisa’s salvation is a position within the Mitford household at Asthall Manor, in the Oxfordshire countryside. There she will become nursemaid, chaperone and confidante to the Mitford sisters, especially sixteen-year-old Nancy, an acerbic, bright young woman in love with stories. But then a nurse―Florence Nightingale Shore, goddaughter of her famous namesake―is killed on a train in broad daylight, and Louisa and Nancy find themselves entangled in the crimes of a murderer who will do anything to hide their secret…

Comments: I feel like this book is trying to capitalize on the popularity of the Mitford sisters as biographical subjects. And look, I am not complaining: I love reading about the Mitford clan. But this book fails to capture the things that made them such interesting and polarizing historical figures (one sister became a writer, two were Nazis, one a Communist, and one a Duchess – you can’t make this stuff up). The protagonist is boring, as is her police detective beau. The writing was meh. The story did pick up more speed towards the end, but not enough to make me want to read more in this series.

The Gargoyle – Andrew Davidson

Summary: An extraordinary debut novel of love that survives the fires of hell and transcends the boundaries of time. On a burn ward, a man lies between living and dying, so disfigured that no one from his past life would even recognize him. His only comfort comes from imagining various inventive ways to end his misery. Then a woman named Marianne Engel walks into his hospital room, a wild-haired, schizophrenic sculptress on the lam from the psych ward upstairs, who insists that she knows him – that she has known him, in fact, for seven hundred years. She remembers vividly when they met, in another hospital ward at a convent in medieval Germany, when she was a nun and he was a wounded mercenary left to die. If he has forgotten this, he is not to worry: she will prove it to him. And so Marianne Engel begins to tell him their story, carving away his disbelief and slowly drawing him into the orbit and power of a word he’d never uttered: love.

Comments: I picked this up because I saw it described somewhere as a memorable love story, and was very intrigued by the premise. I ended up really liking it, mostly because of said premise, and because of some passages of truly beautiful writing. But I found the writing (and book as a whole) uneven. Some parts were not as strong. I felt the author stumbled a bit towards the end. But it is a beautiful, unconventional story that spoke to me on many levels.

The Real History Behind the Templars – Sharan Newman

Summary: The medieval historian who revealed The Real History Behind the Da Vinci Code uncloaks the Templars. In the year 1119, these noblemen found their calling as protectors of the faithful on a dangerous pilgrimage to newly conquered Jerusalem. Now, historian Sharan Newman elucidates the mysteries and misconceptions of the Templars, from their true first founding and role in the Crusades to more modern intrigues, including:

  • Were they devout knights or secret heretics?
  • Did they leave behind a fantastic treasure-hidden to this day?
  • How did they come to be associated with the Holy Grail?
  • Did they come to America before the time of Columbus?
  • Does the order still exist?

Comments: Exhaustively researched and enjoyable and easy to read, this is a comprehensive book about the Templars – the facts, not the fiction. I am partial to a good conspiracy theory about the Templars (mostly because I love Eco’s Foucault’s Pendulum), but I appreciate the work that Newman put into debunking all the myths.

*All summaries from Amazon unless otherwise noted.