Stripes Ennui

Old Navy striped dress; Joseph Seibel Sandra 10 boots
Dress, Old Navy; belt, J. Crew; scarf, Winners; boots, Joseph Seibel; coat, Calvin Klein; bag, MbMJ (via eBay)

Could it be? I was crazy about stripes this past summer, but I’ve hardly worn them recently. Take this Old Navy dress for example. On paper, it’s perfect. Good weight cotton-spandex blend, 3/4 sleeves, stripes. I should be reaching for it all the time, and I’m not. I made myself wear it last weekend, and I still couldn’t get excited about it. I guess I’m just not feeling stripes at the moment.

I’m actually in the middle of an unplanned closet purge. Like most people, I usually give my closet the once-over twice a year (at the end of summer and winter), but I’m feeling trigger happy right now for some reason, so I’ve been culling right and left. Anything that doesn’t fit well, or is less than good quality, or feels too immature, is getting the boot. Most of the purge is happening in my work wardrobe, and I don’t think that’s coincidental; I’ve been thinking a lot lately about my career trajectory, past and future, and it has made me more conscious of the role my clothes play in my professional image (persona?). As much as fun, feminine prints and colours are a part of my style identity, I’m starting to feel like I need to be more mindful of how I present myself at work. And, yet, I’m torn. I spend so much of my time at work, and the thought of wearing a wardrobe full of neutrals, day in and day out, feels stifling. That sounds silly, I know. On the other hand, as a woman (and mother) in a male-dominated, client-oriented field, it’s important that I put my best foot forward at all times. My love of florals may have to take a back seat.

Have you ever thought about how the way you dress may be helping, or hindering, your career goals? Are your style and professional identity in sync, or at odds? And if it’s the latter case, how do you find a comfortable compromise?

Not Feeling It

office style; banana republic sloan ankle crop
Blouse, J. Crew (via consignment); pants, Banana Republic (via consignment); cardigan, J. Crew Factory; shoes, Calvin Klein; bag, Marc Jacobs (via eBay)

Oof, my hair. The first few weeks after a new perm are usually trying; combined with a too-short bangs trim, this go-around has served up more Tragic Hair Days than usual. The bangs situation is entirely my fault, and a lesson in why giving in to one’s laziness typically doesn’t pay off. I hate the hassle of going in for trims, so in order to avoid for as long as possible having to butcher my own bangs at home, I asked my stylist to cut them really short. Really short. Yikes short. Oh well. This too shall pass grow out.

The outfit is fine. The end.

marc jacobs spearmint blake bag
meh

Sweatshirt 24/7

J. Crew Dutch floral cropped sweatshirt
Shirt & vest, Old Navy; sweatshirt, J. Crew; pants, NYDJ (via consignment); boots, Nine West; bag, MbMJ (via eBay)

If you follow me on Instagram (you do, don’t you?), you’re probably heartily sick of this cropped sweatshirt. I seem to be wearing it all the bloody time … because I do. It’s a combination of having paid full retail price for it (albeit via gift card), and not being entirely sure I should have bought it at all. Classic wardrobe staple it is not, so I guess it’s just as well that I’m getting my money’s worth out of it now, before cropped sweatshirts go the way of the harem pants.

J. Crew Dutch floral cropped sweatshirt; Old Navy buffalo plaid shirt
Sunday morning blues

This Old Navy buffalo plaid shirt is probably my favourite match for the sweatshirt. I’ve struggled to figure out how to best layer it, and I feel like this is my best attempt yet. Minus the cropped pants/ankle boots thing, which I’m not sure I’m feeling. Whatever, I’m 80% there – just ignore everything from the ankles down. And while you’re at it, please ignore everything from the neck up too. If I look particularly bleary-eyed, it’s because this was the morning after my office Xmas party, and my daughter decided to get a different kind of party started at 5:30am. The fun never ends around here.

J. Crew Dutch floral cropped sweatshirt; old navy buffalo plaid shirt
hello, dutch floral!