These are some of my favourite non-clothing purchases of the year.

2018 Mitsubishi Mirage

So, yeah: I bought a car this year. Up until this summer, we have been a one-car family; while our Subaru Outback is a great family car, I didn’t particularly like driving it. I like small, compact cars because I feel I have a better sense of direction/space in them; parking an SUV is one of my worst nightmares. I don’t do much driving, especially in the winter, but I really missed the freedom of just being able to go places without having to worry about logistics … or parking stress. The Mirage was the right size (SMALL!), and offered the most value for my budget; I’m not a car person, so I was mostly concerned with having the basic comforts: AC, heated seats, back-up camera, etc., all of which came standard with the entry level package. Anyway, I love driving my little car and it’s definitely my favourite non-clothing purchase of the year, but this is one thing where your mileage may definitely vary – no pun intended – so don’t take this as any sort of testimonial.

Augustus the Fiddle Leaf Fig

2018 was also the year when I became a plant mom. It hasn’t always been easy, but Augustus is one of our success stories and my pride and joy. Fiddle leafs are notoriously finicky plants, so the fact that he looks to be thriving (we recently got the second set of new leaves) makes me incredibly happy. Auggie is also a very handsome fellow who makes a big impact on our living space; he’s even managed to make a fan out of my husband, who started off by calling him a “cabbage”.

Thayers Rose Petal Witch Hazel Toner

I feel like I spent the first part of the year experimenting with my beauty routine, only to spend the last six months drastically simplifying it again as my interest in all things skincare began to wane again. I currently have it narrowed down to about 5-6 regular products (which might sound like a lot, but isn’t considering where I started) which seem to keep my skin happy. For my morning toner, I am still a fan of The Ordinary’s Lactic Acid 5% solution, but the company shenanigans (and constant shipping delays) have made me a bit leery of getting too reliant on it. Lately, I have been alternating between the Lactic Acid (working through my stockpile) and the Thayers Rose Petal Witch Hazel Toner. I don’t feel like the latter is as astringent as the Lactic Acid, but it still works on the morning “slick” and it doesn’t make my skin angry. The best part is that I can Amazon Prime a large bottle for under $20 in less than 48 hours – instant gratification is the best kind of gratification.

Structube Miles Day Bed

We have been low-key remodelling our main floor all year, and while we are nowhere close to being finished yet, our living room is looking pretty nice. Swapping out my old IKEA half-shell chairs for this Structube bench/day bed really upped the style ante. I love the dark green velvet, and it works surprisingly well with all the other colour in the room. As a bonus, it’s also practical (can sit up to 3 people in a pinch) and comfortable (we have all been known to take turns reclining on it, but the kids are its biggest fans).

Cozy therapy Plush

I’m only somewhat joking when I say that my son is addicted to his cozy plush; he asks for it to be heated every night before he goes to bed, and he assures me that it really helps his sore muscles. Why does a 7-year old have so many sore muscles? I have no idea. Having borrowed it once or twice, I will say that this thing is pretty handy (and a nicer alternative than a water bottle, IMO) if, for example, you experience any aches and pains at certain times of the month. Ahem.

Jiffy ESTEAM handheld steamer

This thing was a game changer for me vis-à-vis clothes maintenance. I use it on all my thrifted finds, as well as to refresh clothes between washings/dry cleanings. And it does a good job of getting wrinkles out of most fabrics; it won’t deliver a perfectly crisp button-down shirt like an iron would, but then again – I don’t wear button-down shirts, crisp or otherwise. [My husband irons his own shirts, though he is a fan of the steamer as well.] But use with caution: I recently managed to give myself a first degree burn by getting too close to the steam. It’s much hotter than you would think.

[Side note: I applied my Dr. Jart Cicapair cream to the burn, and it has healed without any issues/scars.]

Anthropologie flower vases

I thrifted a lot of great home decor stuff this year, and while it’s hard to pick favourites, my three Anthropologie flower vases are probably at the top of the list. Two of them were older styles, which were actually thrifted not by me, but by my friend Jenn (Life Preloved) who passed them along to me. I also bought one of the new styles that came out at Anthropologie this fall, and it did take quite a bit of willpower not to buy more.

Books

Y’all know I love books, but as I was revisiting my mental list of books read in 2018, I couldn’t think of many that would pass the “favourites” threshold. I guess I read a lot of “okay but not memorable” books this year? I dunno, I could also be suffering from pre-holidays mental daze. In any case, here are some that I can still remember and recommend wholeheartedly:

We Are Never Meeting In Real Life, Samantha Irby

Hillbilly Elegy: A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis, J. D. Vance

Champagne Supernova: Kate Moss, Marc Jacobs, Alexander McQueen and the 90s Renegades Who Remade Fashion, Maureen Callahan (a must-read for any Gen-Xer who loves fashion and gossip)

OK, your turn: what were your favourite things that you bought this year? And please, for the love of dog, send me your books reccs so I can start 2019 strong!

8 Comments on Best of 2018: What I Bought (Part 2)

  1. Books:
    1. “so you wanna talk about race” – ijeoma olou
    2. “what works: gender equality by design” – iris bohnet
    3. “Subdivided: City-building in an age of hyper-diversity” – Jay Pitter (Female Canadian author!)
    4. Literally anything recommended by Bitch Media
    5. I really want to read Phoebe Robinson books and Franchesca Ramsey’s book “That escalated quickly”
    6. This was recommended to my boss and I wanna check it out – “The Anna Karenina Fix: Life Lessons from Russian Literature” by Viv Groskop
    7. “That’s What She Said: What Men Need to Know (and Women Need to Tell Them) About Working Together” – Joanne Lipman
    8. “The Stone Collection” -Kateri Akiwenzie-Damm – gotta represent anishinaabe female writers when we get the chance

    And any other book that writes about smashing the patriarchy, feminism, and intersectionalism (in all forms). And, ideally, books written by women, BIPOC, LGBTQ2+, or other marginalized persons that need to have their voices heard.

  2. I haven’t done much reading in 2018. However, I did purchase one book that you recommended in a previous post – Savage Beauty, Nancy Milford. I’m sure I will love it once I actually delve into it – goal for 2019!

    If you are looking for good reads, a few personal favorites are:

    The Joy Luck Club, Amy Tan – It’s such an intricate story of familial relationships between mothers and daughters and how misperceptions and identities are passed down.

    Shanghai Girls, Lisa See – This is a great story about two sisters, and if you didn’t know better; you might think that Amy Tan wrote this story as well. The author does such a wonderful job of inviting you into her characters’ lives. It also gives you a sense of the prejudices faced by immigrants.

    The Bell Jar, Sylvia Plath – This one is a classic on many reading lists. An intimate account of somebody dealing with depression and feeling misunderstood. But more so, it’s an important piece of literature for feminism and mental illness.

    The Poisonwood Bible, Barbara Kingsolver – About a family of evangelical Baptist missionaries who move to the Congo in the 60’s during a civil war in order to “enlighten” the villagers of western ways and Christianity.

    Middlesex, Jeffrey Eugenides – This is a great piece of literature and a Pulitzer Prize winner. If you haven’t already read it, please do so. Not only is well written, but the story is clever in the way of how it introduces the relevant issues of today relating to gender identity.

    I know, my reading list is outdated. Perhaps, you are looking for more current publications. But I couldn’t pass on the opportunity to mention a few great pieces of literature.

    If you are looking for something to watch on Netflix, you must watch Alias Grace, if you haven’t already done so. I haven’t heard you mention it in any of your blog posts, but I believe that you’ll absolutely love it! Don’t read too much about it though. It’s one of those stories that can have many different interpretations depending on your perception, so it’s best if you have your own before you read too much about it.

  3. I felt like I also read a lot of meh books this year! But a few I really liked

    – Everything I Know About Love, Dolly Alderton
    – Commonweath, Ann Patchett
    – Stone Mattress: Nine Tales, Margaret Atwood

  4. I may have recommended this one before: Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie. Family, race, immigration, and also—-humor! Romance!

  5. Frances Fyfield, but not the Sarah Fortune series, was my find this year. For home, my best item was a Pottery Barn faux fur throw backed with velveteen. For wardrobe, Kate Spade Karen blue denim loafers.

  6. In terms of books, some of the ones that have stayed with me the most over the past few years are Born a Crime by Trevor Noah, Between the World and Me by Ta-Nehisi Coates, and Countrymen by Bo Lidegaard. In terms of fiction, I also like Alexander McCall Smith, and the Maisie Dobbs and Flavia de Luce series.

    • Seconded! Educated is amazing and similar to Hillbilly Elegy. Also:
      The Goldfinch, Warlight, Milkman, anything by Rebecca Solnit