Spring Clothing Swap, Year 11

Clothing swaps have been a constant in my life for a long time (as the title of this post suggests), and while I still enjoy hosting them, this year I was not able to devote as much time to my preparations as in the past. I had no theme picked out in advance, and I scrambled to get everything ready at the last minute. Life, man – it gets in the way of all the fun stuff. Anyway, I threw together a bunch of décor things I had around the house, bought some flowers and a bunch of cheeses at Costco, and called it a day. It’s never a wholly terrible party if there’s cheese, amirite? (I didn’t JUST serve cheese, but let’s be honest, it was the highlight.)

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Besides, people don’t come to this sort of gathering for the food or the décor – they come for the clothes. And there were plenty of clothes to go around. This was just my batch:

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The tower of shoes:

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These photos are embarrassing when you consider how much of my own stuff I have been selling lately, but let me take this opportunity to make the same pledge I make (and break) every year: this is the last time I will have so much stuff to contribute to the swap. But, really, this is the year that promise will stick. I have a good feeling. Maybe.

As always, a good time and lots of laughs were had all around. There were tons of goodies, and it’s safe to say that no one went home empty-handed. Here are some of the clothes that were there for the taking:

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I tried really hard to get these Frye boots on but it was no-go. Sad trombone. They found a good home, don’t worry.

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My bestie got this awesome cape that matched her glasses.

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My friend K got a bunch of gorgeous dresses including this slinky number.

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My friend T found tons of colourful pieces to complement her bold style including this Ted Baker floral number that I (reluctantly) let go.

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The lovely S (IG uincolour) found some real gems like these Anthro pieces that actually look great together.

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Cassie (The Minuteglass) rocked this Moulinette Soeurs dress (and her pixie – jealous!)

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Jenn (Life Preloved) was delighted with this Mackage jacket (and a To did For Tadashi Shoji sequin mini among other things including, ahem, a certain pair of boots).

My friends L and O — who somehow managed to avoid my photographic efforts – did not go home empty handed either. Miraculously, each of us found things that seemed like they had been meant for us all along.

Speaking of which, here’s a list of the stuff I took home – stay tuned for photos coming to a blog near you soon:

– DVF “Aurora” wool sheath dress
– Talula “shrunken Exeter” purple blazer (this is my fave style in a gorgeous colour)
– Zoa grey tie-waist shirt
– Vanessa Virginia teal cardigan
– Rebecca Minkoff green bag (yes!)
– Fluevog monkstrap pumps (yes!!)
– Tara Jarmon silk pleat pants
– Colorpop lipsticks

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Have I convinced you yet that a clothing swap is a most fun and excellent idea? I hope so … and if you have already tried one yourself, tell me all about it.

What I Wore: March 1-11, 2018

Belted Floral

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This dress always photographs so well. And this (relatively) recently purchased Aritzia belt is a perfect complement to it. And then the coat, well, it’s the cherry on top of the sundae, you know? As photogenic as this outfit is, it’s not quuuuuiiiite my style. Is “too polished” a permissible quibble in this context? Probably not, coming from somehow in my line of work but … oh well. On this blog, I am all about radical honesty or whatnot. I did enjoy wearing this outfit, though, insomuch as it’s hard to feel unhappy in an outfit that makes you look nice.

Rediscovered Jacket

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Man, I used to love this jacket back in the day! I bought it in 2014, and wore it on my first day back to work after mat leave with my daughter. I will not forget that day; I was still carrying some extra weight, and was struggling with not fitting into many of my old professional clothes, but this jacket made me feel like a million bucks, which in turn made my return to work all the more comfortable – I felt ready to tackle the sky. As it turns out, it’s probably fair to say that period of my life was a turning point in my professional career. Anyway, recently dug this jacket out of my overflow closet and realized that it fits again. (Has my upper body Hulked up without me noticing? It’s a mystery but oh, well.) Again, I don’t think it’s perfectly aligned with my current style preferences, but I couldn’t bring myself to part with it permanently before giving it another spin (or two).

Ballerina Chic

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I initially thought I would flip this Anthro-brand sweater, but then I tried it on and decided to keep it for a while. Looking at it again, I am having second thoughts. Don’t get me wrong; it’s a lovely sweater but I think the style will be difficult to match up with other pieces in my wardrobe in a way that adheres to my preferred aesthetic. To be honest, I’m not sure that, apart from this outfit, there are any other viable options. Which is not to say that it would work tremendously well in someone else’s closet. I should probably stop now, since I’m completely talking myself out of keeping this sweater. Anyway, the brand name is Ballerina and that seems apropos – there is a definite ballerina chic flavor to it.

To follow up on my post from last week, I think these outfits are a good illustration of my current style struggle. I love these outfits, but they also kinda feel like they belong on another woman. I may, in fact, have been that woman, two years ago. There are still a lot of pieces in my closet that properly belong to that woman; many of them are pieces I am having a hard time letting go. So far, my compromise has been to try to mesh them with my present aesthetic, but in most cases, I feel like I’m fighting against the very things that makes those clothes special in the first place. In the long run, I will need to come up with another strategy. More to come …

What I Wore: Feb 18-28, 2018

Sequin Adventure

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I appreciate the Rebecca Taylor aesthetic, even though it skews more “feminine” than my current style, so I rarely pass up their items at the thrift store. I found this bouclé jacket in impeccable condition, including the fringe/sequin trim, so it was kind of a given. I seem to have a knack for finding these types of jackets; it’s my second RT piece with this sort of Chanel-esque vibe. Anyway, it’s a teensy bit on the small side (tight in the shoulders) so it may end up in the Thrift Rats shop, but I could not resist giving it a whirl first. The sequins jingle every time I move my hands. It’s rather delightful.

These high-waisted culottes are my go-to piece to pair with cropped jackets, and they serve their purpose well. Here’s a better look at the blouse I wore under the jacket, because it’s another recent thrift score:

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It’s a silk-front, dropped shoulder top from Theory. I can’t begin to tell you how luxurious it feels; not sure why, but cream silk always strikes me as particularly fancy. The back and sleeves are made out of some stretchy, soft, synthetic material, which makes the shirt also feel pretty comfy. Even considering the cowl neck (which I normally dislike), this blouse is a winner in my book. Until the inevitable, ineradicable spill that will eventually take it out of commission; you know it’s coming. Hopefully, by then, I will have gotten my money’s worth out of it – all $7 of it.

Lumberjack Chic

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I know I sound like a broken record, but seriously: I am ALL about the chunky sweater. As soon as I laid my hand on this one, I knew I had to have it – without even looking at the label. It’s Athé, by the way, which I believe is Vanessa Bruno’s diffusion line. It’s made out of a wool-mohair-acrylic blend, and it’s just gorgeous. I love the muted colours, all on the cool spectrum (my fave). Paired with my ubiquitous faux leather leggings and black turtleneck, and it’s the perfect weekend uniform.

And how about those boots? These were love at first sight, much like me and Erik Killmonger in that museum scene in Black Panther. The brand is the now-defunct Arnold Churgin, who used to make its house label shoes in Italy and Brazil so the leather and quality is fantastic. I just love the details on these boots, and they are comfy as all get out.

Purple Crush

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Velvet blazers are tricky. A lot of them can seem quite dated, depending on the design details, even though velvet is never really out of style. I think this Elie Tahari blazer skirts the line, but it was a risk nonetheless. A risk I could not resist taking on, because the quality was just so damn good. And that colour!

Can we talk about this bag for a minute:

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As I mentioned a while back, Anthro bags and I are having a moment. This one was thrifted by my blogging friend Jenn (Life Preloved), who kindly agreed to let me have it as part of a swap – how nice is that? When I asked her if she thought it would suit me, she laughed. I mean, OK. Touché. The floral print; the cute closure; the tortoiseshell accents. YES AND YES AND YES.