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I Make Things: Wrapping Up the Year

It’s been a while since we last caught up on my arts & crafts adventures, so with the benefit of a little perspective (it’s almost the middle of January already!) let’s look at how 2023 wrapped up. It was, in many ways, a “best of times, worst of times” situation. October and November were difficult months for me at a personal level, and that inevitably makes itself felt in my art life. It is what it is. I was at least able to prepare for my one big market of the year, which took place at the end of the November and ended up being one of the “best of times” moments. I got to meet a few new artists, talk to a lot of folks about my art, and sell quite a few pieces too. Financially, it was probably my most successful market to date. This surprised me a bit; I wasn’t sure how things would fare given the challenging economic times, but people are still buying art and for that I am very grateful. But the most rewarding aspect of the market was at a personal level.

I had a few friends come out to support me, which reminded me of how blessed I am to have wonderful people in my life. I spoke to a lot of people about art, and received many, many encouraging remarks and compliments which — let’s be honest — are always nice to get. It was especially lovely to see how many different people of different ages and backgrounds responded positively to embroidery. Maybe it really is having something of a renaissance. It was also gratifying to hear a lot of people say that my hoops were very reasonably priced or even priced too low. Pricing is something I’ve struggled with a lot in the past, and continue to struggle with. I have increased my prices a bit over the years — and I often worry whether this puts them outside the reach of people’s budget (or willingness to pay) — but it’s important to also acknowledge that they are not, strictly speaking, adequate compensation for my time, much less any talent or skill, in making the pieces.

I did the math once and if I were to charge local minimum wage for the time spent on an average hoop, it would cost around $450 in labour alone, never mind materials and other miscellaneous overhead (like market fees, for example).

Much as I sometimes think wistfully about the possibility of making art full-time, I know my particular niche doesn’t even rank as a lucrative side hustle. But, on the flip side, keeping it as a passion project (without the pressures of full monetization) has its advantages too. Although I enjoyed the market a great deal, part of that had to do with the fact that it was super low stakes for me; I was doing it mostly for fun, not money. Being a full-time artist is not an easy career path, especially in a society that still values commerce far more than art.

Anyway, enough ramblings from me. Here are the last hoops of 2023:

This hoop was inspired by an Art Deco style mural I saw at the McGill campus earlier in the year, when I was visiting my bestie in Montreal. I wanted to use a large hoop so I could have enough “canvas” to recreate the vibe of the original, but this always poses challenging when it comes to stitch selection. There is a sweet spot when it comes to the area that can be nicely covered using satin stitch (which is my fave stitch for creating a smooth, paint-like surface); satin stitch doesn’t sit as nice and tight once your area gets too big. So, for this hoop, I decided to go mixed media, and use felt in some parts of the design. Together with the French knots, it gave the surface more texture as well, which was a bonus.

I really enjoyed the last few floral still life hoops I made, so I decided to create one with orchids, one of my favourite flowers. I’m very happy with how this one turned out.

This was a William Morris-inspired mini floral hoop. Simple but sweet.

I loved my personal Matisse-inspired hoop I made earlier in the year, so I decided to make this pair for the market. These pieces did sell, albeit after the market (to one of my lovely blog readers, hello!)

This Monet-inspired design had been on my mind for a long time; I was very drawn to the soft pastel colour palette of the original painting — I love blues and pinks. Technically, it might have been my most challenging hoop to date. It is almost entirely long-and-short stitch which, over an 8 inch hoop, is a LOT of work (and a lot of yarn). Sky and water are always challenging subjects to “paint” with yarn anyway. But I like a challenge!

Afterwards, though, I needed a “break” so I went back to one of my fave themes: Klimt florals. I had one of these in my personal collection before, but ended up trading it (for a vintage Coach bag!) this past fall. I don’t regret that decision, but I did find myself missing the piece. So I made a new one! It’s not exactly the same as the previous one, of course; with the exception of the blue Matisse figure, all of my designs are one-of-a-kind. But I love it, and I love knowing that its “sister” is somewhere out there making someone else happy.

The last hoop was actually an old hoop, revisited. I made this pansy design sometime in 2021 or 2022 (I forget) but it never felt quite finished. I prefer designs that cover the entire hoop, and this one didn’t. Then I got the idea to add some more “foliage” around the edges via French knots and, voila, it’s perfect now.

Although I had a somewhat wobbly end of year, I am now looking forward with new energy at the possibilities of 2024. Here’s to new art, new friends, and new horizons!

What I Wore: January 2023, part 3

Details: Ralph Lauren shirt, vest & skirt, vintage belt (all thrifted), J. Crew shoes (retail, old)

Thoughts: This shirt/vest combo is one of my faves; I’ve worn it before with pants, but I like it even more with this skirt. The brown makes the blue really pop. This skirt was one of my luckiest thrift finds — vintage RL stuff is becoming increasingly rare at the thrifts, especially nicer pieces like this wool skirt. The silhouette is one of my faves (full, ankle-length skirts being the other). If we are going to try to keep track of these things, I would consider this a Historian outfit.

Details: H&M shirt, Frame blazer, vintage belt (all thrifted), Maeve skirt (Poshmark), J. Crew shoes (retail, old)

Thoughts: I am obsessed with this outfit formula: full skirt, shirt, blazer, and statement belt. It’s inspired by (what else) a Ralph Lauren runway look from the early 80s. I just love the juxtaposition of dressy blazer and cottagecore-y skirt, and plan to play around with it a fair bit. A statement belt is the perfect finishing touch. Trailblazer vibes all the way!

Details: J. Crew shirt & vest, Gap blazer, H&M pants, J. Crew shoes (all secondhand)

Thoughts: This outfit was all about the subtle pattern mix created by the blazer/vest combo. I love those two patterns together, and built the rest of the outfit around the same colour pattern. Otherwise, the formula is one of my go-tos: shirt, vest, blazer, pants. Standard Historian template!

Details: Ralph Lauren turtleneck and sweater, Nine West jacket, Cotton Ginny belt (all thrifted), Banana Republic jeans (retail)

Thoughts: This is a pretty basic outfit but I looooved the way the jacket and patterned sweater looked together. So while this might have been a basic formula, it was not a boring outfit. This jacket and this pair of jeans have been real wardrobe workhorses for me this season; I find myself constantly reaching for them which feels very satisfying. I want my whole closet to give me that feeling (and it’s close!). Putting this look into the Trailblazer category.

Details: Oak & Fort turtleneck (swap), Jacob cardigan, Babaton pants, Oak & Fort coat, Asos boots (all thrifted), Ralph Lauren belt (Poshmark), Coach bag (trade)

Thoughts: I like this vintage cardigan a lot, but I’ve been struggling with the length and resulting silhouette. I tend to wear either short, cropped cardigans or really long ones (past the hip). This length is tricky to me because I’m not used to it. So I decided to try something different and belt it. The result wasn’t too bad, if I say so myself. It has a bit of a Bohemian vibe which is neat, because I tend to associate that avatar with dresses and skirts.

Details: Jacob vest, Marc Cain skirt, Barbara Bui jacket, Chie Mihara shoes (all thrifted)

Thoughts: One more Historian outfit for you, this one with a slight “dark romance” vibe to it. I wanted to pick up the golden accents from the vest, so I chose this jacket because of the cool collar detail and cuffs. To be honest, I probably should have worn this with the Ralph Lauren skirt from the first outfit above — the silhouette would have been more “me” — but my first instinct is always to pair a long jacket with a short skirt. Blame Cake! Added these sheer black tights to try something different (aka not my usual opaque ones) and I’m not sure I love the look with a skirt this short, but maybe it’s something I need more time to adjust to.

Personal Style Diaries: Updating the Avatars

It hasn’t been that long since I’ve talked about my avatars, but I think my system is up for an overhaul. None of it should be a surprise to those who have been following along lately, but it’s quite different from where it started back in 2018. Quick recap: avatars are characters that represent some facet of my personality that I want to express through my clothing (at different times, and in different situations). You know how some people pick 3 words to describe their style? I use avatars to embody my style. I find it easier to visualize everything through this process – and by “everything” I mean everything from shopping, to finding style inspo, to putting outfits together. This post from 2021 does a good job of summarizing my original avatars and their early evolution. So what’s in store for 2024 and beyond?

As long-time followers know, the Prince and Artist have been retired, first one then the other. This makes sense when you consider that they were both avatars geared towards my professional life, which has changed a LOT since 2018. The Adventurer avatar morphed into the Historian. While the Bohemian is the last remaining original avatar, its character has changed a fair bit in the interim. For 2024, I am sticking with the Historian and the Bohemian – in new incarnations – and adding a brand new avatar, the Trailblazer. I struggled a lot with the name of that one, because I always just think of it as Jo-March-on-the-Prairie, but needed a one-word name in the same vein as the others. Ahem. I’m sort of giving it away, but here goes:

The Historian

The character is still Diana Bishop – history professor by day, super powerful witch by night, who loves classic tweeds all the time. While I am not a powerful witch (to the best of my knowledge), I sometimes like to think that, all evidence to the contrary, I’m a bit of a badass despite being a middle-aged suburban mom with a nerdy desk job.

This is some of the inspo I have saved for this avatar.

And here are some of my own outfits which I feel best capture this avatar.

The Bohemian

The character is now Tilda Swinton as a Scottish aristocrat who lives in a crumbling country pile (à la We Capture the Castle) set in a wild, atmospheric landscape.

I feel like the Bohemian needs a bit more explanation so here’s a mood board to go with it:

She wears whatever bits and bobs she feels like; traipsing up and down big staircases with a moth-eathen cape fluttering behind her, but also traipsing up and down the countryside in huge sweaters and sensible shoes, but also hiding in an old nook to read her books in peace. This version of the Bohemian is my best attempt at reconciling my Leo Sun and Taurus Rising signs: I love nice expensive things, but prefer them to be a bit shabby; I like drama but mostly other people’s; and I like a bit of fresh air, but not as much as the smell of books.

Here is some of the inspo for the Bohemian:

And some of my own Bohemian-themed outfits:

The Trailblazer

The character is, well, exactly as I described it above: Jo March (2019 adaptation version) meets the prairies.

The Trailblazer is a lot of the things I love and appreciate combined in one: writing, arts & crafts, Ralph Lauren’s Americana, wide open spaces. Mind you, I prefer to enjoy the latter from an air-conditioned car but that’s just a footnote. I also appreciate Jo’s sense of independence and her love of waistcoats.

Some Trailblazer inspo:

And some previous Trailblazer-themed outfits:

Like I said: I don’t think much of this will come as a surprise. But it’s been very helpful for me to synthesize and summarize all these ideas in one place, particularly as I work on my goal of being more intentional and strategic with my purchases.