As an average cusp-Millennial with access to social media, I am susceptible to getting a Case of the Wants every so often. You know what I mean: when you become convinced that a product – be it a piece of clothing, skincare, or some random doodad – is the only thing standing in the way of your being the Best You That You Can Be. I don’t know about you, but my mental image of the Best Me That I Can Be is a less intimidating version of Tilda Swinton. I am several light years away from any remotely similar incarnation, but let me put it this way: if Tilda Swinton published a 24 hour product diary, I would be parsing that shizz like a holy text. Hope springs eternal in this bosom.

The fun part of being an adult is that, sometimes, I get to indulge my Wants. The less fun part is that I also have to make the hard decisions about which Wants can be indulged responsibly, and which can’t.

I keep a rough mental list of the Wants, mostly in the hope that I will, someday, find them for a bargain basement price, preferably at a thrift store. This rarely happens but you know what I said about hope. I’ve never written down this list, assuming it would be a fairly depressing exercise, but you know what? I’ve done it now, and it made me realize that there are actually not that many things on it (all things considered – I am a sucker for pretty things), and that’s because I’m damn lucky to already have most of the things I’ve ever coveted. I know I sound like a broken record, but thrifting has opened up a world of self-indulging (and self-indulgent?) possibilities. One woman’s trash truly can be another’s treasure.

I decided to share my “Wanted” list here as a bit of an experiment. A year from now, I want to see how many of these items I can check off the list – either because I no longer want them, or because I was able to get them (and, in the latter case, how I got them). We’ll see if this Law of Attraction business works.

In no particular order:

1. Diptique candles. I love fancy candles; I just can’t deal with the price. The only way I could bring myself to buy a $80 candle is if it came with an envelope containing $70. A friend of mine recently found some Jo Malone soap (new in box) at the thrift store, which gives me hope. People throw out all kinds of expensive s**t; why not fancy candles? To be perfectly honest, I would take an empty Diptique glass container (candle holder?) for the Instagram potential alone.

2. Alexis Bittar jewelry. Love their stuff, but the brand is hard to find in Edmonton and, needless to say, it’s even harder to score at bargain prices. I always keep an eye out for this whenever I travel, especially in places like Nordstrom Rack.

3. Alex & Ani bracelets. I actually fell in love with these after thrifting a bunch at Goodwill. I want more, but I also don’t want to pay $30 or more for a simple metal bangle. Edited to add: I actually found another one recently, with a letter “A” charm. OMG, this might actually work!

4. Hermès scarf. I know their bags are ridiculously sought after, but those are not really my style. [Listen, I wouldn’t kick one out of my thrift store cart if it landed there, but I’m not actively looking for it either.] Their scarves, on the other hand: yes, please. The prints are truly stunning, and if I ever got my hands on one, it would likely end up framed on my wall.

5. Miu Miu patent leather lace-up oxfords. When I worked at my old job, I used to see a young woman at my train station from time to time. She always wore head-to-toe black and rocked an aesthetic that I have since come to adopt to a certain extent (relaxed Scandi minimalist). Even then, I became obsessed with her clothes, but especially the black lace-up loafers she wore most of the time. I never summoned the courage to ask her where they were from, which was as unfortunate as it was/is typical of my MO (to wit, admire from afar, hoping not to come across like a creep). The closest thing I’ve found online is a Miu Miu pair I spotted on eBay. I keep trying to find a thriftier alternative, but I may give up at some point and splurge instead.

6. Anything patterned from Dries Van Noten. My relationship with prints is slightly different now; I don’t wear them as much as I used to, but I still enjoy an unusual pattern. Nobody does prints like Dries; it would be like owning a piece of wearable art.

7. Rick Owens velvet dress. There once was a mushroom grey, asymmetrical, velvet Rick Owens dress at Swish. I fell in love with it, and tried in on, oh, at least 2 or 3 times; but it was about $150, and I chickened out of buying it every time. This was about a year before my aesthetic (r)evolution and, at the time, it felt too much out of my comfort zone for the price tag. Needless to say, I deeply regret not getting it. I have not been able to find it online since, but I am forever looking for it.

8. Anthropologie flower vases. I already have this one:

… but Anthro came out with a bunch of different versions, and I want them all. I don’t want to take my chances with eBay, so I keep hoping the local thrift stores will deliver. Edited to add: my friend Jenn (thrifter and reseller extraordinaire) found me a second one from the series! I am on a roll!

9. Marc by Marc Jacobs Iridescent Q Hillier bag. I have a lot of MbMJ bags already, I know. But this is the one I’m specifically talking about:

O.B.S.E.S.S.E.D. There is a small version currently listed on eBay for $300CAD+ but that seems excessive, all things considered.

10. Zero+Maria Cornejo, Sarah Pacini, Marni … basically, anything. I’m not picky because these brands’ aesthetic is 100% my jam.

11. Loro Piana cashmere. This stuff is baby angel soft, I hear. I wants it.

12. Isabel Marant Lecce belt. I blame Sherry from Save, Spend, Splurge for introducing me to this belt I Absolutely. Need. Right. Now.

Honestly, I love it enough to actually consider paying full price for it, but it doesn’t seem to be available at regular retail sites or on the secondary resale market, yet. Sigh.

13. Rachel Comey shoes and/or jewelry. Sometimes, browsing the Anthro website is really dangerous. Actually, it’s always dangerous. I do love the minimalist/quirky look of RC accessories though. Haven’t thrift spotted this brand in the “wild” yet, but I feel like it’s only a matter of time. Optimism for the win!

14. Aritzia Daria (p)leather leggings. These are really not that expensive in the scheme of things, but I am sometimes unreasonably cheap, OK? I cannot bring myself to spend $130 on a pair of leggings (whether Aritzia or Commando or Spanx) and I’m also too unmotivated to hunt around for a decent sale. [Actually, I generally try to avoid online sale-stalking, because I find it fuels my feelings of Wantiness.] So, I’m just gonna put them on the list and hope that they will somehow, magically, end up in my closet.

15. Celine Belt bag. I haven’t paid much attention to designer bags in the last year or so, and there aren’t any other ones out there that I covet (new or old), but this Celine is the exception. I love the casual elegance of the belted flap; it’s epitome of effortless cool to me. It’s an impractical bag for my day-to-day life, but it still makes my heart flutter every time I see it.

Actually, I take that back. There are two other designer bags I covet – the Polene No. 1:

And the Chloe Faye:

Siiiiiiiiigh.

Tell me: do you have a Me Want List? What’s on yours?

In recent years, I haven’t been much of a trend watcher when it comes to fashion; information about new trends will occasionally filter through my consciousness because I read a bunch of female-oriented websites (Racked, Refinery29 and the like) where it proceeds to languish, along with the rest of the not-insignificant amount of useless trivia I acquire on a daily basis. With that said, this year, I decided to devote a bit of planning to my fall wardrobe – or, more specifically, the key elements of my fall “stylebook”. I have enjoyed having a cohesive style over the past few months and I plan to stick with it, but I thought this was a good time to tweak it a bit for the new season.

As you guys know, I thrift almost all of my wardrobe. When I thrift, I prefer to go in with an open mind rather than limit myself to specific items; I like to think of it as being receptive to whatever the universe wants to throw my way, and I find it a good way to avoid disappointment. The result of this approach is that I thrift things without regard to the season; I’ve bought boots in June, and summer dresses in December. Sticking to a well-defined set of personal style rules helps to ensure that there’s a rhyme and reason to my purchases, and that each piece fits in with the greater whole.

All of this is to say: my approach to fall wardrobe planning was not to develop a list of key elements from scratch, or in a vacuum. Rather, I started with the contents of my closet, and identified items and silhouettes that would inspire fall outfits, all the while keeping to my overarching aesthetic themes: comfort & coziness; playing with volume and textures; architectural lines; minimal but bold accessories.

Ankle boots

Over the past year, my ankle-boot collection has exploded. I currently have 5 pairs, and just about every imaginable style. I used to wear ankle boots mostly with pants and mostly as “outdoor” shoes. This year, I am planning to try them with everything, including skirts and dresses, and make them a part of the outfit as much as possible. Ankle boots are, by and large, a more androgynous choice than, say, heeled knee-high boots. In the right pairings, ankle boots can provide an interesting juxtaposition to more (traditionally) feminine clothing such as a velvet dress. One of the combos I am very eager to explore is ankle boots + cropped pants. I have grown very attached to my culottes and tapered trousers, and I hope they will look marvelous paired with boots – style AND function for the win.

Leather skirt

One of the best things about fall is the opportunity it offers to play with different materials and textures; you can layer all the things but still “show your work”, so to speak, without having to hide it all underneath a huge parka. As you guys know, I love my knits; I also love pairing them with things like velvet, silk, and leather for a bit of contrast. I recently thrifted a (faux) leather skirt which should add an interesting twist to my outfits. I am still figuring out how to make it work, but I think a chunky sweater and/or wool blazer will be a good start. Speaking of which …

Wool blazers

Tweed for fall? Groundbreaking. In my defence, I have quite a collection of wool blazers, and I have to figure out how to make them look something other than preppy. I am going to start by throwing them over each and every outfit I wore this past summer and seeing what works. I am also on the hunt for some lightweight (knit) vests to layer under my blazers for that Prince/Adventurer crossover.

Knit Cape

Ok, so this is one thing I DON’T currently have in my closet, and am sorely missing. I mean, how cool does this look:

I have seriously considered trying to knit my own version of this, but quickly gave up; it would take me until next summer to finish and, quite frankly, I ain’t got time for that. So I am on the thrift hunt for something similar; it may be a long shot, but I am up for the challenge.

Cropped Sweaters

Playing with lengths and proportions has been a big part of my recent style exploration, and I want to keep that going into fall. While I continue to love voluminous knits, I am also looking to try cropped ones. I think they could add an interesting twist on some of my go-to silhouettes; for example, I have been rediscovering the long-over-skinny silhouette, and I would like to take it one step further with short-over-long-over-skinny. I also think crop tops would look smashing paired with the higher waist trousers that are quickly becoming wardrobe favourites. I currently have one kinda-cropped sweater in my closet, so I will be looking to expand my collection in the coming months.

Paperbag Waist Trousers

These are actually having a “moment” right now, so I have been tempted to cheat and simply look for them in retail stores; as they have not been a super popular style in the last 3-4 years, I’ve come across precious few at the thrift stores. I am hoping that changes soon. My current COS pair is a huge favourite, so if anyone has recc’s for similar styles across other brands, I would love to hear about it. It always helps to know what to watch out for, after all.

And that’s my list for Fall 2018. I would love to hear what’s on yours.

Today, I thought I would write a little about my recent thrift finds and, in particular, those that fall outside the usual purview of this blog. Clothes and accessories will never not be at the top of my thrifting list, but I have been spending a lot more time lately looking for other treasures. Every 2-3 years, I go through a hard-core nesting phase – which is a relative thing, because I’m a homebody at heart in any event – when I divert most of my creative energy into my home. That time has come again, and I have been a busy thrifting bee. Let’s take a look at my more interesting, unusual or downright quirky finds, shall we?

Vintage Scarf Upcycled Project

I mentioned this in my previous post about our living room refresh, but it’s worth mentioning again because this was such an easy (and inexpensive) upcycling project with a big impact. This La Mendola (vintage, I think) scarf was a fabulous find for under $5 – pure silk, gorgeous pattern. Have I mentioned how much I love cacti?

I don’t wear silk scarves, but I knew I had to have this one because it was simply too beautiful to pass up. On the spot, I decided to treat it as a piece of art – which, in my eyes, it is – which meant getting it framed. After searching for an appropriate frame in thrift stores for a few weeks, with no success, I ended up getting a basic one from IKEA. We simply “sandwiched” the scarf between the Plexiglas front and the cardboard backing, because I didn’t want to risk damaging the fabric by pinning it down. We didn’t bother adding a mat; we used the (white) back of the stock photo that came with the frame as a makeshift mat, and it worked just fine. I think the slightly uneven borders add to its overall charm. From a distance, this looks like a poster; it’s kind of surreal, actually.

A quick tip for finding quality scarves: look for rolled edges. I used to think that meant edges that are doubled over and sewed nicely, but no. Rolled edges are very distinctive to the touch – sort of bubbly and quite bulky. You will know it as soon as you touch one. Every single expensive scarf I’ve thrifted – this one, Pucci, vintage DVF – has had a rolled edge.

Globe, With a Twist

I’m not sure if I mentioned it here before, but one of my more recent collections is globes. Sometime last year, I came across this photo when I was looking for bookcase inspo online. As one does. Ahem. I love anything map-related, and I was immediately smitten with the array of globes of varying shades of blue, and decided I needed this punch of colour in my own library. I have been slowly accumulating globes ever since, picking them up in thrift stores wherever I find them. This particular globe was $5 at VV, and was a very nice shade of blue:

It was only once I got home that I realized there was something different about it. Can you spot it?

Yup, my first Francophone globe.

Mantel Centerpiece

I tend not to thrift a ton of pictures, because my husband and I have generally divergent preferences when it comes to art unlike, say, interior design as a whole. He’s a die-hard for original art and I … just like looking at beautiful things. One of my favourite (thrifted) pictures is a reproduction of an old Picasso drawing:

I managed to “sneak” that one by him, and I also got this other repro accepted on the mantelpiece:

The larger painting behind it is an original piece from an artist friend, but there’s more to it than meets the eye: the original canvas was a mass-produced landscape I picked up at HomeSense years ago to hang in my then office. It was pretty bland and boring – the art version of elevator muzzak – and I was going to get rid of it when our friend asked if he could have some fun with it. My husband and I both loved the result, and during our recent living room refresh, we decided to make it the focal point of our fireplace.

Around the same time, I spotted the little “Rembrandt” and was drawn to its colour scheme, which echoed the colours on our mantelpiece. I thought it would provide a nice contrast/juxtaposition to the larger artwork, and I ended up buying it during a VV sale for something like $4 – a modest investment in case my husband balked at my idea. Which he did, initially. He hated it, in fact. But we argued talked it out, and eventually he sorta just … gave in. All I know is that the picture has been on the mantel for a good month, and hasn’t mysteriously disappeared yet.

Portrait of a Young Girl

Speaking of divisive items, this one was a doozy. This repro portrait of Bianca de Medici by Bronzino was love at first sight for me. Don’t ask me why; I know it’s maybe (more than) a little quirky, but I love it. (And I fell down a rabbit hole while researching it, which is one of my favourite ways to waste an evening or three, tbh). Love must have temporarily blinded me, because I bought it assuming that my husband would share my feelings. Not so much. He not only didn’t love it; he thought it was creepy.

Creepy?!

I like to think that I have a finely tuned creepiness meter – no dolls, puppets or clown paraphernalia for me, thanks – but this didn’t register at all, so his reaction took me by surprise. He was must have sensed my disappointment, and being the good husband that he is, he agreed to keep it around so that he might “acclimatize” to it. As of the writing of this post, we have not yet agreed on whether this can go up on a wall in the house, but I remain hopeful.

Update: it found a home!

Makeshift Side Table

I love this little reading nook in the living room, but there is an electrical outlet that sticks out (visually) like a sore thumb. I initially wanted to hide it with a plant, but this spot doesn’t get a lot of light, which ruled out that option. As an alternative, I thrifted this large vase ($8) in a colour complementary to our overall palette, but it still looked out of proportion just sitting there on the floor. What would help is a little table, but it has to be just the right dimensions and style – and that is proving hard to find. In the meantime, I came up with an improvised solution: the stack-of-books-as-makeshift-table idea.

A half dozen or so large “coffee table” books later, and we had the right height. These are multi-functional; my husband and I love flipping through interior design books, so they are both furniture and entertainment in one. Most of them cost under $5 a piece, so it was an inexpensive solution to boot. Once we figure out what we’re doing with this nook on a permanent basis, the books will get re-homed in our new living room bookshelves or upstairs in the main library; no doubt, they will continue to inspire future DYI projects for many years to come.

Butterfly Terrarium

I love butterflies, but I had not come across butterfly terrariums until recently; first, in an interior design book, then on the Thrift Store Hauls sub-Reddit. Naturally, I became determined to thrift my very own. Thrifting for niche items is a long game, so I put it to the back of my mind. And then, out of the blue, I found one a few weeks later! It’s a small one, but it’s lovely:

I wanted to find it a good spot in the house right away, but none of the established “corners” of the house (like the mantel) suited it. So I made it its own spot on a previously-ignored ledge/shelf of the library.

This is all stuff I already had, except for the potted hoya which is a new addition to our growing plant family. I love moving things around every so often; it makes the house feel fresh without any major overhauls.

Have you found good stuff at the thrift store lately? Working on a cool upcycled project? Tell us all about it!