What I Wore: January 3-12, 2019

Finally, Dries

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The stalking, it finally paid off. I’m talking about eBay and my obsession with hunting down a Dries Van Noten creation to call my own. This dress is a dream. I wanted a patterned piece because patterns are what makes DVN clothes special, and this one does not disappoint. That aside, the silhouette checks off a lot of boxes for me. It has sleeves, but not bulky ones that would prevent layering. The cut is body-skimming without being tight or super form-fitting. [Read: it’s comfortable AF.] It has a high neckline, and a midi hem – but, and this is key, the bottom foot of material is actually a double-layer of sheer silk in a gorgeous contrast floral. I love that detail because it adds a bit of flirtiness – similar to my beloved blue Phillip Lim dress.

I didn’t do anything fancy with this inaugural wear except slap on a belt. While I like the fluid, elongated silhouette of the unbelted dress, I appreciate that it also looks great when the waist is emphasized. I can’t wait to wear it again soon.

Little Lord Fauntleroy

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I got these Ett Twa mustard trousers at Anthropologie (clearance rack) last year because I love this paperbag waist style. [Technically, they were a gift from my husband.] The waist tie is attached, and there is a side zipper; all in all, these feel like fancy pyjamas. Fancy pyjamas that are office-appropriate. Score! Also, mustard – or let’s say marigold because it sounds nicer. I love this shade of yellow, especially if not worn too close to my face.

Pairing these pants with my beloved ruffly AllSaints blouse might have been a tad much but … we like a little excess here, from time to time. The simple Lida Baday cropped blazer is a nice, unobtrusive third piece; it fits like a cardigan, but has the dress-up look of a blazer, which helps to keep the overall vibe from being too child-like. Speaking of the blouse, here are a few other ways I’ve worn it; it’s a favourite for a reason, it really helps to make every outfit a little more special.

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Christmas, Part Deux

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I wore this to (Orthodox) Christmas dinner with my in-laws. I wanted to be festive, but also wear my newly thrifted faux-leather cropped top – and, voila, an outfit was born. Someone on IG commented on my apparent commitment to wearing (p)leather for Christmas which was an astute observation, though I think it was coincidence more than intention on my part. I have been slowly assembling a whole line-up of (p)leather pieces, and I love to mix them in with both work and casual outfits. This was a particularly successful deployment, if I do say so myself.

In The Pink

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This pink coat continues to be one of the biggest compliment-getters in my entire wardrobe. I wore it two weekends ago with my Line sweater dress (above), and last weekend with this amazing new sweater coat I thrifted (below), and it looked smashing both times.

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Let’s talk about that sweater coat for a moment, because it deserves it. Can you believe it was priced at $5 at Value Village? For all their gross up-pricing, sometimes VV still manages to (pleasantly) surprise me. Online reviews on the Anthro website complained of itchiness, which – duh, it’s a wool coat. Personally, I layer a thin cotton top (usually long sleeved) under most of my knits to avoid any problems of that sort as well as for extra warmth, so I did not find this coat bothersome at all; on the contrary, it was nice and cozy, and a great statement piece to boot. So I’m very grateful to its previous owner for passing it on.

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I Did A Thing, Vol. 15

I should start calling this series “I Made A Thing” because, let’s face, it’s mostly an excuse for me to show you my most recent craft projects. With that warning in mind, let’s proceed, shall we.

After finishing a slew of Xmas crafts for friends and family, I felt re-energized to tackle some personal projects. First up was a project I had been wanting to do for some time: a portrait/cartoon of Frida Kahlo.

I love Frida’s use of colour and abstract imagery in her art, and recently ordered a biography by Hayden Herrera to read up on her life. There are lots of examples of Frida-inspired embroidery online, and after much deliberation, I chose these two pictures as my inspiration:

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I made a quick sketch that incorporated elements from both, and once I was happy with it, I traced it again with a Sharpie then copied it onto my muslin canvas.

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I ended up incorporating a few touches of my own into my project; I decided to use scraps from an old thrifted skirt for Frida’s blouse, and a vintage earring (with the original clip back removed) as a brooch. I also bought some metallic gold-tone thread for the earrings, and used beads as accents there and on the flower crown. The eyes and hair were made from felt. The most nerve-wracking part was the eyebrows; it’s tricky to get them to be more or less symmetrical, and this was a pretty iconic pair of eyebrows to begin with. Still, they turned out ok.

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As I was working on the piece, I came to be quite fond of the back/reverse side – still recognizably Frida, but in a cool, abstract way:

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And here is the final result – it’s one of my favourite pieces, and one of the most fun to make.

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I feel like I’m a roll with this portrait thing — and I tend to go through phases with my embroidery – so I’m currently looking for my next subject. Possible contenders include Anne of Green Gables or maybe Elizabeth I (can you tell I’m dying to work on a redhead?); another option is a portrait in the style of Tamara de Lempicka. If you’ve got suggestions, let me know in the comments.

State of the Wardrobe, 2019 Edition

2018 was the Year of Thrift. Though I have been thrifting regularly for the past 4-5 years, I kicked things up a notch last year. Nearly all of my clothing and accessory purchases (undergarments excluded) were secondhand, the vast majority being thrifted. I can count my 2018 retail clothing purchases on one hand; accessories would require an extra hand or two, mostly because I can’t seem to resist Anthro’s clearance jewelry section.

2018 was also my biggest year for thrifting designer labels. A non-exhaustive list includes YSL, Armani Collezione, Burberry, Manolo Blahnik, Jil Sander, Prada, Zero+Maria Cornejo, Roger Vivier, AllSaints, Smythe, Theory, Vince, by Malene Birger, Sarah Pacini, and Lela Rose. Needless to say, I feel extremely fortunate – nay, spoiled – by the Edmonton thrift scene. As an added bonus, it includes a wonderfully supportive group of fellow thrift enthusiasts and bloggers, who share information and tips freely.

2018 was a year of self-discovery for me, style-wise. I spent the better part of the year refining an aesthetic that feels “just right” in my current phase of life; but I have also come to realize and accept that style – which is a primary mode of self-expression for me – will never be a static concept in my life. It is a constantly evolving thing, reflective of the person I am in the process of becoming.

2018 was a purchase-heavy year. I’m loath to put a number out there, but suffice to say that it’s the second highest of the 5 years during which I’ve been tracking my clothing purchases (2014 to 2018 inclusive). Given the above, that shouldn’t be a big surprise to anyone. There are so many amazing pieces to be thrifted, and as selective as I have become (yes, really!), saying “no” to some of them is beyond my willpower. Some of them were calculated risks – some of which paid off, some of which didn’t. Some of them were impulse buys, including those of the “should have known better” type. About 1/3 of items I bought in 2018 are already gone from my closet – most of them, I hasten to add, to consignment (and the balance either re-donated or reserved for my next clothing swap).

2018 was a fairly frugal year. This might surprise you, coming on the heels of the preceding paragraph, but it shouldn’t. In total, I spent approximately $2,900 on clothing and accessories. [This number excludes undergarments, though they total somewhere in the region of $200-$250, largely because I had to replace a bunch of bras and underwear this year.] The total is the second lowest of the past 5 years. It doesn’t account for all the money I made reselling clothes in 2018, some of which I haven’t spent yet. For any fellow number geeks out there, my out-of-pocket costs were approximately 4.9% of the original manufacturer recommended retail price of the items I bought. Again, I am incredibly lucky in this regard; there is no way that I could afford to have the closet that I do have
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A word on budgets: I keep seeing the figure of “up to 5% of net pay” being thrown around as a benchmark of what a person (woman?) “ought” to spend on clothing. I feel weirdly responsible for this, having bandied about that same number almost a decade ago; to be clear, the idea didn’t originate with me – I think I first read it in a fashion magazine, though I can’t remember – and I have no doubt that it propagated no thanks to my efforts. In any case, I think it’s a statement that should come with a huge caveat, and I feel obliged to include it here. It’s mostly bollocks. There, I said it. There is no “one size fits all” when it comes to discretionary spending of this sort, even with the wiggle room of the implied range (0-5%). On one end of the spectrum, there is a base level of clothing needs which have to be met no matter the person’s income, debt level and/or other financial obligations; sometimes, 5% won’t be enough (at least for a period of time). On the other end of the spectrum, people value different things; some people value and prioritize clothing over other discretionary spending (assuming there are available dollars to begin with), while others most certainly don’t. For me, $2,900 is an acceptable amount to spend on something that is both functional and a hobby. It doesn’t interfere with my day-to-day financial obligations or my family’s long-term plans, and it appropriately reflects the value I place on clothing (and shopping as an activity/hobby). To me, that’s far more important than the fact that it also, coincidentally, fits within the “5% or less” range.

Lastly, 2018 was a year of constant curation. My closet hasn’t magically grown in size – alas! – and I’m sure you can imagine the challenges posed by a steady incoming stream of new (to me) purchases. My wardrobe numbers have been pretty steady throughout the year; I haven’t bothered to go back to check against last year’s tally, but I think they are similar. The current numbers are:

Tops – 33

Sweaters & cardigans – 41 (I think this number went up, oops!)

Blazers – 27

Pants (including jeans) – 28

Skirts – 15

Dresses (including special occasion) – 33

Outerwear – 14

Shoes – 49

Bags – 33

As far as goals for 2019, I don’t have any major ones. I plan to continue limiting retail purchases as much as possible; I would love to say I will go “secondhand only” for the entire year, but I don’t think that’s realistic and I’m not a fan or arbitrary challenges. Since my closet is not lacking for anything (except a couple of replacement pieces here and there), I plan to focus my thrifting efforts on favourite designers who cater to my aesthetic, to either expand my current collection of statement pieces or upgrade existing wardrobe staples. But, let’s be real, I am sure there will be more than a few “experiments” along the way as well, and I’m okay with that.

Do you have any wardrobe/shopping goals for 2019? Would love to hear from you in the comments, especially if you’ve been tracking your closet stats this past year (or before).