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I Did A Thing, vol. 12

I have been obsessed with Dries Van Noten for a while; he’s a master of beautiful prints paired with interesting and unexpected silhouettes. As much as I continue to love colour, I find prints somewhat of a challenge now. Anything that might read as “cute” or “twee” is automatically out; on the flip side, clothing pieces that speak to my aesthetic often seem to come in neutral colours or solids. DvN and Marni are, off the top of my head, the two best known design labels who pair my preferred aesthetic with bold colours and prints. (There are probably others, and I welcome all your suggestions in the comments.)

To go back to the former, I know there are many others who are devoted to DvN; his pieces have relatively high resale value on eBay, The RealReal, and so on, and they rarely turn up in thrift stores. The latter fact pains me. In all my years of thrifting, locally and overseas, I have only ever found one DvN piece. The drive to find more is, no lie, at least 50% of what keeps me going back to thrift stores as often as I do, considering that my wardrobe needs, well, nothing.

Most recently, in addition to my general obsession with scoring a “Dries” – any Dries – I have an added and very specific reason to scour the thrift racks. It all started with this inspo pic I found back when I was researching my style avatars.

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This, to me, is the epitome of chic. I love the silhouette, the dimensions, the balance between restraint and exuberance. Later, I went back and figured out this outfit was part of DvN’s S/S 2018 collection. As I began to do more research, I quickly fell in love with all iterations of this idea:

The skirt:

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The dress:

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The blazer:

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The problem with hunting for something this specific, exclusive, and recent is that the chances of finding it secondhand (in Edmonton) are pretty slim. Possibly f*cking none. Online, they have been popping up with some regularity on eBay and TRR in the months since I started my search, but the prices are if not downright prohibitive, then certainly second-guess-inducing. For example, the lowest price I’ve seen for the skirt was over $400 CAD, not including shipping and customs. I pondered that listing for a long time, by the way; in the end, I just couldn’t bring myself to spend so much on a single item that isn’t a MaxMara camel coat – not in the current economic climate, and not at this stage of my life, anyway.

But being responsible sucks. I still loved that skirt (and dress, and blazer) and couldn’t stop thinking about it. And so, with all apologies to Mr. Van Noten, I began looking for an alternative. A DIY alternative, to be precise.

After all, how difficult could it be?

Well, not easy. This is the genius of Dries Van Noten, master of print mixing. He makes it look easy, but finding two completely different patterns that create a perfect, unexpected-yet-brilliant, beautiful pairing is hard AF. I looked for suitable scarves in clashing-but-matching, bold-but-not-gaudy patterns for months, with little success. I was almost ready to give up, and go back to stalking the real thing, when I came across this Echo scarf at Swish, a local vintage/consignment boutique.

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This one came with print-mixing already baked in; I liked the contrasting patterns both individually and together, and while neither was as interesting or unusual as a DvN print, they were pleasing to my eye. The scarf was also large enough to drape nicely, and to create a sufficient amount of “drama”. Unlike the scarves used in the DvN skirt, it was not silk; however, since I didn’t have a silk skirt to pair it with anyway, this wasn’t a problem. The cotton twill actually worked better with the wool skirt I initially planned to Franken-Noten.

I was all set to attempt the deed – trying to figure out how the original piece had been sewn together from the stock photos available online was DAUNTING, y’all – when another lightbulb moment occurred.

Why make a skirt when I could make …

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… a belt! A scarf belt that could be used interchangeably with various other pieces in my wardrobe – dresses, skirts, pants, you name it. Genius! And so much easier to DYI!

The only thing I had to do was source a stretchy black belt from the thrift store. I had a couple of similar belts at home already, but they each had embellished closures that I liked and didn’t want to sacrifice. I decided to look for something with minimal hardware – basically, just an elastic band with a couple of snaps, that could ideally adjust to several widths (my natural waist and something closer to my hips). After a couple of weeks of searching, I found a likely candidate:

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Crap quality, but it otherwise fits the bill. I had planned to sew the scarf to the belt, but when the time came, I couldn’t bring myself to do it; instead, I safety-pinned the whole thing. To get the drape, I laid the scarf flat in diamond configuration, then folded down the top corner about 1/3 of the way. Like so:

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The top (flat) part is what I ended up pinning to the belt. I don’t have a picture of it, but it was easy enough to do – trust. Because I didn’t want to secure it too much (to avoid permanently damaging the scarf), it does need to be adjusted a bit every time it’s put on, but this isn’t too much of a hassle.

I tried my contraption first with a blazer/pants combo, as in this inspo pic:

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Then, I tried it with a skirt:

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As a DYI project, I think this was fairly successful, in that my belt scarf functions as intended. I do think the scarf is a distant second best to having an actual DvN patterned version, but (thrifting) beggars can’t be choosers. The thing that surprised me was that I felt a little bit … well, self-conscious wearing these outfits. Like, maybe having a scarf attached to my hip is where my enthusiasm for the avant-garde meets the limits of my willingness to draw attention to myself. I like these outfits in principle, but I’m not sure if I’m ready to wear them out and about – say, at the office. And this made me wonder if, had I splurged on that $500 skirt, I would have felt the same. Could it be that I just saved myself $500 worth of regrets? Possibly. I have noticed that, while my Dries stalking continues (online and IRL), my lust for the scarf pieces has cooled significantly.

I haven’t decided yet whether I’m going to attempt to test out my DYI project in public, but I’m psyching myself up for it. If you’ve gone through a similar experience – falling in love with a more avant-garde piece, only to realize later that it might be somewhat outside your actual comfort zone – I’d love to hear about it.

A Few Capsule Observations

I mentioned in one of my recent posts that I was going back to a modified capsule approach to outfit planning, and today I’m going to write a bit about my methods and observations.

I am not a typical capsule-devotée; my style skews to the minimalist side of the spectrum, but my closet does not. What I like about capsules is the sense of cohesion. I find it pleasing to the eye to have outfits that are harmonious without being repetitive – for lack of a better description, that look like part of a runway collection. Similar, but not the same. It’s obviously easier to achieve this by mixing a smaller number of items together; however, I also get bored quickly, so I like having variety over time. The compromise that has worked best for me in the past has been the rolling capsule – i.e. one that changes from month to month.

The last time I did a planned capsule, which was over a year ago, my approach was to select 5-7 statement pieces that were my favourites at that time, and build outfits around them. This is certainly a viable approach, but the result is not necessarily cohesive if, like mine, your closet contains a wide range of styles and colours. In principle, it’s possible to take, say, a preppy item and adapt it to suit a boho style, but it will require that you approach outfit building with a different lens; the item cannot be the focus, because it will naturally inspire you towards a preppy vibe.

One alternative would have been to use one (or more) of my style avatars as the “theme” of my monthly capsule. Almost immediately, though, I realized this would not work for me – again, because of the variety of options in my closet, deciding where to even begin would have been slightly daunting. The “building blocks” of my style(s) are fairly basic items, so that would not have helped me figure out the capsule in the same way as using statement pieces for a starting point.

The approach that struck me as having the most potential this time around was choosing a colour theme. Believe it or not, this was not an obvious choice for me. While my wardrobe does have a colour palette, it’s a relatively broad one. My outfit choices are rarely dictated by colour, first and foremost, although there are certain shades I won’t wear, and some that I especially enjoy wearing. In the end, though, I chose colour as my capsule-defining device because it helped me to pick out “starting block” pieces, and also infused cohension into the process right from the get-go. With the exception of blue and neutrals like black, each of my core wardrobe colours is only represented in a half dozen or so pieces, so my selection process was far more manageable than starting from scratch.

Briefly, this is what the process looked like:

– Pick 2-3 core colours (non-neutrals) for the capsule; these would be supplemented by 2-3 neutrals, usually black and cream/ivory.

– Write down all of the items I own for each core colour; ideally, there would be 4-5 items per colour. I had a vague goal of using each item in at least 2 outfits that month. [A typical month for me requires 15-18 work outfits.]

– Make a list of the number of outfits needed, and proceed to fill it out using the colour items previously identified, and adding other pieces from my closet as needed to complete the outfit. In determining how to complete an outfit featuring the core colour item, I focused on my style avatars as guidelines for silhouettes, combinations, etc.

So, for example, the exercise was not simply “complete an outfit using this green sweater” but, rather, “complete an outfit using this green sweater and make it fit the Artist vibe.”

When I was putting my October capsule together, this process hadn’t quite fully crystalized, but it was more or less what I did. Rather than core colours, I ended up focusing on neutrals; my colour palette was black, brown and pale grey, with plum and green accents. For November, I deliberately started with core colours: blue and forest green; my neutrals were black, ivory and grey. For December, I am thinking of switching to a warmer palette: red, pink and plum, with brown and black as neutrals. But we shall see.

A side benefit of my recent capsuling efforts is that I have started to pay closer attention again to what’s actually in my closet – and especially what’s missing and what doesn’t need to be there. Based on those observations, I have refined my thrifting list.

On my “buy” list:

cropped sweaters
chunky, textured knits
thin v-neck cardigans (for layering)
thin turtlenecks (ditto)
interesting toppers (shapes, textures, etc. – anything but your traditional, hip-length blazer)
sack dresses
waist belts
maxi and midi skirts and dresses
paperbag waist trousers
culottes
loafers

On my “don’t buy” list:

structured, traditional blazers (see above)
pencil skirts
sheath dresses
pants (other than as above)
jeans (especially skinnies)
frilly, girly stuff (it’s still my Achilles heel)

Newly focused, I am excited for the possibilities – both for my outfit plans and for my thrifting. Hey, with winter coming, I need all the distractions I can get!

The Best Week of Thrift

When you’ve been thrifting for as long as I have, it becomes increasingly challenging to pick favourite finds. You may wonder, then, at the boldness of my title. I’ll set things straight right off the bat: this is not a post about finding Chanel, or Hermès, or anything of that sort. Instead, my experiences during the week in question highlight what, to me, are the best parts of thrifting: finding something you have long admired, or something completely unexpected and cool, or something that fits just right and makes your heart sing. There were also some good “thrifting lessons” along the way, which I thought I’d share with any aspiring thrifters in the audience.

The Unexpected

I am going to start with the unexpected because, chronologically, this was my first find of the week. It happened on a short stop at the Value Village closest to my house. As I wrote in this previous post, I struck gold – literally. I found a gold necklace for $3, just hanging out on the costume jewelry rack. I’ve never spent much time combing thrift stores for gold because it’s a bit like finding the proverbial needle in a haystack, and there are so many other treasures to be found with far less time and effort. This lucky find doesn’t change my strategy, though it does emphasize the importance of looking closely at racks/displays that are overcrowded and may not seem promising on a cursory view.

If you are a thrifting newbie, how do you look for quality? One of the easiest ways is weight; good quality costume jewelry tends to be heavier than cheaper stuff. This is not always the case, but it’s a good rule of thumb. Also look at the workmanship of details like the clasps and links, and check for signs of tarnish; the metallic finish on less expensive costume jewelry tends to rub off more quickly, so pieces will show signs of wear in places where the piece might be expected to rub against skin or other surfaces (e.g. back of the necklace where it rests against the person’s neck, underside of rings, etc.).

Once you’ve been thrifting for a while, you will learn to spot quality by sight and touch. It stands out – just as the gold necklace did to me, even though I am not an expert in fine jewelry. It’s not so much that I recognized it as being gold; I could just see that it was better quality than anything else around it, which prompted me to investigate it further. For jewelry, look for engravings or markings, indicating either the brand or metal content (if silver or gold). In almost all cases, the higher quality costume jewelry will be marked; fine metals always are.

Pause to talk about general thrifting strategy.

I am a big fan of “speed thrifting”; it’s how I am able to make the most of the limited time I have available also taking into consideration the fact that frequent visits are the best way to increase your chances of thrifting success. I visit the two stores closest to my house on a weekly basis, but I generally spend less than an hour in each one. This doesn’t give me enough time to methodically look through each and every section of the store. Most of the time, I choose 5 or 6 sections, and I scan them visually – I call it “eyeballing” – stopping in to touch and have closer looks at pieces that jump out at me. Again, for a newbie, this approach probably won’t work, and you will likely need to spend more time on each section and each rack; this is actually very helpful, because it’s how you learn to spot quality. You have 2 options: either spend more time going through the whole store in this manner (which can be exhausting, tbh), or narrow down your search to only 2 or 3 sections of the store for each visit, alternating sections between visits.

The Long Quest

A few nights after my gold-digging (zing!) adventure, I stopped at my usual Goodwill. I know this store like the back of my hand, and I tend to navigate it in the same way each time. One of my first stops is the dress rack, where I proceeded to find this Rachel Roy number.

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This jumped out at me because of the print. I recognized it immediately; I used to have not one but two pieces in the same pansy print (against a white background, not yellow). Needless to say, it was one of my favourite prints for a long time. I eventually purged both of those pieces for other reasons, but my print nostalgia was strong enough to prompt me to take the dress to the changing room. I debated for a while, but ended up deciding to buy the dress, largely because I was taken with the mix of patterns. I am obsessed with Dries Van Noten at the moment, and I thought this piece, with its clashing, vibrant patterns, had a similar vibe. No one will mistake this for a high-end designer dress, especially close up (it’s 100% polyester), but it was on sale for $4.25 and I was intrigued by its possibilities. I was also swayed by how nice the dress looked in the changing room selfie I took, which brings up another good “lesson”.

I have been known to buy things at the thrift store without trying them on, but I don’t recommend that unless you’re familiar with the brand and its sizing, and you’re sure it fits your style. Generally speaking, and especially for “maybe” pieces, do try them on before you buy – most thrift stores don’t accept returns, or only offer exchanges at best. I also highly recommend taking a photo while you’re trying on the item; it will give you an opportunity to look at fit more critically, and also help you to solicit a second opinion if need be.

My best find on this occasion was actually a J. Crew necklace. Nothing out of the ordinary, right? Except that it was a necklace I had been coveting for years.

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I had first spotted this on another blogger’s Instagram, long after it was available in stores. I didn’t have any luck on eBay, so after a while, I gave up looking for it. The beauty of thrift is that you never know when you’ll run into something like this. This is not the first time I’ve found an older/discontinued/hard to find item at the thrift store after years of looking for it online. There are no guarantees, of course, so the “lesson”, if there is one, is to always keep an eye out. You never know!

The J. Crew necklace was one of 3 I found on this visit, and the other two were quite lovely as well:

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The chunky necklace on the right reminded me of something you might find at Anthropologie; considering those pieces run anywhere from $70 and up, this $8.50 version (from Chico’s!) was a steal. The green jade-like necklace was only $1.50, and judging from the quality, it’s probably vintage. All three pieces suit my personal aesthetic perfectly, and what more can one ask for? Speaking of which …

The Perfect Dress, Times 3

On this particular week, I was able to make an extra thrift trip – this one to a Goodwill on the other side of town. There, I quickly struck gold (not literally this time) in the dress aisle. Not one but three dresses that were just perfect for my Artist/Boho style avatars jumped into my cart.

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With the exception of the striped Moulinette Soeurs dress, the others didn’t look like much on the hanger; they’re very much of the “sack dress” variety, whose true fit is not apparent until they’re on the body. I decided they were worth a try because (a) sack dresses are my thing, and (b) the fabric in each case was promising (100% cotton and 100% linen, respectively). Sure enough, I loved how these dresses draped on the body, and I have a gazillion plans for wearing them.

I’m not sure if this is a “lesson” per se, but having a well-defined style (or style avatars) has helped me immensely in terms of thrifting efficiently. No matter how beautiful an item of clothing might be, if I can see at a glance that it doesn’t suit my aesthetic, I move on immediately. I also know to keep an eye out for certain brands and fabrics that are “good bets” for my style – those I always look at more closely and/or try on. Linen is a good example; it’s not always the case, but there’s a good chance that a 100% linen piece will be cut in a way that’s intriguing to me – loose, sack-y, relaxed. Brand-wise, Wilfred is a good example too. I don’t buy 100% of the Wilfred/Aritzia pieces I find, but I do own a fair number of items from that brand because – like the beige dress above – they tend to have that minimalist aesthetic I like.

If you have other specific thrifting related questions, let me know and I will do my best to answer them. And if you have tips to share, please do so in the comments!