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What I Wore: December 10-14, 2018

Faux Festive

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It’s hard to feel festive when life is pelting you with lemons, but ‘tis the season of office Christmas parties, potlucks and gift exchanges, and the season won’t wait. Fake it till you make it, right? I wore a lot of red-hued clothing last week, and that seemed to help – if not my mood, then at least my efforts to blend in. [To be honest, it also seems to be the season for everyone to be cranky and stressed out at work, so I probably didn’t need to worry too much about my lack of joviality standing out.]

I hesitate to put this Cartonnier brick-coloured blazer into the “red” category, but since I don’t actually own a lot of truly red clothing, it gets a pass. The cut and colour work nicely with my Zero+Maria Cornejo dress, which I am always happy to wear. Speaking of which:

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But also:

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Pin One On and Carry On

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Things did not improve as the week went on, so my next attempt at faking some (sartorial) cheer involved red AND a bit of bling. Overcompensating? Perhaps. It also involved a black cashmere turtleneck because why not wrap yourself in something soft and vaguely reminiscent of a safety blankie? Actually, I think the correct term is “comfort object”, but you know what I mean. Whatever we’re calling it, black turtlenecks are it for me. Don’t believe me?

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Tell me, what’s your style “comfort object”?

Best of 2018: What I Bought (Part One)

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It’s that time of year – time to share Best and Worst Of lists. Before I tackle outfits, I thought I would start with some of my best – or perhaps I should say “favourite” – purchases of 2018. And first of the first: clothing. This is ostensibly a style blog, after all. And true to my track record, there are plenty of options from which to pick.

I do try to be selective with what I buy, I truly do, but I am rarely as successful as I would like. Because the vast majority of my purchases come from local thrift stores — I bought, like, 8 new things this year (almost all of them being accessories) — it’s easy to rationalize most purchases, not matter how experimental in nature. Worst case scenario, if something doesn’t work out, I’m out $10 or less (and the piece is re-donated or gifted); more often than not, I can re-coup my money, or even make a small profit, by re-selling or consigning the item in question. I am pretty ruthless when it comes to getting rid of “failed experiments”, which means my closet is filled only with the things I truly like … and like a lot. So, like I said, getting a list of favourites down to a manageable length is a challenge. I mean, lookit: that $2,500 YSL blazer I thrifted for less than $15? It didn’t make the cut.

What did?

– Sarah Pacini leather vest ($80; consignment) – This has become my go-to piece when I want to add a bit of edge to an outfit. It’s a wonderfully versatile piece for layering, which is my current obsession.

– Ayrtight dress ($45, $0 with consignment credit; consignment) – This is everything I love in dress format – interesting draping, neutral colours, long hemline, natural fabrics, comfortable silhouette.

– Theory tie-waist blazer ($13; thrifted) – I have purchased a ton of great blazers this year (including several black ones), but this one is starting to stand out; the waist tie makes it interesting and can help change out the silhouette of the outfit.

– Dries Van Noten dress ($323, $0 with PayPal balance; eBay) – Beautiful dress by one of my favourite designers. Enough said. This hasn’t turned up on the blog yet, but I cannot wait to wear it.

– Antipast skirt ($6; thrifted) – This skirt is incredibly soft and floaty, and it makes me feel like a (goth) ballerina every time I wear it. I didn’t even know that was an aspiration of mine, but there you have it.

– Zero+Maria Cornejo dress ($12; thrifted) – One of the most elegant sack dresses I own. I love its architectural lines, and the very cool abstract pattern.

– Aritzia Cyprie sweater ($130; retail) – I adore the “tamarind” colour of this sweater, the slim-but-ever-so-slightly-slouchy style, and the overall luxe feeling. It makes me feel like a million bucks when I wear it.

– Aqua butterfly-embroidered leather jacket ($150; secondhand) – I love leather jackets, and I love butterflies. A butterfly-covered leather jacket? I mean, c’mon. This is SO my style alley, they might as well name it after me.

– Armani Collezioni dress ($35; thrifted) – It’s a glitter bomb, and extra AF … but in an understated kind of way. I feel like that describes my overall aesthetic pretty well.

– AllSaints ruffle neck blouse ($7; thrifted) – I am not a fan of ruffles (on myself) but this top is something special. It’s dramatic and has a vaguely Edwardian vibe that works well with some of my more goth-leaning pieces.

– Marc by Marc Jacobs metallic crossbody bag ($20; thrifted) – I’ll be honest, you guys: I use this bag about 90% of the time nowadays. I’ve completely fallen out of the habit of changing my bags to match my outfits. This one goes with almost anything I wear, and it’s the perfect size to wear both on its own, or with my commuting tote/backpack. I especially like the fact that I can wear it on the shoulder or cross-body.

– J. Crew cameo necklace ($8; thrifted) – Finding this necklace (after many years of lusting after it online) is still one of my fave thrifting stories. It’s beautiful, and quite versatile, and it makes me happy every time I wear it.

– Manolo Blahnik “Sedaraby” pumps ($12.50; thrifted) – Another favourite thrifting moment was finding these “Cinderella” pumps just in time for the holidays. They’re a classic style that I can wear with all my special occasion dresses for years to come.

– Anthropologie green resin earrings ($80, $0 with PayPal balance; retail) – These were a real splurge for me, but I have no regrets. I adore the malachite-like resin, and I love how simple yet elegant these are. The posts are a pain to put in for some reason, but I wear them as often as I can anyway.

I could go on, but I will stop here so as not to bore you to sleep … because I want you to tell me: what were your favourite purchases of the year? Any surprise winners – aka pieces that you didn’t expect to end up loving as much as you did? Tell all in the comments.

What I Wore: December 3-9, 2018

Balloons, Away

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Talk about sleeve drama, yeah? I have never thrifted a Forever21 piece before, but I had to make an exception for this balloon-sleeve (probably not the correct term, don’t care) top. I don’t even like gingham, but I love me some dramatic volume. I love it enough to pay some preposterous amount ($12, I think? maybe more) because Value Village is nothing if not ridiculous in its pricing; I can say that with confidence, because this top still had its original tags, and the listed retail was $24. I was going to post a long rant about it on Instagram, and then I forgot and more exciting things happened in my thrifting life, and in the meantime, I got over it. I’m fine. I mean, I can’t be mad because look how cute this outfit is! I felt very sassy and yet also vaguely like a medieval page the whole time. I love these stupid sleeves way, way too much.

Long Over Slim

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Another thing I’m currently loving (possibly) too much is this whole tunic-over-pants formula. It’s the sort of thing I used to associate with women of, ahem, a certain age; somehow, it now seems totally fresh and even slightly edgy. This could just be a symptom of my infatuation with menocore, I don’t know. In my mind, I am a kind of average-person version of Tilda Swinton; I don’t need to know that I actually resemble your Aunt Kathy who is Handling Menopause As Well As She Can In The Circumstances. Y’all don’t burst my love bubble, okay?

Anyway, how else can anyone wear this Sympli tunic? I love the draping detail of the hemline, but it makes it rather scandalous to wear without some sort of (substantial) leg covering. In the context of a tunic, leggings feel juvenile to me because that’s precisely what my 5-year old wears on a daily basis. Slim-cut pants, on the other hand, seem eminently suitable for an ostensibly mature adult. In any case, it’s a combo I really enjoyed wearing and will probably try to replicate. You have been warned.

Layering Experiment No. 698542

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I love this Marni top. Ditto for this Rick Owens turtleneck dress. And, hey, they are even better together. My DYI Isabel Marant-lookalike belt ties it all together nicely. It’s one of my favourite ways to wear this top, but here’s a look at some other examples:

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