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Scent Stories: Go Green!

Last time I wrote about my reawakened interest in fragrances, I alluded to a list of perfumes I was planning to add to my collection. If, like me, you’re feeling nostalgic about 90s, today I’ve got you covered. The first addition arrived a few weeks ago, and it is a pretty iconic “green” fragrance. Got a guess? Read on and find out if you’re right.

The problem with a lot of my fave perfumes from the late 90s through the late 2000s — my previous fragrance-loving era — is that they’ve been discontinued. I know I am not alone in mourning their disappearance, which makes it hard to understand why their respective houses don’t bring them back. Take Gucci Envy, for example. Launched in 1997, it was a unique, modern, icily sexy scent: green and metallic, with white and green florals (including lily of the valley, hyacinth, and iris). It was so badass, unlike anything else on the market … then, or since. I’ve searched in vain to find a modern “dupe” but no dice. You can still find original bottle on resale platforms, but they are going for multiple hundreds of dollars. If I had the power to bring back just one discontinued perfume, it would be Envy, for sure. A close second would be Stella InTwo Peony. Launched in 2006, it was a woody, peppery peony scent that managed to be floral without being overly sweet. Again, a very unusual, complex scent … without any real current equivalents.

I guess I have a thing for unusual, somewhat offbeat (?) perfumes. Luckily, not all of them have been discontinued. There was one perfume I coveted back in the day that was green and floral — no, not Elizabeth Arden Green Tea (although that was one of my mom’s favourites).

It was Calyx! Originally launched by Prescriptives in 1987, it is now under the Clinique umbrella but the formula is substantially similar. (I say “substantially” because I’m going off memory here, not having an original to compare). I think I fell in love with it sometime in the mid-2000s, but for some reason, I never ended up buying it then, though I have vivid memories of sniffing it every time I stopped at the Prescriptives counter in Holt Renfrew. I decided this had to be my first nostalgic pick for my collection, and I was able to score a (brand new in box) bottle on Poshmark for about half the retail price. When it arrived, it was love at first sight sniff all over again. To me, it smells much as I remember the old formulation to smell, but keep in mind that it’s been almost 20 years.

I am not convinced that fragrance descriptions are all that useful — smell is too complex and subjective of an experience for that — but I enjoy reading them, so I’ll offer you mine just for the fun of it with the caveat that you should probably never blind buy a perfume based on someone else’s review of it. My immediate reaction upon spraying my wrist was “predominantly green — without any grassiness — with a whiff of sharp almost bitter, overripe fruitiness.” According to Fragrantica, the top notes include guava and green leaves, so that tracks. After a few minutes, a strong lily of the valley essence came through — lilies of the valley in a bed of green. It’s one of my favourite smells, so this makes me happy. After about 15-20 minutes, the smell settled down into a slightly woody, dewy floral. There was still an impression of lilies of the valley (which got progressively weaker with time), and lingering hint of warm sweetness. Something I couldn’t quite put my finger on — maybe the impression of all those tropical fruits in the top note. As more time went on, the woodiness went away, and the scent became more straightforwardly floral — fresh florals, not heavy or overly sweet.

Out of curiosity, I asked my husband to smell my wrist around the 15 minute mark and his response was “Crisp. Water. I can smell some flowers too.” Which goes to show: everyone’s olfactory experiences are different.

Now, remember how I was talking about Envy and the impossibility of finding anything that resembles it? Wellllll … look, I am not going to tell you that Calyx is a dupe. It’s not — it does not have the metallic accord of Envy. Envy is cool green all the way, Calyx is warm/humid green. But they share a lot of DNA, both unusual “green” fragrances that are unusual in a similar way. Based on the note pyramids I can find online, this makes some sense and is probably not just some wishful thinking on my part. Both have fruity and green top notes, LOTV and freesia middle notes, and an iris/oakmoss/sandalwood base. Interestingly, I did not see Calyx mentioned in any discussions about Envy dupes on Reddit, but then I saw that Tania Sanchez, in her seminal fragrance compendium (co-written with Luca Turin) Perfumes: The A-Z Guide, referenced the similarities between Calyx and Envy. Sanchez gave Calyx a 5 star review, and clearly prefers it of the two. As a point of interest, Turin did the review of Envy in the same book and also gave it 5 stars, though his description of it didn’t, in my opinion, capture its essence. I mention this because (a) I have become a fan of Turin and his (and Sanchez’) witty, erudite (but unpretentious), and often pithy perfume reviews (plus, his book on the science of olfaction, The Secret of Scent, is fantastic if somewhat controversial), and (b) Turin hates most of the perfumes I love, like D&G Light Blue and Replica By The Fireplace. Loathes them! Gave them 1 star each. Of Light Blue, he wrote “[i]f you hate fragrance, you’re probably on your fourth bottle.” I don’t know why, but this amuses me rather than upsets me. Having read his and Sanchez’ perfume guides, I have decided that my next hobby is going to be the fragrance version of oenophilia. I want to develop my “nose” and learn more about different perfume notes. Which is not the same thing as collecting perfumes … though, as it this post makes clear, I am not entirely averse to the latter either.

Speaking of which, the second new addition to said collection is technically a steal. My husband discovered a bottle of perfume in his medicine cabinet (we have separate ones) which he’d been given as a gift many years ago and never wore. His signature scent for more than 20 years has been L’Eau de Issey Pour Homme, and he is what you might call a perfume monogamist. So, I decided to “rescue” this bottle from oblivion because the smell intrigued me, and because it was likely something my mom had chosen (probably as a Christmas gift) so it has a lot of sentimental value for me; I’m fairly certain of this because she was also the one who picked my dad’s cologne, and both are Cartier fragrances. This one is called Roadster, which makes sense as something my mom would choose for my husband, whom she knew to be obsessed with vintage cars. It is also a “green” fragrance, literally and olfactively:

Roadster has been discontinued, which is a shame because it’s a lovely fresh scent that could easily be, in my opinion, unisex. Keep in mind that I am also someone who occasionally wears her husband’s Issey perfume. Of the two, I actually find Roadster’s dry down to be less overtly masculine — probably because it includes vanilla, so it’s sweeter. Anyway, here is my description of Roadster, top to bottom. First impression is “fresh green”. The mint note comes through very clearly, but it doesn’t remind me of toothpaste or gum; instead, it has a kind of translucency to it, like tea. After 5 minutes, the mint remains the predominant note. It’s slightly spicy, but smooth. After the initial opening, which felt cool, the scent is starting to warm up. About an hour in, it settles into a very pleasant warm amber with a faint, lingering note of mint. It’s sweet but not overtly so. I asked my husband to smell the perfume on my wrist, but all he said was “minty”. It’s like he wasn’t even trying, LOL!

If perfume talk isn’t your cup of tea, I hate to tell you, you will probably be subjected to more of it in the near future. If it is your cup of tea, I have good news for you! Stay tuned for next time, when we will be talking about another perfume from my youth. Here’s your hint: purple. It’s probably not the one you’re thinking of 😉

What I Wore: April 2024, part four

Details: H&M top (retail), Everlane sweater, Mackage jacket, Ann Marino shoes (all thrifted), Ralph Lauren skirt (eBay), Coach bag (Poshmark)

Thoughts: It’s almost time to bring back my summer wardrobe, and I got a jump start because I’ve been dying to wear this skirt again since the fall. I can confirm, I’m still madly in love with it. Decided to make the most of the transitional weather, and pair it with a leather jacket for a bit of nice juxtaposition. This worked out well, as it allowed me to pick up with reddish-pink from the skirt and make it my “unifying” colour.

Details: Ralph Lauren shirt, Talbots vest, Jil Sander coat, Fossil belt, Echo scarf (all thrifted), Ralph Lauren skirt (secondhand & gifted)

Thoughts: This is it, friends! This is the Jo March outfit I have been working towards since December 2019. We have reached Peak Jo March. I finally found the patterned red silk waistcoat I had been looking for all this time because I was convinced it was what Saoirse Ronan had worn in the movie. I say “convinced” because I was wrong, somehow. When I pulled up a photo of the outfit I had been dreaming of for years, it turns out that the waistcoat was yellow with red pattern. Her neckerchief was red. Oops. But close enough. I loved the outfit and it made me realize that I need to wear more silk scarves like this — it add a nice little touch of colour around the neck without making me feel suffocated.

Details: Toni T dickie, Lord & Taylor sweater, Gap jacket, Topshop pants, Fossil belt (all thrifted), J. Crew shoes (consignment)

Thoughts: All older pieces I’ve worn before, remixed. I love that. I went for a bold pattern mix here, and I think I mostly pulled it off. However, I am thinking it may be time to part ways with these pants. The quality has never been great and while I love the windowpane print, I am not a huge fan of the pleated paper-bag waist; it doesn’t sit flat and flops about more than I like. The silhouette is also not my favourite currently (although that can and probably will change again), but most importantly, I have now acquired a few other trousers that are better quality and suit me better. All signs point to it being time to let go … but I will probably sit on that decision for a bit longer, just to be sure.

Details: Tommy Hilfiger sweater, Gap jacket, Talbots skirt (all thrifted)

Thoughts: Will I still wear this much brown come summer? It remains to be seen. For now, I guess I am. There is something very pleasing to my eye about the proportions of this outfit. The jacket is cropped (and nipped in) at the perfect spot/length for me. Paired with this long column skirt, it makes me look taller than I am, which I always enjoy.

Details: Tommy Hilfiger sweater, Zara blazer, United Colours of Benetton pants (all thrifted), J. Crew shoes (consignment)

Thoughts: Same sleeveless sweater, totally different outfit. The blazer and pants are not a suit — and, in fact the reds are slightly different, though close enough to fool the eye — but I had to wear them together at least once. I mean, they look damn good together! I thrifted them separately but only about a week apart, which is some kind of kismet for sure. I have never worn a lot of red, other than as an accent colour, but this is making me rethink it. I have always loved this shade of orangey poppy red, which I think flatters my complexion the best out of all reds. This is a VERY bold look, but the simplicity of the outfit balances out the colour overload. It’s a Power Look, for sure.

Details: F21 sweatshirt, Ralph Lauren skirt, Pink Tartan jacket, Emmanuel belt, Ann Marino shoes (all thrifted), Coach bag (gift)

Thoughts: I couldn’t wait to take out my new-to-me (and long coveted) vintage Coach bag for a spin, so I built a cute outfit around it. I paired 2 very old pieces — the skirt and the sweatshirt, high and low — with a recent addition to my closet, this knit moto jacket. I’m not short on outerwear, but I picked up the jacket because I thought it would be a nice alternative for my leather jackets: same style but different weight and texture. And it’s quite nice quality, which is rare to find at the thrifts these days.

Details: BCBG dress (ebay), BR belt, Babaton skirt, acrylic necklace (all thrifted)

Thoughts: Some of the OGs will remember this dress. I bought it back in 2013, after months of hunting, having fallen in love with it after I saw Adrien wearing it on Looks Good From The Back. I hadn’t worn it in years, but held on to it because it holds special memories of a certain era of my life. Recently, I felt the urge to dig it out of storage and try to make it “me” again. The me of now is radically different than the me of 2013-2015, but clothes are endlessly versatile. Case in point: this outfit. An old dress made new again.

Details: Banana Republic sweater & pants, Fossil belt (all thrifted), Stella & Dot necklace (Poshmark)

Thoughts: A very simple but satisfying outfit built around the combination of purple and brown, which is a favourite of mine. It’s all about the colours and the silhoutte, with nice supporting work from a couple of key accessories. That’s all it takes!

Time and Memory-Keepers

It all started with a watch.

No, wait, let me back up.

I guess it really started with my love for sun, moon, and star motifs. I was a 90s teen, it was unavoidable – and I never really grew out of it. Over the years, and especially in the last four as my nostalgia kicked into high gear, I’ve bought all kinds of things – home décor, clothing, accessories – because they featured some combination of celestial bodies. One thing I coveted for a long time was a vintage sun & moon phase watch. There was a Timex one I had my eye on for a while, but the stars never quite aligned (pun intended!) to put it in my path. Or, rather, the stars had something different, better in mind for me. Earlier this year, I finally found the perfect thing:

I paid $25 at Goodwill for this 1988 vintage Guess watch and it’s everything I wanted and more, patina and all. I love the face so, so much. Not only the sun/moon design, but the style of Roman numerals is *chef’s kiss*. I have no idea if it actually works, because I have not replaced its battery; nor do I plan to. Sometimes I manually wind the hands so I can change the moon for the sun, and vice versa, but I don’t need it to actually tell time – I wear it purely as an accessory, like a bracelet.

This watch was the spark that slowly reignited my interest in watches. I used to wear them every day, back in the days when I was obsessed with my Skagen “Anita” watch collection, but this habit was another victim of the pandemic. The difference, now, is that I wear watches without using them – which makes it cheaper and more convenient to collect vintage ones. Of course. You knew that was coming, right? Because I wear them as accessories, I am guided purely by aesthetics, not quality or brand. There are lots of vintage watches at the thrift stores; most of them are overpriced and/or not my style, but I’ve been having fun looking for pieces that suit me. And I’ve found a couple!

The sun & moon phase watch is marked “Hong Kong” but otherwise a mystery; I could not resist its oversized face – probably a men’s watch. It cost $4. The Boy London is also a men’s watch but its 90s vibes appealed to me. It cost $6. At this point, it’s impossible to have cheaper fun at the thrifts.

What happened next is a series of lateral jumps in the creative process (if we can call putting myself together a “creative process”) that can sometimes feel like magic. Wearing watches again made start thinking about arm stacks. Remember arm stacks? I used to love those. Put a pin in this, we will come back to it. First, let’s side step to what will seem like a tangent, but which I promise is very relevant.

Another thing I thrifted earlier this year was a 5-stone eternity band; it was a $3 ring with cheap CZs and a mostly tarnished finish, but I fell in love with the design. More importantly, it looked wonderful stacked on top of my mom’s wedding band, which I had started wearing on the ring finger of my right hand. After testing it for a few weeks, I decided to “upgrade” to a better-quality version – a sterling silver and moissanite ring I found on Amazon:

I am obsessed with this ring stack, to the point that I rarely wear anything else on this finger (slightly inconvenient as I have a lot of other rings I love that only fit on this finger, oh well). Sometimes I swap out the blue topaz ring – an early gift from my husband – for my own wedding band, which also makes for a beautiful stack.

I was probably admiring said stack when the idea came to me. What if I got something similar for a sleek and classic arm stack? What if I got a diamond tennis bracelet? It would look very nice with my vintage watches and other slim bracelets I have, no? Yes. Now, of course, I am not going to jump into actual diamond territory on a whim. TBH, having tried moissanites, I may never jump into actual diamond territory ever again. My first thought was to look for a sterling silver and moissanite tennis bracelet on Amazon, having been impressed with the quality (relative to price) of my ring. I’ve had it for a few months now, wear it daily (and rarely bother to take it off even when I shower), and it still looks great. I wanted the same sort of thing for my bracelet, but it turns out that the price point is quite a bit different when you move from a ring to a bracelet. Again, I was still at the “testing out a new idea” stage, and did not want to spend a couple hundred dollars yet.

I looked around some more and found a much cheaper (under $40) option with CZs instead of moissanite and “gold-plated silver” whatever that means. (I’m pretty sure it’s not sterling.) I put it in my cart to save while I pondered the purchase, and in the meantime decided to have a look at Poshmark as well. Ten minutes of scrolling didn’t lead me to any promising silver-and-moissanite bracelet options … but it did lead me to something promising. I saw a listing for a Swarovski tennis bracelet and went “hmm”. I have always been very happy with Swarovski quality; I’ve had pieces for years and they never tarnished, or lost stones, etc. This bracelet was listed for $60, which was within the budget I was willing to spend. But there was more. Something about it triggered a memory.

It reminded me of a Swarovski necklace that my mom used to have – a gift, I believe, from her friends for her 60th birthday. I had borrowed it from her a few times, before she died, for special occasions. After she died, I sorted through her jewelry and put away most of the fancier pieces, this necklace included. I hadn’t thought of it in years, until the style of stone setting on the Poshmark bracelet reminded me of it. And I thought … what if?

I dug out the blue Swarovski box from storage and looked inside. And sure enough, next to the necklace, there it also was:

This may sound strange, but it felt like I was getting a sign from my mom, all these years later. It has happened before. Seeing the bluejay (my mom’s favourite bird) hop around in the garden right outside the window where I was sitting down for lunch. Finding the red Coach bag I thought I’d sold and missed terrible, but which my mom had kept for years, in one of her closets. Little gifts. Just like this one. Just in time for Mother’s Day.

Love you always, mama!