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What I Wore: End of June 2020

Cold Snap

We’ve had a fairly warm start to our summer — hence all the linen last week — but a cold snap came on recently. Time to bring out transitional knits! You KNOW I ain’t mad about it. For one, it’s a chance to wear this Proenza Schouler vest I thrifted recently. Also an opportunity to remember what it’s like to wear pants. Hmm. I can’t say that I miss them, but it’s nice to switch up the silhouette sometimes. I did really enjoy this 100% thrifted outfit; it felt, dare I say it, effortlessly stylish. I guess that’s what wearing separates does these days, el-oh-el.

Close But No Cigar

Guys. I was THIS close to buying a rainbow J. Crew tulle skirt on eBay. There was a dangerous half hour late one Thursday night when this rainbow tulle skirt seemed like the exact thing missing from my closet, the one thing that would bring me to style nirvana. Alas. It was listed for over $200CAD plus my firstborn child for shipping, so I closed the window — not without a pang of regret. And then I kinda forgot about it. But then everyone on Insta was celebrating Pride last weekend and I remembered again. I dug through my closet, looking for a second best option, and this is what I came up with. Colourful, but no tulle. Cute and comfy. But no tulle.

Potato Sack Chic, Separates Edition

I love potato sack dresses. I love the spirit of potato sack dresses, which are sometimes not even dresses. Like this skirt-top combo —- big potato sack energy. I especially like the fact that, although loose and flowy (a must), the outfit has some shape to it. It has movement. Keeps things interesting. Certainly, the bar for “interesting” fashion is so much lower these days (working from home and rarely going out) but I will take whatever wins I can manage. Both these pieces are recent thrift finds, and I have to say that they go together incredibly well. I love the silky wrap skirt but it’s a bit revealing in the, ahem, behind (the material is not a friend when it comes to VPL) so a longer top is a good match for it. Conversely, the beautiful cream colour of the skirt balances the busy print of the top, without the visual “weight” that a dark colour would bring. Am I overthinking this? Probably. Carry on.

What I Wore: Mid-June 2020

The Summer of Linen

Working from home this summer means that I can now fully embrace the linen lifestyle. Wrinkles? We love them around here … or at least we have learned to accept them as a part of life. I do steam clean my linen pieces after every wear (to extend the time between washes) but, honestly, they are wrinkled again about 5 minutes later. Rumpled chic is my new motto. Speaking of which, how cute is this combo? I love a cropped jacket with a loose jumpsuit – something about this silhouette is very pleasing to my eye at the moment. And on that note …

Yes, I Said Linen

Cropped jackets are also cute with maxi dresses. Linen maxi dresses, naturally. This vintage Ungaro dress is special – the linen is quite heavy and has a beautiful drape to it. It also doesn’t wrinkle as easily as most. I’m not sure what kind of magic that is. I do know that someone once said I looked like Annie Hall in this dress which, while questionably true, is one of my fave (received) compliments. I think it had something to do with the collar on the dress, which you can’t see here because I tucked it into this adorable Sweet Chemise shrug/jacket. I love the cut of this topper, and I love that it’s a comfortable (but still somewhat structured!) alternative to the blazers I probably won’t be wearing any time soon. I don’t miss them, per se, but I kinda miss the flair they added to outfits. So I have been hunting for interesting blazer alternatives, and speaking of which …

Linen. More Linen

Check out this really cool Sarah Pacini topper. It’s linen, natch. Initially, I thought it was a blouse, but it has pockets so I guess Value Village wasn’t wrong in labelling it a “jacket”. I love the quirky cut, and the contrast trim. The lightness of the linen means that it’s a wonderful layering piece. Full disclosure: the belt was mostly to indulge my styling fantasies; I took it off almost immediately because working from home, ain’t nobody got time for a belt. But linen layered over linen (the dress is a blend) is definitely how I want to spend my whole day. Nay, the whole season.

OK, Fine. Something Other Than Linen

I mean, if you insist. Here is a non-linen dress I wore last week. I wish it was linen. The end.

The State of Thrifting, Summer 2020

Thrifting has been a part of my life, on and off, for over two decades. As I’ve mentioned before, I grew up wearing thrifted clothes by necessity as a (totally unstylish) teen, and rediscovered thrifting as a fashion-obsessed adult. I’ve been shopping almost exclusively at thrift (or otherwise secondhand) since 2018, and so far this year I have made no retail clothing purchases at all. Even so, my thrifting habits are constantly evolving. It’s one of the things I love about thrifting: it’s not just for clothes, and success is very much a personal determination.

My home province began to lift its COVID restrictions back in May, which included the re-opening of retail stores. Although for the most part, I have continued to stick with the “quarantine lifestyle” (staying home and away from people who are not part of our “cohort”), I have started to dip my toe into thrifting again. I go once a week – taking all recommended precautions, of course – during off-peak hours to avoid crowds. It’s been a welcome stress release.

As I had expected, I’ve noticed that my focus has largely shifted away from clothes. This is not surprising. My wardrobe needs are different now – there are whole categories of items that I don’t have much use for, like jeans or blazers or high heels. My closet is well-stocked. (Though I will always have room for another potato sack dress – it’s my new uniform.) So, clothes-wise, I have become super picky. Other than some long-term “holy grail” items, such as a black velvet waistcoat (just found one!) or a tulle skirt (still looking!), I am limiting my purchases to pieces from my favourite designers. Since my favourite designers are not easy to come by, I haven’t been buying very much.

Clothing, that is.

I have been buying plenty of other things, and I won’t lie: there’s nothing like the thrill of a good find after being unable to do any “hunting” for months. Shopping online doesn’t come close. As I expect there will be another lockdown coming in the months ahead, I am indulging in my current privileges.

Jewelry

I’ve mentioned before, I think, that I’ve been wearing jewelry a lot more often even though I’m at home 95% of the time. It cheers me up. My obsession with collecting Rafael Alfandary pieces has also resurfaced, and while I haven’t lucked into finding any more of his pieces at the thrift store, I remain ever hopeful. In addition to looking for jewelry to wear, I am also searching for pieces suitable for upcycling for my art/craft projects. This, in fact, is another new obsession. I have made embroidered/beaded jewelry pieces before, but now the added element is incorporating upcycled bits and bobs from old costume jewelry. I love taking an existing necklace or pair of earrings, deconstructing it and then using its “guts” to create something new. It’s a different level of creativity, and I can’t get enough. Hmm, maybe that’s another post …

Books

The money I saved in the first 3 months of quarantine by not buying clothes … I spent on buying books online. My library is growing at a wonderful rate these days, but I won’t lie: I am happy to have access to inexpensive secondhand books again. Shoutout to my local Goodwill, which is now pricing all adult books at $2.50. That’s a deal you can’t beat! I’ve been reading so many great books lately, and discovering topics and authors that I might not otherwise get to explore.

[Note: I have made a concerted effort to support Black and Indigenous authors by purchasing books at retail, and in particular through local independently owned book shops. I will continue to include these in my What I Read updates for anyone looking for recommendations. I’ll have a new post up soon.]

Home Decor

I had been looking forward to “refreshing” my house with a few new treasures, but “home decor” is a category that has been disappointing lately. I had expected differently, given how many people seemed to be using their quarantine time to declutter theirs homes. Oh well. In lieu of new thrift finds, I’m re-arranging my existing collections instead. Here’s my personal tip: if you feel like you want a change, and can’t get a haircut, re-arranging furniture can be a satisfying alternative. Hashtag kiddingnotkidding.

In general, my observation about post-lockdown thrifting is, while some stores have reduced volume in certain categories – jewelry, sadly, being one of them – it’s mostly the same as before in terms of inventory. I have been able to find some real gems, but the stores are not some overflowing Aladdin’s cave as some of us might have hoped. But they are, for the most part, well stocked and generally not more over-priced than usual. [Value Village remains the biggest culprit here. I recently saw a Lululemon jacket for $80. I mean, whut? Meanwhile, a cashmere blend Jil Sander jacket was priced at $12, and you can bet your fancy yoga pants that I bought it in a heartbeat.]

I would love to hear from you, too: if stores have re-opened in your area, have you gone thrifting? And if so, what have your experiences been like? And if you’re so inclined, I would also appreciate a little feedback: would you guys be interested if I brought back my “thrift haul” posts? I have been posting them mainly to my IG Stories in the last year or so, but I’m wondering if it might be something worth covering on the blog as well. Let me know!