What I Wore: July 16-22, 2018

90s Throwback

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To be clear, I am referring to my outfit, and specifically the vintage Jones NY skirt, and not my own self. We would have to throw back a lot farther if that were the case. Ba-dum-tish. Did I mention that I’m turning 38 in, oh, one week’s time? I don’t feel a day over 22, and I am always slightly mortified when I think about the disconnect between how I see myself and how others see me. So I try not to think about it, which seems like the only sensible solution.

Anyway, the outfit. I don’t know how old this skirt is, but it has a 90s vibe to it which makes it “on trend” with the current revival of that decade. The trendiness isn’t what attracted me to it, though it’s always nice to feel even accidentally fashionable; I have been moving away from pencil skirts lately and looking for new silhouettes. Midi and maxi skirts intrigue me, and the details of this particular skirt are very good. It’s minimalist, but not dowdy – that’s a stealthy slit that comes up past the knee – and the quality is excellent (fully lined, 100% lightweight wool). Keeping in line with my Artist persona, I paired the skirt with a relaxed fit, chambray-like Theory top, and a structured blazer for contrast. The chunky necklace is from Chico’s, of all places, but we’ll just pretend it’s Anthro or something, mkay?

Autumn in July

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The weather has been all over the calendar lately; it’s hot one day, cold the next, and sometimes it’s hot and cold all in one day. My office AC is another matter, and only slightly less unpredictable. Don’t take this as a complaint, because anything that isn’t winter is a good thing in my books, but it’s been a weird summer. Which explains as much of this outfit as can be explained. Actually, it was a very weather-smart choice; the jacket was perfect for the chilly morning, and the sleeveless shell was perfect for the office temps. The top covers enough of my shoulders that I don’t feel too exposed without a topper. I do love the full, blazered effect because it’s got that professor vibe I love – I’m calling it “the Adventurer goes to Oxford”.

Prairie Chic

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This is one of those divisive outfits that you’ll either love or hate. Needless to say, I fall into the first camp. This Wilfred dress was a recent thrift score; it’s 100% cotton and I adore everything about it. Rather that pile on more volume – though it’s only a matter of time before that happens, fyi – I decided to dig up this old Tabitha cropped jacket and go for a sorta Neo-Georgian-by-way-of-Little-House-On-The-Prairie effect. Remember Pride and Prejudice?

Who wore it better?
Who wore it better?

Seven Years

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That’s how old my son is. Seven years. Does not compute. He’s only about a foot shorter than me, and some days he looks (and acts) like a teenager and I. Just. Cannot. Compute. Does it ever became more plausible? Like, am I going to be looking at him in 20 years’ time and wondering how it’s possible that he is my son – that small, wrinkly, little bean they put in my arms at the hospital one day?

Leaving aside the existential questions, this was the outfit I wore to the celebratory dinner. Per the birthday boy’s request, we went to Boston Pizza – he is only 7, after all. This linen Lord & Taylor dress was perfect for the occasion, though I’m not sure it wouldn’t be perfect for every occasion. It’s literally a big sack, but it’s also somehow the most flattering shapeless thing ever. I’m also quite madly in love with these Barbara Barbieri sandals. I don’t own any other high heeled sandals, but these are very comfortable, and the spikes add a bit of edge.

I Did A Thing, Vol. 8

It’s been a hot minute since the last time I wrote about my crafting adventures, and you guys must be dying for an update. No, it’s okay, you don’t have to rush to affirm my suspicion. Imma go ahead and give you that update anyway.

I go through phases with crafting, as with reading. Lately, I’ve been on a knitting kick. As I’ve written before, I have struggled far more with learning how to knit than I did with embroidery; I don’t find it as intuitive. Because I’m a contrary sort of person, the challenge is making me double down on knitting in this case – as opposed to give up, which is an equally likely response on my part to recreational endeavours that don’t go the way I want them to. Anyway, I’m knitting all the time, and I am determined to eventually make a finished product with which I can be 100% satisfied. I’m not there yet, but I’m moving slowly in the right direction.

I have learned a few basic patterns/stitches in the meantime, including garter, stockinette, ribbing, seed, rice, moss, star stitch, and Chinese weave. In the course of my struggle with seed stitch, I finally learned how to read my stitches, which has been a tremendous help. I would like to experiment more with slip stitch patterns, but for now, I am focusing my energies on the aforementioned quest to make some sort of useful product.

I did make a striped scarf, which didn’t turn out too badly.

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Making one of sufficient size – I like my scarves to resemble blankets, really – takes a long time, but it’s not difficult. I could just stick to making these in perpetuity (there is an almost infinite number of colour combinations to pursue) but how many scarves does one woman – and her nearest and dearest – need? Finding simple patterns online for making non-scarf items has been challenging. I bought a book of patterns, but later realized that they were all either too advanced for me (all the ones I liked, basically) or not quite my style. There was an exception; I did use one of the easier patterns to make a very nice scarf for my husband.

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My own pattern-making skills are laughable, so I haven’t tried anything too adventurous. This was my first attempt at an envelope-style clutch:

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For the record, this was supposed to be done in seed stitch, but I messed up – which is what happens when you try to follow online instructions, and also don’t know how to read your knitting. Anyway, I think the rib stitch works just fine for this. I added a snap and a decorative brooch (an old beading project) and was not wholly displeased with the result.

My most recent attempt at a self-made pattern was an obi-style wrap belt. To back up, I learned a bit about increasing and decreasing by following a headband pattern I found online (this one). Here’s a pic of that project:

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I used a slightly modified approach to make my belt. On the ends, rather than increasing by one stitch every other row, I increased by 2 (one at each end of the row). The body of the belt was done using a star stitch pattern; I mostly eyeballed the width, and the nice thing about this type of design is that it can be customized pretty easily.

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The hardest parts to make were actually the ties; I braided them out of the same yarn as the rest of the belt, but then decided to get fancy and add beads at the end of each “tassel”. Threading them onto the yarn was a total pain in the you-know-what. Still, I think the result looked pretty good.

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That about sums up my recent knitting adventures. If you have easy (and free) patterns to recommend for my next project(s), leave me a comment!

What I Watched & You Should Too!

I’m writing this post mostly because I just watched Hannah Gadsby’s Nanette special, and I felt the need to add my voice to the chorus of people telling you that you NEED to watch this, immediately. It’s rare that I feel such a visceral reaction to any show, much less a comedy special, but Nanette far transcends its genre. I’m giving it a few days to settle, then I plan on re-watching it because I am in awe of the way that Gadsby wrote and structured the show – it’s so brilliant, and it builds upon itself, layer by layer, to a perfect ending. It will devastate you, but in the best possible way. Seriously, “x” out of here and go watch it right now. Do it!

Did you watch it?

I hope so.

If you’re looking for more reccs, here are a few other things I read/watched recently.

This is not breaking news, but Hillbilly Elegy was a very interesting read. As a (white) immigrant from an “undesirable” European country, I’ve always felt like an outsider to the social class system here in the West, but reading Elegy re-framed my perspective on that to some extent. I have much less in common with the “hillbillies” that JD Vance writes about than I thought I did, largely because of education. I was poor growing up (particularly by Western standards) but everyone in my family, going back to both sets of grandparents, had post-secondary education and I grew up in an environment where academic success was highly valued (and, in fact, demanded). I don’t think I really understood before how much of a difference that makes, not necessarily in immediate economic terms, but in the mindset of a child and, ultimately, their long-term trajectory in life.

On a completely different note, I also really enjoyed browsing through The Cool Factor by Andrea Linnett, and was greatly inspired by it. I normally dislike style books that focus on “key pieces” (because everyone has different tastes, needs and lifestyles) but Linnett does so in a way that doesn’t feel prescriptive. For example, there is a chapter on how to incorporate leather into your wardrobe, and various options are included – from classic leather jackets, to skirts, pants, leggings, etc. Concepts are illustrated through outfits worn by different women (not models) with varying aesthetics, which I found very helpful. [I will say that, while there is some diversity among the women featured, there isn’t any real plus size representation in the book.] I wouldn’t say that there is anything particularly revolutionary about the book, but reading it sparked a renewed sense of excitement about exploring and expressing my own style – almost as if I had been busted out of a clothes rut I didn’t know I was in.

Lastly, I recently watched Thor: Ragnarok and was completely charmed by it. I attribute this 100% to the involvement of Taika Waititi; I have not seen any previous Thor movies, and Chris Hemsworth is not a Chris I get excited about. Ragnarok was just a lot of fun – and really funny! Afterwards, I promptly re-watched What We Do In the Shadows (a must if you haven’t seen it), and then checked out Hunt for the Wilderpeople, which I also enjoyed a lot. It’s funny and sweet (but not cloying in the least), and the performances are spot on. I was actually sad when the movie ended, because I wanted to watch more of Ricky and Hec’s bush adventures. It’s a good antidote if you’re feeling down – and, let’s face it, there are lots of reasons these days why you might be.