Month: October 2022

Poshmark Ninja

A question I get asked with some frequency on IG concerns my Poshmark strategies; not to toot my own horn, but I have been able to score some pretty sweet deals from time to time, and I guess people want to know the secret sauce.

There is no secret sauce.

Wait, don’t X your way out of here just yet. I have some thoughts. Let’s talk about it.

I’ve been on Poshmark for 2 years and during that time I’ve bought … ahem, one or two things. I’ll spare my blushes and not attempt to give you an exact number. I could write a lot about my experiences on Poshmark — trends I see, things that bug me, weird seller behaviour — but anecdotes are probably not going to help you much. Overall, I would say 95% of my experiences have been positive, in the sense that I received what I was expecting from the purchase. I’ve only ever done one return, when the seller sent me the entirely wrong item and Poshmark reimbursed me, and have had a couple of situations where the item came with flaws not disclosed in the original listing (but not major enough for me to open a case with Poshmark). That’s not to say that all my purchases were hits, but generally where they have fallen short, it’s because they were impulse buys I didn’t think through well enough.

One thing that may have an impact on my Poshmark experience and the searching strategies that I’ve found useful is something I haven’t specifically called out before. Maybe it’s obvious, maybe not. I shop on Poshmark Canada. Based on limited exposure to the US version of the app, my sense is that Poshmark Canada remains rrelatively smaller (i.e. with fewer listings overall). You will see in a moment why this could be important.

I have discussed my general strategies before but let’s do a more in-depth refresher. As time goes on and the app itself evolves, my strategies get tweaked. Gotta stay nimble!

One strategy is searching up specific brand names — e.g. “Dries Van Noten” or “MaxMara” — and sorting the results one of 2 ways depending on what I’m looking for:

  • Sort by “Just in” if I quickly want to see new listings (posted since my last check). Remember how I said that Poshmark Canada is a smaller market? That makes it feasible to browse the results of a general search for most high-end designer brands within a relatively short time because there won’t be more than a dozen new listings* if I run the search on, say, a weekly basis. [*Note: this is true for most clothing-focused high end brands. For brands that also sell accessories, like Gucci for example, you will end up with a lot more new listings.]
  • Sort by “Price – Lowest to highest” if I am in the mood to see what bargains popped up recently that I might have missed. I use this less frequently, usually if I’m bored. I don’t usually recommend letting price be the main driver of your clothing purchase decisions, but sometimes a price cut will bring an item previously out of budget within reach. Or make me more willing to consider a “style risk” type of piece.

This approach has its limitations — the more popular the brand, the more results to browse — but the advantage is that, through a general search, you can come across cool pieces that you didn’t already know about. Otherwise, if you are looking for something specific (either a particular item or a general category of items), it’s better to combine the brand name with a descriptor (for example “dries van noten skirt”) or to narrow the search down by category (“dries van noten” then select “skirts” under category).

I never select the Poshmark brand name category to run my searches, and instead use the name itself as a search term. I don’t know why, but I find that using Poshmark’s brand category (if it exists) sometimes doesn’t catch all listings. I don’t understand their algorithm. If the brand name is distinctive enough, I often use a shorter version — like “cornejo” instead of “Zero+Maria Cornejo”. I have no idea if this is the optimal approach, but it’s what works for me.

Also! Poshmark now has a Saved Searches feature (finally!) so you can save your most frequent searches and re-run them without having to type out the terms every time. It also helps you remember all the things you want to keep an eye on.

The other strategy is using descriptive search terms. These might be one word only — in my case, “turquoise” has been a long-standing search — or something more detailed. For common brands like Zara, I may combine the brand name and a descriptive term. Depending on what I am looking for, that could be something generic (“Zara jeans”) or something specific (“Zara sequin skirt”) or something SUPER specific (“Zara blue sequin skirt”). Obviously, the more generic the descriptive term(s), the more results you will get. I don’t always have time for mindless browsing but sometimes I’m in the mood — browsing a general category is how you can come across unexpected gems. Again, you can sort by “Just in” or “Price – Lowest to highest” depending on what you want to see first.

If I am using one generic search term — like “turquoise” – I will sometimes narrow the results by category — in my case, Jewelry. I call this a “wild card” search because you never know what you might get. I’ve found quite a few amazing pieces this way, and discovered new-to-me designers.

There is something of an art to choosing search terms and I couldn’t possibly cover it all in one post that is already getting too long. The more specific the terms, the narrower the results. If your search isn’t turning up enough results, widen it — use fewer terms or different (analogous or related) terms. Here is an example from my current search list. I mentioned before that I am looking for palazzo-style jeans and I have a number of on-going searches saved in Poshmark for this purpose. My search terms include:

  • “palazzo jeans” (obvious)
  • “trouser jeans” (in my opinion, not as accurate of a descriptor but one used by many brands and I want to see any adjacent styles that might meet my needs)
  • “wide leg jeans” (this is very broad and I often combine it with a brand name like Zara — why Zara? because it’s a trend-based brand so they are likely to have a version of most popular current trends.)

To be able to run effective searches, synonyms are your friends. People describe items in different ways, not always using the precise industry term. For example: “bustier” and “corset top” and “crop top” — these are technically different things, but I have seen them used by sellers to describe very similar items of clothing.

An important drawback to using very specific search terms is that it may miss relevant listings where the seller doesn’t include any descriptor terms. This is especially true for non-resellers, i.e. people selling from their own closet. People who don’t have experience selling online will often not include relevant information; some might just list the brand and size but no other description. This means that, even if the item meets the criteria of your search, it won’t show up in the results. There is no surefire way around this other than to run very, very broad searches and browse a LOT. I’m not usually in the mood for this, but if I have time to waste, it’s an approach that can pay off. Non-professional sellers often offer better prices than resellers.

The general moral of the story: success on Poshmark is not entirely unlike success at thrifting. Checking the app regularly increases your chances of finding cool bargains. The more time you spend browsing, the better your chances. Sometimes, it’s luck of the draw – being in the right place at the right time (when a listing goes up).

I have a whole other set of strategies I use once I’ve identified a listing of interest … but let me know if that’s something you would want to read more about.

What I Wore: October 2022, part one

Details: vintage (no label) dress (thrifted), Zara blazer (thrifted), Wilfred sweater (retail), Ferragamo shoes (thrifted)

Thoughts: I’ve been saving this dress since the spring, planning to use it to replicate some Ralph Lauren romantic-prep outfits. I wanted something frothy and floral; initially I was looking for a black floral chiffon maxi skirt (or dress) similar to my original inspo, but this brown handkerchief hem dress hits the spot. Plus, I am a bit obsessed with brown this fall. Never thought I would say that but here we are. Head to toe in brown. Who am I, even?

Details: Gap sweater, Toni T dickie, Nanette Lepore jacket, Studio Lysa skirt (all thrifted), Manolo Blahnik shoes (eBay)

Thoughts: Never fear, I still do colour. I randomly hit on this sweater-jacket combination and I am obsessed. The jacket is a chartreuse-purple houndstooth, though the colours don’t photograph as vivid as they are in real life. I love how well this pattern pairs with this particular stripe sweater. I have a few (all from Gap) and I can tell you — not all are equal when it comes to this particular combo. I added the skirt to bookend the stripes, and it think that really works too. It’s academichic with a colourful twist.

Details: Gai Mattiolo jacket (Poshmark), Toni T dickie, Pilcro sweater, Inc International pants (all thrifted)

Thoughts: Speaking of colour … here’s something to really wake up your eyeballs. It’s fun. I love the flower pin — it reminds me of SATC’s Carrie.

Details: Club Monaco sweater (retail), Della Spiga jacket, Josef belt, BDG pants, Chelsea Crew shoes (all thrifted)

Thoughts: As much as I’m loving brown right now, I have to say that green-blue combinations are a forever favourite. There is something so lush but also soothing to this pairing. But look: still managed to sneak in some brown too.

Details: Toni T dickie, Everlane sweater, Ralph skirt, Gap jacket (all thrifted), Mia shoes (retail)

Thoughts: Same basic outfit as last week, but changed up the shoes and topper. I like this version too. It’s rare that I repeat outfits this literally, but I couldn’t resist. The brown-black combo in the shoes has inspired me to extend that palette to the rest of my outfits.

Details: J. Crew sweater and shirt, Urban Outfitters pants, Mia shoes

Thoughts: An old sweater that still brings me joy, plus some new(ish) pants that are just so easy to wear. Sometimes, simple outfits are just the ticket.

Things I Wish I Knew When I Was Younger

I’m sure you’ve seen those posts on social media listing 5, 10 or however many things people wished they knew when they were younger. We all have those lists, don’t we? In fact, I’m sure our lists are far longer and broader than what can be covered in an average TikTok, and they likely include things both profound and superficial (but nevertheless useful). It got me thinking about what my fashion-related list would be. Let’s take a look!

Proportions matter. Like a lot of other Gen X/Millennial women, I had a complicated and at times fraught relationship with my body for years. I thought about it, and what it looked like, a LOT but in retrospect I have to wonder whether I actually saw it at all. It wasn’t until relatively recently that I began to figure out some basic but pretty important proportions. I have a long torso, a fairly high-set waist, and violin hips (or “hip dips”) – things which explain why the low-rise trends of the early 00s were a nightmare for me, and also why I look great in high-waisted, flowy bottoms. I also have a comparatively short inseam for my height, which is why cropped pants and petite length bottoms work best for me. I was nearly 40 years old by the time I was able to perceive these aspects of my body clearly and without judgment, and at the same time understand how they impact the way clothes fit me. Before that, whenever clothes didn’t fit properly or didn’t look “right” on me, I always assumed there was a problem … and that problem was something to do with my body. This is, of course, nonsense. All bodies are wonderful and different. If a piece of clothing doesn’t feel right on the body, it’s the clothing that has to change, not the body.

Ignore sizes. Clothing sizes are bullsh*t. The sheer inconsistency means that they are worse than useless as a guide to fit. At the same time, the arbitrary societal values associated with sizing means that they can be very harmful. I remember reading, as a young adult, “tips” in magazines about cutting out the size label from your jeans so no one would know what size you wore. Every time I am reminded of that, my mind boggles afresh – that we could be so concerned about something as utterly improbable as a stranger catching a glimpse (somehow?!) of a tag on inside of our clothing which might (somehow?!) tell them something relevant (!?!?) about us.

But leaving aside that broader discussion, sizing is practically worthless. What matters are measurements: depending on the garment in question, things like shoulder span, bust, waist, hips, rise, inseam, etc. These things tell you how something will fit on your body (assuming you know your own proportions and corresponding measurements). This is very helpful because fit is actually very subjective. For example, just because size A technically fits me, doesn’t mean size A is what I want – perhaps I want that garment to fit more loosely on me than intended by the designer, in which case I am going to need size B. If I know measurements, I am in control and I dictate fit – the clothing doesn’t dictate to me.

Get a steamer. I’ve always hated ironing. Some people love it, good for them. Buying a high-quality steamer changed my life.  I tried a cheap version many years ago, and thought the whole thing was overrated because that steamer couldn’t take out any wrinkles to save its life. Fortunately, I gave steamers another try, spent a bit more money, and got a professional-quality product (Jiffy). It works incredibly well – and fast! – on almost all fabrics; it won’t turn out a shirt as crisply as an iron, but that’s not a drawback for me (I don’t wear dressy shirts very often). Steaming is quick and easy and, as a bonus, can kill most nasties, and refresh clothing between washes.

Learn quality. I wrote about this before, but being able to recognize quality by sight and touch was another game changer for me, especially as a dedicated thrifter. My knowledge of the fashion industry and history is fairly extensive, but I don’t know everything – far from it. The best way to learn is by recognizing what you don’t know … and then reading up about it. It’s happened more times than I can count: I come across a piece that feels good to the touch, see a label I don’t recognize, and Google it – and discover something special and/or add to my store of brand knowledge.

OxyClean for the win. I used to avoid white shirts like the plague – not just because I’m a spill-prone klutz, but also because I was afraid of yellowing. And then I discovered OxyClean and the white shirt fears were history. I could probably expand this into a whole “learn proper laundry care” thing, but I’m by no means a laundry expert, so I will simply add: most of your clothes should not see the inside of a dryer, and if that’s unavoidable, use the lowest heat settings. Laundry care is the key to making things — even fast fashion — last, and is so ignored/underrated.

Nothing (or everything) is timeless. Timelessness is a lie. Not to get philosophical with you, but nothing in this world is impervious to change. Especially fashion! Chasing timelessness in clothing is looking for perfection that doesn’t exist. I am all for mindful consumption, but I am skeptical of things that reek of marketing ploy aimed at obscuring the true nature of what is being consumed. Quality, (true) sustainability, ethical production, things that make your heart sing – these are things worth paying for. Timelessness isn’t worth an extra dime.

Save everything. Okay, this one is maybe not really practical but speaking of the cyclical nature of fashion: everything comes back in style! I don’t have a lot of regrets when it comes to the clothing I gave up over the years, but those few regrets I do have … they are strong! I definitely have become more mindful, not only about what I bring into my wardrobe, but also what I discard. Quality is going down all the time, so the thrifts aren’t going to be a goldmine forever; I plan to rely more and more, in the future, on my archive closet — bringing things in and out of my current wardrobe as trends cycle through.