Best of 2018: What I Wore

In 2018, my style evolution reached a phase that feels, well, “just right”. I have also come to realize that I am not a person whose wardrobe will ever be static, but I love this iteration of it and I am looking forward to enjoying it for a while. I have a lot more thoughts on the psychology behind my approach to clothing/personal style, but I will save those for another post. For now, let’s have a look at outfits.

There is probably something to be said about the fact that I have had my casual style figured out way before my professional/work style. I don’t think there has been as drastic a change in my casual outfits since, hmm, 2016 or so? I have simply been perfecting the same outfit formulas, and adapting them as new pieces have come into my closet. Here are my top 9 favourite casual looks:

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As expected, the colour palette is more restrained than in past years, but the vibe is pretty consistent. Leather jackets, chunky knits, sack dresses, tweed and camelhair, distressed jeans are all key pieces. This collage does hint at some of my recent experiments with different proportions and layering, and there is a sense of cohesion which, as you know, is really pleasing to me.

As for my favourite work looks:

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These are pretty representative of the direction of my personal style this year. More layering, some menswear inspiration, longer hemlines, and architectural influences. As above, the colour palette leans heavily to the neutrals side, but there will never not be some colour and some prints in my wardrobe.

And that’s kind of it for the best of 2018. I just want to take a moment to thank each and every one of you for reading and being part of this community this past year; your thoughtful comments always brighten up my day and they usually give me something interesting to mull over. I hope to see you in the comments section next year! (But check back before then because I have a couple more posts coming your way before 2019)

Best of 2018: What I Bought (Part 2)

These are some of my favourite non-clothing purchases of the year.

2018 Mitsubishi Mirage

So, yeah: I bought a car this year. Up until this summer, we have been a one-car family; while our Subaru Outback is a great family car, I didn’t particularly like driving it. I like small, compact cars because I feel I have a better sense of direction/space in them; parking an SUV is one of my worst nightmares. I don’t do much driving, especially in the winter, but I really missed the freedom of just being able to go places without having to worry about logistics … or parking stress. The Mirage was the right size (SMALL!), and offered the most value for my budget; I’m not a car person, so I was mostly concerned with having the basic comforts: AC, heated seats, back-up camera, etc., all of which came standard with the entry level package. Anyway, I love driving my little car and it’s definitely my favourite non-clothing purchase of the year, but this is one thing where your mileage may definitely vary – no pun intended – so don’t take this as any sort of testimonial.

Augustus the Fiddle Leaf Fig

2018 was also the year when I became a plant mom. It hasn’t always been easy, but Augustus is one of our success stories and my pride and joy. Fiddle leafs are notoriously finicky plants, so the fact that he looks to be thriving (we recently got the second set of new leaves) makes me incredibly happy. Auggie is also a very handsome fellow who makes a big impact on our living space; he’s even managed to make a fan out of my husband, who started off by calling him a “cabbage”.

Thayers Rose Petal Witch Hazel Toner

I feel like I spent the first part of the year experimenting with my beauty routine, only to spend the last six months drastically simplifying it again as my interest in all things skincare began to wane again. I currently have it narrowed down to about 5-6 regular products (which might sound like a lot, but isn’t considering where I started) which seem to keep my skin happy. For my morning toner, I am still a fan of The Ordinary’s Lactic Acid 5% solution, but the company shenanigans (and constant shipping delays) have made me a bit leery of getting too reliant on it. Lately, I have been alternating between the Lactic Acid (working through my stockpile) and the Thayers Rose Petal Witch Hazel Toner. I don’t feel like the latter is as astringent as the Lactic Acid, but it still works on the morning “slick” and it doesn’t make my skin angry. The best part is that I can Amazon Prime a large bottle for under $20 in less than 48 hours – instant gratification is the best kind of gratification.

Structube Miles Day Bed

We have been low-key remodelling our main floor all year, and while we are nowhere close to being finished yet, our living room is looking pretty nice. Swapping out my old IKEA half-shell chairs for this Structube bench/day bed really upped the style ante. I love the dark green velvet, and it works surprisingly well with all the other colour in the room. As a bonus, it’s also practical (can sit up to 3 people in a pinch) and comfortable (we have all been known to take turns reclining on it, but the kids are its biggest fans).

Cozy therapy Plush

I’m only somewhat joking when I say that my son is addicted to his cozy plush; he asks for it to be heated every night before he goes to bed, and he assures me that it really helps his sore muscles. Why does a 7-year old have so many sore muscles? I have no idea. Having borrowed it once or twice, I will say that this thing is pretty handy (and a nicer alternative than a water bottle, IMO) if, for example, you experience any aches and pains at certain times of the month. Ahem.

Jiffy ESTEAM handheld steamer

This thing was a game changer for me vis-à-vis clothes maintenance. I use it on all my thrifted finds, as well as to refresh clothes between washings/dry cleanings. And it does a good job of getting wrinkles out of most fabrics; it won’t deliver a perfectly crisp button-down shirt like an iron would, but then again – I don’t wear button-down shirts, crisp or otherwise. [My husband irons his own shirts, though he is a fan of the steamer as well.] But use with caution: I recently managed to give myself a first degree burn by getting too close to the steam. It’s much hotter than you would think.

[Side note: I applied my Dr. Jart Cicapair cream to the burn, and it has healed without any issues/scars.]

Anthropologie flower vases

I thrifted a lot of great home decor stuff this year, and while it’s hard to pick favourites, my three Anthropologie flower vases are probably at the top of the list. Two of them were older styles, which were actually thrifted not by me, but by my friend Jenn (Life Preloved) who passed them along to me. I also bought one of the new styles that came out at Anthropologie this fall, and it did take quite a bit of willpower not to buy more.

Books

Y’all know I love books, but as I was revisiting my mental list of books read in 2018, I couldn’t think of many that would pass the “favourites” threshold. I guess I read a lot of “okay but not memorable” books this year? I dunno, I could also be suffering from pre-holidays mental daze. In any case, here are some that I can still remember and recommend wholeheartedly:

We Are Never Meeting In Real Life, Samantha Irby

Hillbilly Elegy: A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis, J. D. Vance

Champagne Supernova: Kate Moss, Marc Jacobs, Alexander McQueen and the 90s Renegades Who Remade Fashion, Maureen Callahan (a must-read for any Gen-Xer who loves fashion and gossip)

OK, your turn: what were your favourite things that you bought this year? And please, for the love of dog, send me your books reccs so I can start 2019 strong!

What I Wore: December 10-14, 2018

Faux Festive

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It’s hard to feel festive when life is pelting you with lemons, but ‘tis the season of office Christmas parties, potlucks and gift exchanges, and the season won’t wait. Fake it till you make it, right? I wore a lot of red-hued clothing last week, and that seemed to help – if not my mood, then at least my efforts to blend in. [To be honest, it also seems to be the season for everyone to be cranky and stressed out at work, so I probably didn’t need to worry too much about my lack of joviality standing out.]

I hesitate to put this Cartonnier brick-coloured blazer into the “red” category, but since I don’t actually own a lot of truly red clothing, it gets a pass. The cut and colour work nicely with my Zero+Maria Cornejo dress, which I am always happy to wear. Speaking of which:

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But also:

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Pin One On and Carry On

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Things did not improve as the week went on, so my next attempt at faking some (sartorial) cheer involved red AND a bit of bling. Overcompensating? Perhaps. It also involved a black cashmere turtleneck because why not wrap yourself in something soft and vaguely reminiscent of a safety blankie? Actually, I think the correct term is “comfort object”, but you know what I mean. Whatever we’re calling it, black turtlenecks are it for me. Don’t believe me?

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Tell me, what’s your style “comfort object”?