Best of 2019: Favourite (And Not) Purchases

The holiday season is upon us, which means a new year is just around the corner. I have spared you my gift guides and holiday must-have lists, but I still have some pretensions to being a style blogger. ‘Tis time, friends.

Time to look back upon the year and wax a little bit poetic about the things I have worn, bought, enjoyed. Nothing will be linked; nothing will be sponsored. And I hope that you, too, will share some of your 2019 favourites. It’s how we do things around here.

Today, I am going to talk about about my favourite purchases of the year, and maybe a few not-so-great ones.

I am going to leave the nitty gritty stats for another day (probably in January) but for now suffice to say that I spent less and bought less in 2019 than in 2018, although 2019 was higher in overall quantity (not cost) than most years previous to 2018. 2018 was the year when I began shopping almost exclusively secondhand (and primarily thrift), which explains the trend. Thrifting allows me to “experiment” with clothes at a low cost, which is something I enjoy a lot; the items that don’t work out for me in the long run are either sold, re-donated or swapped. So, while I cycle through a large volume of clothes, my wardrobe stays roughly the same size, and my spending has gone down, year over year. I have been getting more selective in my clothing purchases the longer I’ve been thrifting but, well, the temptation is sometimes too great. As you will see, most of my “worst buys” were not necessarily terrible pieces, but simply things that didn’t work for me, and I should have known better than to try to make them work.

Fave Purchases of 2019

Gap striped sweater (thrifted, $5) – Nothing fancy, but it’s one of those pieces that makes an outfit. It makes me happy when I wear it, and people love it – it’s a compliment magnet.

Elizabeth & James vest (thrifted, $18) – This is a very versatile layering piece, and the small herringbone print “reads” like a nice neutral. I like the elongated proportions, which make this a fun piece to use to play around with outfit proportions.

Rick Owens vest (thrifted, $8) – This was a thrifting dream come true. Rick Owens is one of my favourite designers, and finding a piece from one of his collection is special not matter what. On top of that, this is just a really cool vest, and great for layering.

Saint Laurent Rive Gauche plaid skirt (thrifted, $13) – Another little piece of fashion history. 2019 was the Year of the Skirt for me, and this was one of the items that pushed me to embrace midi skirts. I adore this skirt and it’s one of those things I can legitimately see myself (or my daughter) wearing in 10-15 years’ time.

Ralph Lauren plaid skirt (thrifted, $6.50) – The skirt for all my grown-up princess-dress-up dreams. It’s double layered luscious silk, and I love how it swishes when I walk. It’s wearable for my daily life but just that extra bit special.

Zara green leather skirt (thrifted, $11) – I don’t love the quality of this skirt (it’s okay for being fast fashion) but I love the aesthetic. I’ve worn it a lot and I have to admit that it’s holding up well. I don’t opt for the pencil skirt silhouette very often these days, but this skirt adds an edge to it that I really like.

Australian brand skirt (thrifted, $8) – A random brand from Australia that I’d never heard about, but I was immediately sold on the draping details. It has a certain Vivienne Westwood flair to it, but I can wear it to work without feeling like I’m being unacceptably “extra”. [A little bit extra is basically my whole aesthetic.]

Issey Miyake dress (secondhand, $580) – Apart from my wedding dress almost 10 years ago (and my designer bags), this was the single most expensive clothing purchase I’ve ever made. But it was so worth it. This is the dress I could wear every day, and the one I would ask to be buried in. It fits like a dream, makes me feel like a million bucks, and can be dressed up or down for almost every occasion. It’s one of my fave pieces ever, not just of 2019.

Cartonnier faux fur collar jacket (thrifted, $20) – I love this little cropped jacket; it makes me feel a little bit cooler every time I wear it.

Mackage leather jacket (thrifted, $50) – A lucky score during a thrift sale day; this is a practically new, in perfect condition. I love leather jackets, and this one has the thickest, nicest leather – and it’s very warm as well.

Favourite accessories: Napoleoni flats (thrifted, $6); Rafael jewelry (all secondhand); beaded clutch (thrifted, $10).

Worst Purchases of 2019

Staring at Stars fur vest (thrifted, $16.50) – I love this in principle, but in action it makes me look like Chewbacca. I just don’t think I can pull it off. I will either keep this as a potential Halloween costume, or swap/donate it. I have no pictures of this because I haven’t worn it.

Elevenses linen coat (thrifted, $10) – A lovely coat that I’ve worn a few times, but not my style. I will probably either consign or try to sell it directly next spring.

H&M jacquard jacket (secondhand, $40) – I fell in love with the idea of this coat but later realized that it’s not particularly versatile for my lifestyle. If I had paid $10 for at the thrift store, it wouldn’t be as big of a deal. But I bought it from a reseller and paid quite a bit more than I would normally spend on a (non-leather) coat, especially from a fast fashion brand – hence some buyer’s remorse on my part.

MSGM mini skirt (thrifted, $13) – I was seduced by the label (and the fact it was new with tags) and ignored that it was (a) too short, (b) not really my style. I never wore this, and didn’t end up selling it, so I re-donated it.

Isabel Marant blouse (thrifted, $13) – same deal as above. Not really my style, but I was simply too excited to find a “cool girl” label. If I don’t end up selling it next spring, I may end up giving it another try out of sheer contrariness. Or just putting it in my annual clothing swap. Sigh.

Your turn: What were your best and worst purchases of 2019, and what if anything did you learn from them?

What I Wore: November 2019

We did it, friends. We survived November, the long prelude to winter. There are 3 weeks left until the holidays. Things are looking up. I know it’s a bad habit, but I am always a little more peppy when I have something fun – preferably involving time off – to look forward to. Still, reminder to self: live and love the moment. Especially now that November is over, hehe.

On to the clothes:

I tried to arrange these in a little collection; first the neutrals, then the colour. I think my favourite outfit of the month was the first one (top row, left) which makes sense because black is still my “power colour”. That being said, because I find November so bleak, I did make an extra effort to brighten up my outfits – hence the second row. I think it kinda helped? I can’t say that I felt very inspired in my outfits, but that’s par for the course for this time of year. As soon as the weather starts to turn, I wilt like the last of summer’s flowers.

I did buy a LOT of clothes this month, largely because of all the amazing finds thrown into my path by the thrift gods (I have only so much restraint, folks); but I also don’t think it was entirely unrelated to my feelings of sartorial malaise. I’ve started selling things again through my Instagram page, which is helping balance out my closet and my wallet. I also sat out Black Friday this year. The last time I went to a mall (back in October), I found it both overwhelming – from a sensory perspective – and underwhelming – as a shopping experience. Every store was packed with stuff, and for some reason, I find it hard to orient myself now around a retail layout versus a thrift one. Most of the pieces I thought were cute – especially the 90s revival stuff – looked like things I could find in a thrift store for a fraction of the price. Sticker shock was real. So I decided to not bother with the Black Friday sales and just keep on thrifting. I do have my eye on a couple of things I’ll probably end up buying at retail as a Xmas gift (including some Commando faux leather leggings, with which I fell in love after thrifting a pair at Value Village) but otherwise my big splurge nowadays is eBay. Let’s just say that I *may* have a pretty significant purchase in the works. To be continued …

What I Wore: November 19-24, 2019

In Neutral

Alternate title: bowl of oatmeal, but make it fashion. My BFF hates beige/oatmeal colours, and I wore this one day that we were hanging out. I did it half on purpose (because I’m that kind of friend), and half because I really love a monochromatic outfit, oatmeal or otherwise. Anyway, that title was her suggestions, but I am appropriating it without shame. I love everything about this outfit, from the proportions to the “polished” slouchiness.

Notes: Oak & Fort sweater (thrifted but gifted); Oak & Fort scarf (thrifted, don’t remember $); Jessica skirt (thrifted, $8); Stuart Weitzman boots (thrifted, $25); MaxMara coat (retail, $450).

The Great Skirt Hunt

I’m exaggerating a little bit. It wasn’t that big of a deal, but I did low key hunt this skirt on eBay for a long time. Eventually found it at my local consignment store, which happens often enough that I have to start wondering why I even bother with online shopping. Anyway, it’s a lovely skirt from Anthro’s heydays. I love the felted wool texture of the floral pattern – a cool little detail. I kept things casual with a coordinated sweater. Because of its volume (it’s an XL, but thrifters can’t be choosers), I did a little side twist ‘n tuck. My secret? Tucking into my tights. The only time I had to adjust was after a trip to the ladies’ room. I feel like I’m now veering into TMI territory, so I will end this now.

Notes: Moth sweater (thrifted, $7); Troubadour skirt (consignment, $42); J. Crew shoes (retail, $80).

Purple Mood

It’s been a while since I last wore these Club Monaco culottes, and to be honest I’m not sure if they still fit as well as they used, but this is a reminder (to self and the general universe) that they’re pretty cool. I have tended to pair them with safe colours, like purple, black, white, cream, grey, etc., but I went outside the box for this outfit. This cropped sweater also doesn’t get nearly the amount of love it deserves. Shine, neglected clothes, shine!

Notes: Monogram sweater (thrifted, $7); Club Monaco pants (retail, $102); Manolo Blahnik shoes (eBay, $128).