Style Inspo: Sprezzatura

I think I’ve written about the concept of sprezzatura on the blog before. It came back into my mind recently, as I’ve been thinking about style inspiration. To recap, the term was coined by Baldassare Castiglione in his 1528 Book of the Courtier, who defined it as “[a] certain nonchalance, so as to conceal all art and make whatever one does or says appear to be without effort and almost without thought.” It originally described the attitude of an ideal courtier who could display “an easy facility in accomplishing difficult actions which hides the conscious effort that went into them.” The Oxford English dictionary defines sprezzatura as “studied carelessness”. Sprezzatura was not originally about fashion, but it’s now most commonly used in that context in North America – and, specifically, primarily men’s fashion.

Some general rules of sprezzatura have been promulgated, including wearing of clothes that are visibly well-worn or a bit shabby, wearing vintage clothing, and combining casual and formal dress. I also found this quote instructive:

Theorists and purists believe sprezzatura is an ever-evolving concept of always but carefully going against the grain. When others keep their shirts buttoned all the way up to the collar, the daringly sophisticated man, for instance, always leaves one or two undone. These days, though, with the undone collar being the accepted casual norm, the sprezzatura-inspired guy would find pleasure in the specific formality of an up-to-the-collar buttoned shirt …

But if you search for sprezzatura inspiration online, its popular definition seems to be flattened to what is, basically, a type of dandyism. More annoyingly, from my perspective, sprezzatura as applied to women’s fashion seems to be equated to effecting menswear-inspired looks. While I am a fan of dandy fashion (and its femme equivalent), I feel like this approach misses the point and the potential of sprezzatura. I want to see outfits that embody “studied nonchalance” without resorting to a waistcoat or tie. Searching key terms online hasn’t been very fruitful.

After giving up on Google, I pondered what sprezzatura might look like in women’s fashion. Prairie skirts and combats boots? Satin slip dresses and leather jackets? Tulle skirts and traditional wool blazers? I think juxtapositions can definitely be an illustration of sprezzatura. Mixing vintage and contemporary pieces, or wearing vintage pieces with decidedly contemporary styling, too. I think, for me, the key would be for the outfit to be just shy of “perfectly finished”. The look can be maximalist and accessorized to the max, but not pat. It must have the faintest hint of rebellion, of deconstruction of the expectations which the outfit itself creates.

Now, most of my outfits probably do not achieve sprezzatura and if they do, it’s entirely by accident. Which is ironic. But revisiting this concept at this time has made me want to give more considered thought to how I build my outfits and, specifically, how I can incorporate an element of subversion (that going against the grain) into them. I don’t have answers, but I am inspired.

I would love to hear your thoughts on what sprezzatura means to you.

What I Wore: May 2022, part two

Details: InWear sweater (thrift), Zara blazer (thrift), Cartonnier pants (thrift), A&F bag (thrift), Chelsea Crew shoes (thrift)

Thoughts: I loved this combo of brown and purple. It works better than I would have thought, but once again it’s that orange-brown that pulls it together. I really enjoy wearing this pants; they are a surprise hit because I had some reservations about them when I first bought them. Not all high waisted pants work on me, but these ones are great.

Details: Pendleton sweater (thrift), Cartonnier jacket (thrift), MarkAntoine x Icone skirt (thrift)

Thoughts: Not much to say here except that the colour of this cotton Pendleton sweater is pretty much perfect, and is a great accessory to this fun, funky skirt.

Details: J. Crew shirt (thrift), Line sweater (thrift), On the Verge skirt (thrift), Mackage jacket (thrift), J. Crew shoes (retail)

Thoughts: I don’t buy short skirts anymore but I made an exception for this one because I love the vintage floral pattern. It’s a vintage (made in the US) denim wrap skirt. It has a nice little touch – there is a piece of elastic that connects the two side of the wrap skirt so that it doesn’t fly fully open on a windy day. Since I wore it on a windy day, I really appreciate that, hah!

Details: Maeve top (thrifted), Zara robe (thrifted), Acne skirt (ebay), J. Crew shoes (retail)

Thoughts: Another blue/burgundy combo and it works so well. I think it grounds this formal-casual mix of pieces, so the result is cohesive. This is my kind of WFH outfit — dressed up but comfortable.

Details: Wilfred sweater (thrift), YSL blazer (thrift), Ralph Lauren skirt (thrift), Manolo Blahnik shoes (thrift)

Thoughts: This outfit combines my old style — more traditional business wear — with the new (aka my obsession with all things Ralph Lauren). I’ve worn this blazer a few different ways over the years, but this might be my favourite outfit to date. It’s a simple outfit with a minimalist colour palette, but it has a lot of visual interest for me.

Details: Talbots sweater (Poshmark), Pilcro jeans (thrift), J. Crew shoes (retail)

Thoughts: Not gonna lie — I knew I wanted to pair these two pieces as soon as I bought the sweater. The colour palette is the same and the patterns are very similar, albeit at different scales, which screamed “perfect combo” to me, I guess. And you know what, it was great — comfy and fun.

Details: Kate Spade sweater (thrift), Maeve skirt (Poshmark), Manolo Blahnik shoes (thrift)

Thoughts: I liked this outfit a lot, but not as much as people on IG did. In fairness, this skirt *is* pretty darn amazing, so I understand why everyone loves it. This was a cute outfit, but I wouldn’t say that it was my favourite of the week. It’s always so interesting to see the difference between what resonates with me and what impresses other people. Posting outfits on IG can create a sense of needing to please other people, but I’ve learned that it’s not the key to long-term personal fulfillment — sartorial or otherwise.

Journaling: The Me of Now

One. Quilts

Patchwork quilts. Clothes made from patchwork quilts. Anything patchwork. I can’t get enough. The image above is of a beautiful Seven Sisters pattern quilt I was able to find for $5 at the thrifts. It needs some loving care to fix a few rips, but it’s so lovely. I’ve found another patchwork quilt that I love (mixed plaids!) but I’m still looking for my Holy Grail: Ralph Lauren’s vintage (80s) patchwork clothing.

Two. This outfit

It’s Ralph Lauren, of course. It so perfectly encapsulates the Historian avatar of 2022. I don’t wear berets, but I am almost tempted to try. I’ve talked a lot lately about my preferred skirt length, and this is a perfect example of what my current ideal. I think it was a fairly popular style in the 90s, so I am keeping an eye out for them at the thrift stores. I am probably rather late to this game, as 80s and 90s items are starting to become more and more rare, but better late than never. In coming years, I expect thrift stores will be completely overrun with fast fashion … but that is a story for another time.

Three. Neoclassical

I am still in full nesting mode, and thinking a lot about interior design. I’ve started watching home & garden type shows again (a change of pace from murder mysteries) and it’s interesting to see the design trends as well as “average” people’s decorating choices. I can safely say that my (and my husband’s) taste is something of an outlier, which I am okay with. Seeing very different houses and design aesthetics doesn’t make me question mine, but it does help me look upon it with a more critical eye which is helpful for refining my aesthetic. Interior design is a lot like fashion in that sense.

Four. Iris season

It snowed again last week. I am so tired of this weather seesaw. As much as I am enjoying this sartorial season of wool blazers and skirts, sweaters, leather, and all the layers, I also long for summer. I want my garden to be green and blooming again. I want to see my irises. Since we are not planning any travel until the late summer, for now I have to be content with waiting and looking at other people’s images of spring.

Five. A moat!

A couple of weeks ago, I posted some stories on IG from a book of English interiors. One of them was taken at Eltham Palace in London, which is open to the public. One of my friends who lives in London decided to visit, and sent me some more photos of the grounds – including this amazing moat. So dreamy! I have no desire to live in a castle (or even a very large mansion) but I kinda want to have a moat.