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What I Wore: March 2025, part four

Details: Ralph Lauren shirt, Gap vest, vintage skirt, Pedro Mirailles shoes (all thrifted), Rafael Alfandary necklace (eBay)

Thoughts: My bestie was visiting recently from Montreal and we went thrifting (natch!) and she found this amazing vintage patchwork Gap vest for me. I adore it! Bestie knows me so well. I paired it here with a paisley LRL shirt I also found recently, and then decided to do something different from the usual, and add a short skirt. In the past, I’ve stuck to wearing vests with either pants or long skirts, and changing up the proportions/silhouette switches up the vibe. I liked it!

Details: Ralph Lauren turtleneck, Jones NY cardigan, Pendleton coat, H&M jeans, Cotton Ginny belt, Coach bag (all thrifted)

Thoughts: Wore this to go thrifting with my bestie and had the most wonderful time. Let’s pretend you can’t see that bag, because I have a story about it and I think it deserves its own post. The rest of the outfit was built around the coat, of course. I picked colours that would go with those in its pattern, without pulling too much focus. I also wanted pieces that could add variety of texture, hence that chunky cardigan. I love that it’s a “neither here nor there” kind of colour, but somehow a super versatile neutral. Fringe jeans came in clutch again. The vibes were vibin’!

Details: Babaton turtleneck, Ralph Lauren vest, Club Monaco shirt, Gap jeans, Pedro Mirailles shoes (all secondhand)

Thoughts: Another layered outfit inspired by Papa Ralph. I got these almost-vintage (2007) Gap jeans almost entirely for the colour — obsessed with this weathered brown wash — but they also happen to fit great. A bit on the lower waist side of things, but not egregiously so. I think they’re going to be a versatile option this summer. I love that I can pair them with denim shirts without going full Canadian tuxedo.

Details: Babaton turtleneck, Chaps vest, Danier skirt, Ralph Lauren belt (all secondhand)

Thoughts: Long over long is not an outfit formula I use very often, but I like this belted silhouette. I was inspired to pair the vest and skirt because the colours, together, spoke to me. It’s my fave shade of blue, which happens to look amazing with dark red and brown — plus white/cream as the neutral. I still can’t get over the fact that I found this vintage suede maxi skirt, in impeccable condition, for something like $25 at the thrifts. Even there, it would now probably cost $50, and you’d have to add a zero to that for retail. It’s a forever piece, and I feel so lucky to have it.

Details: Toni T dickie, Uniqlo sweater, Smythe jacket, Twik pants, Ferragamo shoes (all thrifted)

Thoughts: Don’t hate me, but when I was thrifting with my bestie, I found not one but two brand-new Smythe blazers at one store. This is one of them; the other is a similar windowpane pattern, but in red. And each of them cost less than $15. Total “start the car” moment. Did I mention how lucky I feel? Anyway, this outfit came together in two parts. First, the sweater and pants — for obvious reasons. This shade of brown might just be the perfect match for my fave blue. The length of the sweater also works well with the rise of the pants. Second, I decided to add the jacket. Why? It has leather elbow patches that are the exact same brown as the pants. It had to be a sign. Also, I thought it would be interesting to add black as a contrast neutral and see how that might change the visual impact of the outfit. I thought it ended up looking quite sharp.

Details: Ricki’s turtleneck, Everlane sweater, Jones NY jacket, Hudson North skirt, Coach bag (all thrifted)

Thoughts: I’ve worn this jacket with a white/black/blue combo, as well as a white/black/yellow combo. Naturally, it was then time to wear it with blue and yellow together. And that’s how this outfit happened. It was cute. This is def a summer skirt, but I just can’t wait anymore, friends. I need all the joy I can get in my life … and a fun, swishy, summer skirt is one small hit.

Spring 2025 Wishlist

I’m saying ‘spring’ because it’s technically the case, but the weather here hasn’t yet made up its mind. Perhaps that explains, in part, why I’ve been rather disinterested in thinking about my spring closet edit. [The bigger reason is the fact that I’ve been obsessed with one thing, and one thing only, lately and that’s my book. Update coming soon.] I usually love the seasonal transitions each year (summer/fall and winter/spring) because it’s a chance to do a thorough review, clean-up, and switch-over of my closet and to be reunited with clothes that have been in storage for 4-6 months. It can feel like getting a brand-new wardrobe! But … it’s still too early for that now *sad face* Instead, I did a mini closet edit so I could free up some hanger space, because things were getting veeeeeery squeezy in there. The long and short of it is: I don’t need any new clothes.

Yeah, I know: duh! You’re not surprised, I’m not surprised. When you’ve been thrifting for 15 years, this was bound to happen. Over time, your closet gets to be full of incredible clothes that you adore and don’t want to part with. And because clothes are meant to be worn, rather than just stored, to buy new clothes means having to part with old ones. And that means that I’m now at a point where I can buy very, very little. Each purchase has to be an extremely delicate, strategic move — like, closet brain surgery or something. It sounds stressful, but I’m hoping it won’t be. In fact, I’m hoping it will be a fairly easy (and positive) shift. One, I’ve been training for this for a long time; if I were still a novice thrifter, the thrill of the hunt would make it much harder to be as picky and strategic as I need to be. [Been there, done that, learned the lessons.] Two, the thrift scene is getting more and more wobbly; quality finds are getting rarer, prices are all over the place and trending up. Two and a half, I have an unwritten goal this year of not purchasing any retail items (apart from undergarments, if required) and this mindset should help. Three, my creative focus has shifted almost entirely to writing, and will likely remain there for the rest of the year, so I will have less time and energy to think about or shop for clothes.

So why am I still writing a post about my spring wishlist? Manifestation, baby. There are a few things that I’ve been wanting for a while — and continue to want — and I’m hoping that by writing them down, AGAIN, I will persuade the thrift gods to finally bless me. Don’t scoff; it wouldn’t be the first time it happened. I mean, ok, fine, scoff; the law of attraction is bunk … BUT … being persistent in looking for things at the thrifts does eventually pay off and writing them down helps me remember to keep looking. Speaking of which …

Dr. Martens 14-eye mid-calf boots

This is a very sad story indeed, friends. I thought I’d bought a pair on Poshmark, except it turned out the seller was a jerk who thought it would be hilarious to string me along for two weeks, pretend to ship the boots but not actually do it, make up some half-assed story about the post office losing the parcel, then shrug and say “understandable” when I told them I was cancelling the purchase. Like, sir/madam: sincerely, from the bottom of my heart, I hope you step on a Lego every morning for a week.

Anyway, back to square one. I have a pair of lace-up boots that go just above the ankle, and I wear them constantly and adore them. I think having a slightly taller pair would be amazing, especially with my shorter skirts and dresses. I’m not hopeful of being able to find something like this at the thrifts, but I’m also a bit iffy on Poshmark now. Bit of a dilemma, but I’m trusting that something will turn up soon.

Brown cowboy boots

Yep, still looking for these. It’s been more than a year, I think. Last summer, I kept finding black and grey cowboy boots. Since then, I haven’t found many at all — nothing in good condition, my size, and/or the colour I want. Hopefully, more will hit the stores now that it’s spring, and even more going into summer which is Stampede season, so I can finally find my perfect pair. I’m willing to wait for it, all the more so since I did recently find a pair of 90s square-toed boots in a light brown/tan, and while they don’t have quite the same vibe, they’ll give me a sense of whether that’s indeed the best colour to look for when it comes to the cowboy boots as well.

Vintage tan jeans

I’m not sure if this is a very accurate/helpful description, this being a case of “I’ll know it when I find it”. Basically, I want a pair of heavy-duty tan chinos in a relaxed fit. When I say “tan”, I mean something between oatmeal (too light) and the colour of classic Burberry trenches (too yellow). When I say “heavy-duty chinos”, I mean a heavier cotton fabric, maybe but not necessarily denim. I’m pretty sure that Calvin Klein made pants that fit these parameters back in the 90s, so that’s what I’m looking for — though I am open to other brands, of course. I think a pair like this would be a good summer option, alongside my beloved vintage white Liz Clairborne pants (and my regular jeans, of course); they’d suit all of my various Ralph Lauren moods, and coordinate nicely with my wardrobe colours.

Ralph Lauren capsule

Speaking of which, I am back on the train of looking for special RL pieces to add to my collection. We are talking about stuff from the 80s and 90s that encapsulates the ethos of the brand: knitwear, patchwork, southwest-inspired pieces, tweeds, etc. Rare and hard to find at the thrifts, but not impossible — witness the dog sweater I recently found at Value Village for $8. I am also willing to allocate a bigger budget to this category, especially if I am buying fewer clothes overall. Remember those RL skirts I bought on eBay back in 2023? They were pricey (for me), but I have never once regretted the money I spent on them, because they are truly special pieces that bring me a great deal of joy whenever I wear them, and I know I will have them forever. So, my plan is to keep an eye out on eBay and Poshmark (and my local stores) for similarly special items and be prepared to splurge a little bit when a good deal pops up.

What’s on your spring wishlist / shopping strategy?

What I Wore: March 2025, part three

Details: Ralph Lauren sweater, Banana Republic dress, Pelle jacket, Canadienne boots, Coach bag (all secondhand)

Thoughts: Still can’t get over how lucky I was to find this sweater at the thrifts. It makes me so happy! Here, I wore it with a 90s velvet Banana Republic mini dress — a somewhat ‘out of the box’ mash-up that worked smashingly, imo. All the fun with brown!

Details: Babaton turtleneck, Jones NY jacket, Ricki’s skirt, vintage belt (all thrifted), Mia shoes (retail, old)

Thoughts: Speaking of brown, here is another head-to-toe look in a slightly more varied palette. I thrifted this vintage Jones NY jacket because I’m obsessed with tweedy jackets, and this one reminded me of the stuff that Siegfried on All Creatures Great and Small wears. [Siegfried is my current fictional boyfriend, and also kinda-maybe one of my style icons, lol.] The label says Jones New York Country, which must have been a short-lived attempt to copy Papa Ralph. I’ve never seen this sub-brand before, but you guys know that Jones NY is one of my go-to vintage brands. Probably because they were trying to copy RL. Anyway, I belted the jacket here, because it’s a styling ‘trick’ I’ve been wanting to try for a while.

Details: Gap turtleneck, French Connection sweater, Jones NY jacket, BR jeans, Fossil belt, Bata shoes, Coach bag (all thrifted)

Thoughts: Here’s the same jacket, different look. This sweater isn’t something I’d normally gravitate towards, but it spoke to me for some reason. Something about that combination of colours, together with the stripe action — it’s good stuff. The rest of the outfit is pretty basic … but, like, elevated basic. At least, that’s how I’d categorize it in my books.

Details: Tahari shirt, Denim & Supply jacket, Ralph Lauren skirt, Nocona belt, Zara shoes (all secondhand)

Thoughts: A little Ralph Lauren action, in case you were missing it. I always come back to this, no matter how much I experiment with other things, and it always makes me happy. I dug out this jacket from my archive closet while I was doing a bit of ‘editing’ (slowly starting to prep for my next clothing swap); I’d put it away a while back because it’s a bit too big for me, and I wasn’t wearing it often enough. I still love its colours and pattern, so I decided to try … you guessed … the belt-over-jacket thing again. Can confirm: still works.

Details: Harley Davidson tee, H&M cardigan, Babaton skirt, Dr. Martens shoes (all secondhand)

Thoughts: I loved this outfit so much, you guys. So much, I wore it twice. Yes, I wore the same, exact outfit more than once. That’s very rare for me; I’m a clothes-repeater and an outfit formula-repeater, but not an outfit-repeater as such. When it comes to clothes, I like mixing things up all the time. There are too many possibilities to try, and not enough time as it is — never mind if I just wore the same outfit over and over. But! Some things are too good. So I wore this outfit one evening to go and get my hair cut, and then I wore it again the next day because I felt it needed another, proper outing. Who knows, I may wear it again one of these days. It’s one of those “I want to look cool but not too dressed up and I don’t want to give it any thought at all” kind of outfits.

Details: H&M top (retail, old), Tattered Rose dress, vintage belts x 2, Thierry Raboutin shoes (all thrifted)

Thoughts: I thrifted this dress because it’s giving Edwardian/ whimsigoth vibes, and I’m feeling drawn to that lately. This outfit came about because I ended up trying it on (to see if it fit) over this exact top, which I was already wearing, and decided I liked the effect of the white sleeves and neckline. Next time, though, I think I’ll lean more into the punk side, and pair the dress with some combat boots and leather. Stay tuned.