Month: December 2019

Best of 2019: Favourite Outfits

One of the best parts of taking OOTD (outfit of the day) photos is having the ability to look back and make little collages of the “Year in Review” variety. Wait, is my foreshadowing too heavy-handed? Ahem. This post is, as the title says, all about my favourite outfits of 2019. Because this was the first full year since I adopted my style avatars (part way through 2018), I thought it would make sense to group my favourites accordingly. I have been saying that I feel like I have a good grasp of each avatar aesthetic, and I think the following collages do show that. There are consistent themes that tie each avatar’s outfits together, and a pleasing (to me) sense of cohesiveness. At the same time, I have never felt more free or comfortable to experiment. I know what I like and what works for me – preferences and lifestyle-wise – but I also know that style isn’t a static, one-and-done, proposition for someone like me. I think this avatar-focused approach to personal style will grow and evolve with me, and I look forward to seeing what fashion has in store for the new decade ahead.

The Prince

The Prince doesn’t always wear black, I promise, but 2019 was the year when I embraced “Corporate Noir” so … yeah. A lot of black it was. Playing with texture, volume and angles was my favourite thing to do in terms of fashion experimentation, and these Prince-ly outfits are prime examples of that.

The Artist

The Artist is the softer, less structured, and slightly more colourful counterpart to the Prince. 2019 was also the year of midi/maxi skirts and dresses. Skirts in general multiplied in my closet like pretty little mushrooms after a rainstorm.

The Adventurer

Skirts even made their inroads with the Adventurer avatar, my most rough-and-tumble version of myself. (Hey, it’s all relative!) This year, I moved away from the Han Solo characterization into more of an Indiana Jones territory. This remains my most neglected avatar; nonetheless, I still feel that it serves an important function in my sartorial self-expression. We shall see whether 2020 and beyond offer new inspiration to breathe new life into this avatar.

The Bohemian

This avatar is a bit of a catch-all, but not really. Whenever I get experimental, this is where I usually end up. Colours, prints, interesting proportions – the Bohemian has it all. It can get dressed up or down, go minimalist or maximalist (although it tends to favour the latter). It’s fun and cool and doesn’t take itself too seriously.

If you’ve been following your own version of the avatar process, share your year-end thoughts in the comments. What worked, what didn’t and what are you looking forward to in 2020?

What I Wore: November 25-December 7 2019

The Artist, Personified

Was there ever a more Artist outfit? Architectural lines, asymmetry, draping, interesting little details. Joseph Ribkoff can be really hit and miss – a lot of pieces skew older and kind of dated – but sometimes it’s just straight up good stuff. Like this jacket. It’s a considerably larger size than I usually wear, and I initially thrifted it for my mom, but once I put it on, I was sold. The oversized-ness adds to the structural chic of the jacket – I love how it looks from all different angles.

I paired it with my Oska skirt (itself with some cool little draping details) and my Warren Steven Scott earrings which, frankly, make the whole ensemble:

Notes: Joseph Ribkoff jacket (thrifted, $13); Oska skirt (thrifted, $10); DVF shoes (thrifted, $5); Warren Steven Scott earrings (retail, $70).

Sparkle & Shine, But Make It Subtle

I guess my theme for December work outfits is “sparkle and shine: office appropriate edition”. I love the cut of this Marc Cain sweater – it’s a relaxed fit without being bulky – and the subtle metallic sheen. It’s a neutral, but with a cool twist. Same goes for the DVF wedges; they look like a plain black pair of pumps from the front, but then you turn and BAM: gold wedge in yo’ face! Okay, maybe that’s not very subtle after all.

You know what’s definitely subtle? A mesh turtleneck. You may remember that I searched high and low for one earlier this year; well, one of my dear friends gifted me one for my birthday, and I am happy to report that I was right in assuming it would be a versatile, must-have piece. It’s great for layering – it adds some coverage, and also (surprisingly) some warmth. I don’t love the feel of polyester so close to the skin (I find it makes me sweatier than usual), but it’s a small price to pay for fashun (and the mesh washes very quick and easily).

Notes: Marc Cain sweater (thrifted, $6); Aritzia pants (thrifted, $8); Rebel Sugar turtleneck (gifted); DVF shoes (thrifted, $5).

Layer Cake

Why wear a bulky parka and feel downtrodden by winter, when you can triple up on your wool layers and feel … marginally less downtrodden by winter. Mind you, the weather was cooperating somewhat that day (it was only, like, minus 7 Celsius which is practically fall weather here) so I didn’t have to freeze for my protest. But any excuse to wear my fave Cartonnier fur-collar jacket is one to be pursued. I paired it with a lightweight merino turtleneck, a heavier wool cardigan, and wool culottes. Although it was all black and grey, I felt quite cheerful. Alberta winter: 0; Adina: 1.

Notes: Cartonnier jacket (thrifted, $20); Club Monaco turtleneck (retail, $40); Comme des Garcons cardigan (thrifted, $8); Aljean culottes (thrifted, $6.50); Stuart Weitzman boots (thrifted, $20).

Little Women, Revisited

I don’t remember exactly when I watched the 1994 adaptation of Little Women; it was at home, not in the theatre, I do know that. And I was still young enough (read, a teenager) that it became a part of the pop culture vocabulary for some of the earliest iterations of my identity – in the same way as My So Called Life, Buffy The Vampire Slayer, and Clueless. It provided some of the archetypes of femininity with which and against which I sought to define myself as a young adult. Not to mention prototypes of romantic (and platonic) relationships.

It may seem strange, in that context, to say that I have never read the Alcott novel. I was going to write “I don’t know why”, but if I think about it, I can probably come up with some likely explanations. I think it was a convergence of prejudices on my part. As a teenager, I had a great deal of prejudice against American literature, for reasons that would take too long to unpack here. (I got over it.) I also viewed “kiddie books” with some disdain, and Little Women probably slotted itself into that category in my mind based on the title alone. The movie was wonderful and entertaining, and that in itself was probably a mark against the book because I had a vague idea that worthwhile literature and entertainment were strange bedfellows.

Had I read Little Women, this post probably wouldn’t exist. I can only assume that I would have loved the book and, as with all such favourites, I would have re-read it periodically in the intervening decades. My feelings about it and its characters would have grown with me. As it is, my feelings about Little Women (the movie) are a kind of time capsule. The last time I re-watched it was sometime in my early twenties – not sufficiently removed from my adolescence for a different perspective to form. When I tell you about my favourite March sister, it’s still 16 year old Adina who is speaking. Based on literary prejudices alone, that person is something of a stranger to me.

There have been some hints that the new adaptation of Little Women (to be released this December) may be a modern take on the story. I am looking forward to seeing what Greta Gerwig does with it, and how my almost-40 year old self relates to it. But in the meantime, I also thought it would be an interesting experiment to re-watch the 1994 version. Break open the time capsule. See whether my younger self and I see eye-to-eye on the important questions (is Amy the worst?) or not.

Here is where things stood before the re-watch. (I am writing in the past tense because I’m speaking on behalf of my old self which is a weird gambit now that I think about it, and I don’t know how else to communicate it. Ahem.)

As you may be able to surmise, Jo was my favourite March sister. I grew up wanting to be a writer and suffering from a serious case of “not like the other girls”. I didn’t like show-offs (like Amy, ugh) yet I yearned to be recognized as special, preferably by a wealthy but sensitive dreamboat. Meg was nice but boring. As for Beth … well, if Jo was the person I aspired to be, then Beth was the person I actually was. The good girl who plays by the rules and gets the crappiest deal. I was not nearly as selfless and saint-like as Beth, but I was a dutiful, responsible daughter and I felt like that meant missing out on all the fun that my teenage peers were having (in movies, anyway).

And, of course, Amy was the worst.

Amy was Gwyneth Paltrow. Teenage Adina hated Gwyneth Paltrow with a vengeance. She represented Privilege-with-a-capital-P, privilege of a kind that I felt would always elude me.

Which brings me to Laurie. Laurie was one version of my dream boyfriend, much like Josh from Clueless or Angel from Buffy (yeah, I know). I honestly cannot remember anything about what made him so dreamy and desirable other than the fact that he was rich, handsome (I will always have a soft spot for floppy-haired, period-attired Christian Bale) and had the good taste of falling in love with Jo. I felt devastated when Jo rejected Laurie, and utterly betrayed when he went on to marry Amy. The latter part felt like confirmation of my secret teenage fears – that every boy I would ever fall for would end up choosing Gwyneth Paltrow instead. Well, you know what I mean.

I braced myself for that disappointment again, and re-watched the movie.

And it was interesting.

Here are my takeaways.

One, the movie still holds up very, very well. Were it not for the parties, involved, I would be adamant that the new adaptation is neither needed nor wanted. [But I do want to see Saoirse Ronan as Jo, and Florence Pugh as Amy and, oh my, Timmy Chalamet as Laurie. I can’t wait, in fact.] Anyway, it’s always a kind of relief when a movie beloved by your younger self turns out not to be retroactively terrible. Little Women is far more than just not terrible: it’s charming and heart-warming, and with one glaring exception, wonderfully cast.

Jo remains my favourite March sister, but I have much more sympathy for her situation than I did before. Most importantly, I understand her decision to reject Laurie’s proposal. Laurie was too bourgeois for Jo, and their relationship struck me as far more platonic in nature (especially on Jo’s side) than I remembered it. Here is where it gets interesting. While I admire Jo’s pursuit of her passion, I don’t identify with it in the same way that I did at 16-17. I made different, more prosaic choices in my own life since then – choosing a stable if less creatively fulfilling career – which would align me much more closely with Amy than Jo. Not gonna lie: I kinda get where Amy is coming from now. I, too, like to be comfortable and have pretty things. Turns out, I’m far more pragmatic (and bourgeois) than bohemian. [Luckily, I’ve had the option of pursuing my own career versus having to hunt for a rich husband like Amy.] In fact, the one drawback of the movie is how little time we spend with the adult Amy; I think she would be an interesting person from whom to hear more and I’m excited to see that we may be getting that opportunity in the new adaptation.

The movie also rushes over her developing relationship with Laurie, which I can only assume is more fleshed out in the book. Again, younger me didn’t care about this because I thought the whole plot point was a crime. Current me would have liked to see how Laurie “earns” Amy’s respect and love. Because, let’s face it, adult Laurie is a bit of a wet blanket. If I was ever a fan of mopey emo boys, that time is long gone and now I have no patience for rich, handsome, privileged white men whining about how hard their lot in life is. Still, Christian Bale (sans attempted dandy mustache) is fine; nothing to complain there.

The only other major surprise I got in watching the movie was the fact that Mr. March didn’t die. I could have sworn that he did. I also thought Beth died a lot sooner – not that it made much difference. Poor Beth.

Oh yeah, one last thing. Professor Baer. Ok, look, maybe we are not going to be friends again after I write this but I have to say it: Gabriel Byrne was a terrible choice to play Baer. Byrne is an objectively handsome guy, but he fell flat for me in this character. I thought he and Winona had zero chemistry – and I say that as someone who has been charmed by a fair share of cinematic May-December romances. I will reserve judgment on the new version of Prof. Baer until I see the new movie, but currently I am leaning in favour of Alcott’s reputed preferred ending: having Jo end up alone as a literary “spinster”.

Ok, your turn now: tell me your thoughts on Little Women in the comments.